No MU still ... but Jalal now misled!

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@Petal_Pose

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Posted: 11 years ago

#141

Cleo, your questions are very valid. Right now, both Jodha and Jalal are in a tough spot. I think both are right in their on own spot. I was unhappy with progress on Jalal's and Jodha physical proximity. I am just hoping Jalal will try to exercise some right as a husband, and Jodha will respond. I don't like this whole Jai and Veeru combo. I want passion.The cvs have made me impatient.

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RadhikaS0

@RadhikaS0

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Posted: 11 years ago

#142

Originally posted by: MaddyO

Well the hookah guzzling one also lied TO HIS FACE to his direct question!
The other one his so called BA would not know what truth is cos she never says it!

But of course if Jalal listens to them it is fine!

When Ruq lied to his face, she got a blast from him. Jalal values people a lot. He mostly avoids confronting people about what they did and prefers to cold shoulder them. He may not have said anything to MA or Ruq directly, but you can see their value is decreasing day by day. In today's episode, when he was feeling low about Jodha, he went to HB and not MA or Ruq as he would have done earlier. To me, it was a beautiful scene. His hurt at Jodha not sharing her problems with him was so visible.

Two points strike me at this juncture, correct me if I am wrong, Maddy:

1. He is more hurt by Jodha than by others because he cares more deeply for her than for others. What XYZ does means nothing to him unless they have done something bad with Jodha. What Jodha does, every small gesture, matters to him.

2. He ignores XYZ hurting him. But he starts reacting extremely with Jodha because he feels he has a haq on her and that she has no right to hurt him.

Going by today's precap and the way he accepted Jodha's resignation as harem head, I feel he is entering into extreme mode again and will be most intolerant of Jo till he finds the truth. I am saying intolerant to put it mildly. There may be much humiliation in store for Jodha again. And next will follow Jalal bashing. All the people who were applauding him for trusting Jodha till yesterday will aim for his head now.

I just want to say give the guy a chance. He wants to help Jo but doesn't even know what her problem is. he is hurt by her pain. and because she is stubbornly staying silent, he is getting frustrated, and venting his feelings on her. Once the truth comes out, everything will be fine again between the two. So wait patiently without bashing anyone please.

PS: I don't like people saying we bash anyone who does wrong. It's human nature to make mistakes. What is important is are the people ready to rectify their mistakes and both Jalal and Jodha are always ready to stand corrected.

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charu

@cjs369

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Posted: 11 years ago

#143

as ever an excellent post

somehow I am not happy with this Jodha's convenient vachan excuse...

first of all why give such a Vachan ?? Her husband's life is in danger and he has all the right to know whats happening...because of being misled by Sharifuddin ...all are busy searching for the wrong person, that too unsuccessfully ...

Jodha needs to tell Sujamal that its important to tell Jalal regarding the danger to his life and all the facts that have occurred...
Jodha's this mistake is making it very easy for.MA to play her next game...😡

Jalal is right in thinking that as a shehensha and her husband he has the right to know whatever it is that Jodha is hiding from him... feeling ver very sad for Jalal...

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MaddyO

@MaddyO

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Posted: 11 years ago

#144

Originally posted by: RadhikaS0

When Ruq lied to his face, she got a blast from him. Jalal values people a lot. He mostly avoids confronting people about what they did and prefers to cold shoulder them. He may not have said anything to MA or Ruq directly, but you can see their value is decreasing day by day. In today's episode, when he was feeling low about Jodha, he went to HB and not MA or Ruq as he would have done earlier. To me, it was a beautiful scene. His hurt at Jodha not sharing her problems with him was so visible.

Two points strike me at this juncture, correct me if I am wrong, Maddy:

1. He is more hurt by Jodha than by others because he cares more deeply for her than for others. What XYZ does means nothing to him unless they have done something bad with Jodha. What Jodha does, every small gesture, matters to him.
2. He ignores XYZ hurting him. But he starts reacting extremely with Jodha because he feels he has a haq on her and that she has no right to hurt him.

Going by today's precap and the way he accepted Jodha's resignation as harem head, I feel he is entering into extreme mode again and will be most intolerant of Jo till he finds the truth. I am saying intolerant to put it mildly. There may be much humiliation in store for Jodha again. And next will follow Jalal bashing. All the people who were applauding him for trusting Jodha till yesterday will aim for his head now.

I just want to say give the guy a chance. He wants to help Jo but doesn't even know what her problem is. he is hurt by her pain. and because she is stubbornly staying silent, he is getting frustrated, and venting his feelings on her. Once the truth comes out, everything will be fine again between the two. So wait patiently without bashing anyone please.

PS: I don't like people saying we bash anyone who does wrong. It's human nature to make mistakes. What is important is are the people ready to rectify their mistakes and both Jalal and Jodha are always ready to stand corrected.

I agree Radhika, esp about ONLY Jodha being the one to get Jalal to this extreme state always.

I remember Jodha once said to SB about Jalal, that one min he praises her so much she feels giddy and next min he insults her so much she can't breathe.

BTW if you read my full post on Mansi's thread on earlier page, my anger is about MA and HOW CVs make Jalal and Jodha just kathaputali in her hands.

I also agree fully Jalal is feeling hurt and upset and he is worried about Jodha. He can't stand it that she is not trusting him enough.

But the contrast in him is when one min he told her I trust you tell me anything no matter how bitter and I promise to listen, but when she tells him about Sujamal, what does he do? He tells her she is not thinking correctly and not to bring this up again.

When Jodha is worried about Jalal's life and safety she will go to any extremes. Here she knows Sujamal is here in Agra still braving a risk to his life so that he can bring Jalal's attacker and hidden enemy to light, how can Jodha not go to any extremes. Just like Jalal, for Jodha also nothing matters more than Jalal.

I want to say here that Jalal trusts Jodha with his life but not his heart and Jodha trusts Jalal but she is very scared after Moti's (stupid in my mind) advice that she should not put her new found relationship at risk. When Jalal means so much to her, and she is doing all this for him, Jodha is also scared of him going back to Ben days. What she has not seen yet is that she is doing just that. I so hope they shout and have slang fest and sort it out and no BEN DAYS EVER.

So I also think both are right here and ONLY MA is wrong.

BUT still I HATE watching public insult scenes of Jodha, which went on and on in Ben track. I disliked that track not cos of all that Ben-Jalal behavior which offended lot of people but how Jodha was insulted and abused in DEK by MA & Ruk and even Jalal.

I hated when he confided in MA & Ruk about Jodha.

When he does not about Ruk to Jodha, why to Ruk about Jodha?!

What I hope to see is full on anger and totally opening up, but just no public insults. That is not too much to hope for is it?

BTW the points and reactions above are more about the posts like "How can Jalal trust Jodha EVER NOW" - I MEAN REALLY??!!!!

So some offensive comments were hated by everybody, read old posts here.

About giving a chance or story to unfold and not reacting - see it like this - if we waited for track to unfold and to understand it and then comment what is the fun? We comment so much on every episode because we are crazy about JA and Jodha and Jalal and can't wait for next day's episode.

So about wait and comment I do not agree, in fact that is the fun about the forum and making friends and sharing views and reading contrary views.

Tomorrow I hope we get pleasant suprise for 200th episode but I am feeling CVs like always will rile us on weekend!

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