Why does a woman (Laila) blame the other woman (Paro)? - Page 2

Originally posted by: InvisibleSmile

It's Ironic, right? The man is considered ' parsa ' in this situation and the other woman gets blamed? I think it's also much easier to blame the other woman than the man whom you love. It is a diluted kind of thinking but it pretty much sums it up; if the other woman wasn't around to entice the man, he wouldn't have cheated.

Laila thinks that Rudra is becoming ' Paro's ' because she is more beautiful than her. It's quite unfortunate that woman is always made to think less of herself, while the man remains untarnished. Laila is no different, she is falling prey to her quiet little voices inside her.

Ahh a good point to, easier to blame the person who has no direct point to hurt you, stupid emotions get in the way of many things ROFL but yeah valid points here :)

Originally posted by: CravingKhana

Heres plagiarizing myself ...

Laila was angry why did she take it out on Paro her beef was with Rudra ..

simple look to IF for reasons ..the first time Laia rudra scenes were shown ...after the show was promoted as a Parud one ...how many I hate laila ...Laila the witch ...laila die posts resulted ...

So blame the woman is engraved almost in most DNA ...why not Laila's 😛

totally agree with you, I see this on every other show forum too just because the ML looks hawwt their character is exempted from everything which really surprises me...sometimes even the FL lead is not spared...

Nice post , I agree with u , y Laila is after paro , she didn't do any thing against her , even poor paro is not even trying to steel rudra from her , Laila have to take revange from rudra

For what it's worth I do blame Rudra!! And Laila too!! Rudra like a typical man told Laila " when did Love start between them?! I left you in Jaipur but you followed me here!! That sooo did not help the situation!! LOL Like really?!! How is that supposed to make her feel better?! But yes, I know he didn't intendEd for this to happen!! Also he has a job to do so he really can't reveal much to Laila about Paro situation!! It's quite a complex situation to be in!! I 'm glad I'm not a part of it!! LOL And Laila if she really loves him, she should have tried to get to know him better on a emotional level instead if just giving in!! She wasted to much time waiting!! And of course she can't just go around killing someone!! She doesn't know how cope with this rejection!! Killing someone is not the way!! She's wondering what Paro has what she doesn't !! Sad but true!! Women are sensitive- beings no matter how tough they try to be!!



Shreya

Unfortunately this happens with women all the time.

That is very true!

This whole conflict between Laila-Rudra-Paro is very complicated. Usually you get the whole, man cheats on woman, woman cheats on man, second woman seduces man, etc. But in this whole case scenario Rudra made it clear to Laila in the beginning that what they had was no relationship but a fling (if that is the right word) of some kind. Although the heart wants what the heart wants.

In my opinion no one can really be blamed here. For example;

Rudra- Made it clear that he didn't want commitment or love to Laila in the beginning. Though, he could have at least let her know ahead of time if he was going to break of his complicated, whatever he calls it, with Laila.

Paro- Poor girl does not know about the existance of Laila nor has the intent of marrying Rudra anyways. She's just kinda there.

Laila- Laila I feel bad for. I believe she felt as if she could change Rudra's mind about the whole commitment thing. I can totally understand, she loved Rudra for 8? years... that's kind of rough finding out about his marriage to some next girl from a random person/event.

Woman in general can be scary, possessive, and irrational when it comes to love. Not all woman react the same, or as intense as the others, but they do all have similar mindsets. The guy (if he partook in the cheating not just got flirted with) should be blamed regardless. I think this is the same in the "woman cheats on man" scenario as well.

But yeah, I don't think Laila will realize any time soon. Right now Paro is the "[insert bad word here] that stole her man".