Gauri's Reasoning.... *Ahem* - Page 2

Sareeta Di… Aapki har baat sar aankhon par.

This is coming straight from me as I write so hope it makes sense.

Gauri is selfish you say, all right, accepted. But in terms of the word "Apne", I can identify two dimensions – Shiv and Gauri. A relationship, and lets say specifically the relationship of marriage as shared by SG, is formed by the consent of two. Hence, if Gauri is selfish, then her so-called husband is too nah? But lets look at it this way. A girl who had allowed herself to nurture a dream of blissful marriage, just like any other, arrives at a point in her life where that dream is crushed. At this stage, she had two choices – allow the shards to sting her eyes for the rest of her life, or accept fate and collect the remnants of the reverie and build anew. She chooses the latter, and utters not but a word of complaint for having been tricked into this relationship. Instead, she welcomes the new bond as such, that it becomes the foundation of her existence. Throughout the journey, several obstacles and glitches come by (Shyla-Daksh/ Vivan-Kaya/ Prasanjeet Episode), and she tackles each of these with the equal compatibility. We come now to her husband. A man of strange instinct. He speaks as though life to him comprises solely of his family and especially his wife, but then we can ask, "why the need for the picture in the cupboard?" He wishes to hold onto his relationship with Gauri as much as Gauri does, but he fails to confide in her. On the other hand, Gauri as always spoken the truth to him and has emerged right in the end. Today, she is doing all the same, and he cannot recognize it. I don't blame him, because she is asking him to observe his mother in a different light. Coming back to the point, if Gauri is selfish, then I think it to be only fair as her selfishness is rooted in the happiness of her family, the family she has attained through her husband. She has accepted all those relationships associated with that one, so is her selfishness to keep that one intact not justified? In all reality, I think it is impossible to be completely selfless, and for one like Gauri, her selfishness lies in the smile that forms on her face at seeing her loved ones happy.

So... Had I made much sense, because I just blew it from the top of my head😆

In any case, I love your posts and respect your POV. In all honesty, I found Gauri's dialouges repetitive today in a sense. I love her, but I want to see more action!

Cheers,

dc

Originally posted by: sareeta

I am particularly upset by the misinterpretation of my POV here Sanaaaaaaa, my freind and I had to despite my own wish clear that out,.

[Sana]: Arre... Perhaps my zukaam has been working my neurons way too much in the past few days and hence, I took your POV in a different angle than what it was intended to be. But I, by no means, would ever intend disrespect conflicting opinions. It's a free land baba, difference in perception is bound to happen na 😉~

Gauri being selfless will be detrimental for her children? How in the wise world did my POV reach this conclusion? I only said, that had Gauri said , she was doing for the sake of bringing the truth of a mother being evil and cruel to her old child would have made Shiv realize what he was losing and what he would gain... and that would only mean he would get back to his family.....

"For the sake of her selfless act, she let badi maa destroy their lives. Isn't that being selflish towards her own agenda in that case?"

My POV in no way intended on those lines at all, and I am terribly sad and upset that my POV has to be interpreted in such a ghastly manner. I take this as a cue to leave this discussion here and the forum as well, for no matter what I say or do , it always gonna be the same. My POV has been lost completely and even worse misinterpreted completely... and that is upsetting to say the least...

Sareeta

[Sana]: Well, I didn't mean to upset u.. Not in the least.. So sincerest apologies from my end if my content above was offensive to you as that was never the intention.. Perhaps I went too far ahead in interpreting what you meant instead of reading b/w the lines but in a nutshell, I see your points loud and clear but that's another aspect that I don't agree with them. But I am sure you're fine with that as I know you would never thrust your opinion now on others. As far as I know, that's not what you're dammit!

But I have to say this: why would u say that "this is your cue to leave the discussion and the forum, for no matter what you do or say, it is always going to be the same"? Arre.. I am glad that somebody here has the courage to bring out some thought-provoking discussions and I certainly posted in one after a loooooooooooooooonggg time. I know I am so much in awe of Gauri as a character that I don't tend to see any faults in her.. Well, That's not entirely true though.. There are times when I feel like banging my head against the wall but I blame the writers more so here than the character as they are the ones who are sketching the character to lose its sense of direction and morality that used to be so powerful once upon a time *sighs*. Anyhow, I hope you're feeling better.. If not, I can Fedex my famous danda for you and you could probably beat the crap out of Nikki baby for putting us and Gauri through so much agony 😉~

Take care dammit..😳
xoxo, Sana~

Originally posted by: smartc