Why does a woman (Laila) blame the other woman (Paro)?

It is a trait that i hate in real life since like forever, and it is shown here aswell, my questions is why do (majority) women do that?

Nice post Aysha! totally agree!!

The stupid term 'homebreaker' is one such hypocrisy! If the man didn't stray at the first place, then there wouldn't be a chance for another woman to form a new relationship with him!
say that one woman can be stopped, but will the man stop looking for another woman? So basically its his fault! cz he is the one who is married, the one who took the marriage vows and he is the one who is breaking it!

anyway i am yet to figure out why women think men r dhoodh piti hui bachchas that can be lured by a big scary woman who has a lose character!

anyway i guess once again its the typical society mentality that the woman is wrong while the man is pristine clean no matter what he does! 🥱

I have heard the other justification of it too which is if possible worse - 'its the wife's fault, as she couldn't keep the husband's attention'

so in either way the woman is damned! be the wife or the woman the man cheats with!
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This is why i respect Lavanya of IPK so much! She never blamed Khushi, she always knew it was the man's fault n not hers.
And that is the difference b/w her and Laila here.. Laila still protects Rudra! still is doing all possible things to save him from coming to harm (haldi spilling on his arm) and she is hell bent at harming Paro, who has not done anything to her!! n is the innocent party in all of this!

That's what I been thinking it's true facts that Rudra is 100% at fault and Paro is innocent in this matter. But in Laila POV Paro is the one who poisoned her life and took the most important thing away from her so she went after Paro & not Rudra she thinks if Paro is dead Rudra will return to his Janwar avatar and back to her.

But it's harsh society the other woman get blamed more than the man. Even the wife would blame the other woman and not her husband I mean if your husband really love you so much & have eyes only for you he would know his limit and not give in. Some woman are stupid in that case I would say.

Just like here if Laila think she's the only woman in Rudra life & she saw the difference on how Rudra is treating Paro over her she's seeing a human in him not a "Janwar" She has a right to question the relation there but also blame Rudra and not Paro. Instead of such a violent act Laila should have just go to Paro & have a simple talk with her to know the back-story behind all this.

Sorry but I am still too young to know about these relationship stuff.

I also agree Paro never did anything to take Rudra away from laila. But then again rudra was never laila's

Heres plagiarizing myself ...

Originally posted by: CravingKhana

Heres plagiarizing myself ...

Laila was angry why did she take it out on Paro her beef was with Rudra ..

simple look to IF for reasons ..the first time Laia rudra scenes were shown ...after the show was promoted as a Parud one ...how many I hate laila ...Laila the witch ...laila die posts resulted ...

So blame the woman is engraved almost in most DNA ...why not Laila's 😛

I agree even on IF people are saying "I hate Laila" Laila go away etc! 😛 But no one ever say anything against Rudra no one call Rudra a asshole or a jackass... He did sleep with her for 8 years he did went to her even though he break up with her at Jipur whatever... They still been sleeping together when she came following him.

Originally posted by: princessunara

Nice post Aysha! totally agree!!

The stupid term 'homebreaker' is one such hypocrisy! If the man didn't stray at the first place, then there wouldn't be a chance for another woman to form a new relationship with him!
say that one woman can be stopped, but will the man stop looking for another woman? So basically its his fault! cz he is the one who is married, the one who took the marriage vows and he is the one who is breaking it!

anyway i am yet to figure out why women think men r dhoodh piti hui bachchas that can be lured by a big scary woman who has a lose character!

anyway i guess once again its the typical society mentality that the woman is wrong while the man is pristine clean no matter what he does! 🥱

I have heard the other justification of it too which is if possible worse - 'its the wife's fault, as she couldn't keep the husband's attention'

so in either way the woman is damned! be the wife or the woman the man cheats with!
----

This is why i respect Lavanya of IPK so much! She never blamed Khushi, she always knew it was the man's fault n not hers.
And that is the difference b/w her and Laila here.. Laila still protects Rudra! still is doing all possible things to save him from coming to harm (haldi spilling on his arm) and she is hell bent at harming Paro, who has not done anything to her!! n is the innocent party in all of this!

I agree completely! Blame the man!

Originally posted by: CravingKhana

Heres plagiarizing myself ...

Laila was angry why did she take it out on Paro her beef was with Rudra ..

simple look to IF for reasons ..the first time Laia rudra scenes were shown ...after the show was promoted as a Parud one ...how many I hate laila ...Laila the witch ...laila die posts resulted ...

So blame the woman is engraved almost in most DNA ...why not Laila's😛

Hahaha a good point there!! Similar concepts explain the same stuff

It's ironic, right? The man is considered ' parsa ' in this situation and the other woman gets blamed? I think it's also much easier to blame the other woman than the man whom you love. It is a diluted kind of thinking but it pretty much sums it up; if the other woman wasn't around to entice the man, he wouldn't have cheated.

Laila thinks that Rudra is becoming ' Paro's ' because she is more beautiful than her. It's quite unfortunate that woman is always made to think less of herself, while the man remains untarnished. Laila is no different, she is falling prey to her quiet little voices inside her.