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rekrn

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Posted: 11 years ago

I was thinking about this after Sumi gave that speech to Raghu on the cliff but was hesitating whether to post it or not, but decided to I wanted to see what everybody thought.

I not defending her, or her actions they are not appropriate but just trying to understand what made her become negative and that Raghu's intention though honorable wouldn't it have had an effect on her and how society looks at her.

We know that Sumi is negative now, after yesterday's episode it looks like Sumi has lost her mental balance mpov. To me some of things she said to Raghu about him breaking his proposal to her left her reputation damaged in society, mighty have caused her to loose her stability. I don't live in India, but from what I have heard, that this is kind of scenario can happen. .

Supposing that what she told Raghu had a little bit of truth and yes she made it look worse than it is...Raghu told her over and over again that I would marry you..but things occurred, he married someone else... then he still told her that he would marry her that his marriage is fake... when she finally realized that it wasn't going to happen... suppose her parents did look for someone else but like she said because of Raghu's rejection she was looked down upon in society. Yesterday the way she was talking to Shivani about what all she had gone through, to me it clearly showed that she has lost her mental balance so my question is does Raghu hold some responsibility even though not intentional for her changed behavior, and turning negative.

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Posted: 11 years ago

Yeah I too felt Sumi was behaving more like a psycho .. the min Shivani calls her a bahaarwali , she reacts quite violently which dint look normal at all .. I guess she did loose her mental balance after facing repeated rejection from Raghu and mayb going through all sort of soceity taunts too

No wonder Raghu feels that guilt towards her 🤔

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rekrn

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Posted: 11 years ago

Nice post di.even i felt the same..i think sumithra is not much at fault..from sumithras pov she is right.because sumithra loves raghu and shivani was the one who came in between raghu and sumithra so its obvious that sumithra hates shivani.But the only fact is that raghu loves shivani so we cannot force someone to love you when he loves other which is going to happen at the end[/QUOTE]

True and Sumi will be instrumental in getting Raghu to finally acknowledge his feelings for Shivani. I have a strange feeling... I hope I'm wrong, (that the CV's won't go this typical way)but I think when Sumi feels she is losing Raghu again she will try to harm Shivani that will be the catalyst for Raghu to realize what he really feels towards Shivani, just like when Raghu did the fire stunt, it was the turning point for Shivani in eventually realizing her feelings

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awida

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Posted: 11 years ago

Nice post Rekhz.

In fact Raghu isn't responsible. Sumitra chose to believe his promises even after his marriage to Shivani.

Sumitra's image didn't effected by breaking her engagement with Raghu. They didn't get engaged. Yes . She suffered from ppl . But we saw some good guys trying to get married to her. But she refused. And claimed that she is pregnant. What kind of a girl which doesn't care about her honor or her family's? Hers and Raghu wasn't even a love story. So this girl surly has some thing wrong in her brains.

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rekrn

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: jyoti06
Yeah I too felt Sumi was behaving more like a psycho .. the min Shivani calls her a bahaarwali , she reacts quite violently which dint look normal at all .. I guess she did loose her mental balance after facing repeated rejection from Raghu and mayb going through all sort of soceity taunts too

No wonder Raghu feels that guilt towards her 🤔

That particular scene is what made me feel that she has lost her mental balance, I also think something else traumatic may have happened to push her completely over the edge and maybe it will be revealed as the story moves on.

That is one admirable trait that Raghu has if feels he is responsible for someone's turmoil, he will try to fix it if possible.

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brat2008

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Posted: 11 years ago

I feel sumitra is responsible mostly for her own state of mind. Her possessiveness for Raghu has turned to obsession

Every girl does not get married to the very first alliance that comes their way😕

Yes ! Raghu did promise marriage to her once upon a time but things happened which was not in his control & he moved on

The whole story of her wedding being called off at the last minute by the baraat returning without the bride& she blaming Raghu for that was OTT😡

Why did her second alliance guy not know that her previous alliance was called off before the wedding day😲

How can Raghu be responsible for her all most happening wedding to break when he was not even engaged to her😕????

He was just another alliance for sumitra & nothing else😉

This whole story of her wedding being called off is totally fabricated by sumitra to send Raghu on a long guilt trip

How come she knew Raghu was coming back to the basti that day & made sure he saw her running to the edge of the cliff😲 it all looks so pre planned ,

Why do I feel the shooter was brought in by her to kill shivani but Raghu got shot in the process

My POV is that sumitra is solely to be blamed for her revengeful obsessive behavior😡

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dhakarn

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: brat2008
I feel sumitra is responsible mostly for her own state of mind.Her possessiveness for Raghu has turned to obsession
Every girl does not get married to the very first alliance that comes their way😕

Yes ! Raghu did promise marriage to her once upon a time but things happened which was not in his control& he moved on
The whole story of her wedding being called off at the last minute by the baraat returning without the bride& she blaming Raghu for that was OTT😡
Why did her second alliance guy not know that her previous alliance was called off before the wedding day😲

How can Raghu be responsible for her all most happening wedding to break when he was not even engaged to her😕????
He was just another alliance for sumitra & nothing else😉

This whole story of her wedding being called off is totally fabricated by sumitra to send Raghu on a long guilt trip
How come she knew Raghu was coming back to the basti that day & made sure he saw her running to the edge of the cliff😲it all looks so pre planned ,
Why do I feel the shooter was brought in by her to kill shivani but Raghu got shot in the process
My POV is that sumitra is solely to be blamed for her revengeful obsessive behavior😡

Word...

I think sumitra was always shown as a possessive n selfish girl... who had complete disregard for others feelings ... istill remember her asking raghu about latha being his step mother so ninchalantly n unemotionly... n she made a scene even after raghu n shivani tried to talj n promise her n then raghu actually sided with shivani n told sumitra that everthing is over...

N she got so many alliances after that... the fact to b remembered is that they r not even engaged... n her family got goid rich alliances again... but she told the guy that she is pregnant... by that time raghu haas become n obsession for her...its not love...

N she told a lie about the broken marriage...its obvious...

Raghu is partially responsible for giving her hope n promising eithout thinking at first two instances... but other than thatits all in her mind...

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rekrn

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: brat2008
I feel sumitra is responsible mostly for her own state of mind. Her possessiveness for Raghu has turned to obsession Totally agree with you on this statement. Yes we all are responsible for our actions, but things that happens to us in our life can have an effect on us.
Every girl does not get married to the very first alliance that comes their way😕True but everybody reacts differently. If you look at the earlier relationship between them, when she first found out Sumi at that point accepted it and was moving on, only when Raghu asked to speak to her and they went to the restaurant and he reassured then that he would marry her, he again got her hopes high.

Yes ! Raghu did promise marriage to her once upon a time but things happened which was not in his control & he moved on from what I recall Sumi had told him that her parents have found another proposal for her and they were going to get her married to him.
The whole story of her wedding being called off at the last minute by the baraat returning without the bride& she blaming Raghu for that was OTT😡
Why did her second alliance guy not know that her previous alliance was called off before the wedding day😲I
How can Raghu be responsible for her all most happening wedding to break when he was not even engaged to her😕????
He was just another alliance for sumitra & nothing else😉
This whole story of her wedding being called off is totally fabricated by sumitra to send Raghu on a long guilt trip
How come she knew Raghu was coming back to the basti that day & made sure he saw her running to the edge of the cliff😲 it all looks so pre planned ,
Why do I feel the shooter was brought in by her to kill shivani but Raghu got shot in the process
I completely agree and I think she over exaggerated all this when she told Raghu just to get him to feel guilty.

My POV is that sumitra is solely to be blamed for her revengeful obsessive behavior😡Absoultely and I am not arguing that I said in the beginning of my post, that I was not defending her behavior just trying to understand why she has become like this. IMO though not intentionally Raghu is somewhat responsible not fully but a little bit. We all go through things in life, some can handle things very well and some can't they loose it and look at it from a warped mindset.

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isha01

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Posted: 11 years ago

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i told it before that raghu is not directly using sumitra but somehow he is using sumitra...there was no way left for raghu when shivani came his home.And he was with her but when he met sumitra, he took the decision in 1 miniute.Actually he loves shivani but he dont want to realize it so he is trying to show shivani that she dosent mean anything to him more than his malkin.So sumitra got the chance, without doing anything...But i would like to see something different cause everything is predictable here now!!!!
I dont know how many months they will require to show 1 month...nothing to do,lets see what shivani can do to protect raghu & his family

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