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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: dhakarn




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I think sumitra was always shown as a possessive n selfish girl... who had complete disregard for others feelings ... istill remember her asking raghu about latha being his step mother so ninchalantly n unemotionly... n she made a scene even after raghu n shivani tried to talj n promise her n then raghu actually sided with shivani n told sumitra that everthing is over...

N she got so many alliances after that... the fact to b remembered is that they r not even engaged... n her family got goid rich alliances again... but she told the guy that she is pregnant... by that time raghu haas become n obsession for her...its not love...

N she told a lie about the broken marriage...its obvious...

Raghu is partially responsible for giving her hope n promising eithout thinking at first two instances... but other than thatits all in her mind...






Dhanya, this was the only point I was making, I am not excusing Sumi for her actions they are not appropriate and she has become too obsessive about Raghu I agree completely on this no question. I never said that Raghu was fully responsible just partly that is all I was trying to say. As for him promising her just now that was all manipulated by Sumi no doubt about that in my mind.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@rekha ... the resturant scene was before raghu's marriage ... after marriage sumitra taunts him in the middle of the street when he was buying a new mirror for shivani... n she berated raghu n told him that if she curses his belived bsbiji's life will b hell... it was then he told her the truth n assured her that he will marry her once babiji is gone back to haveli... n seeing them taljing together her fathet came n beat him with a stick...

Then their enconter happened only during karva chath i think...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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nice post Rekha...
I cannot completely brush away R's responsiblity here...though it is very minimal but he did added to her dreams by promising her repeatedly ...I think sumi's nature was not completely shown in 1st half...but just gave a glimpse of her nature...despite of her mother constantly telling her to for R that now he married babyji...sumi paid a deaf ear...and kept trying for R...I think she is kind of a girl who once decides something is her's cannot let some one else take it by force...that's what she said to S also yest...that she learnt happiness has to be stolen ...otherwise u will not get it on u r own...so it's kind of her nature...to get what u want either by hook or crook...

and as per society's rejection I think she made it up all by herself by making up pregnency story...she was shown as getting alliences even after R's issue was closed...any relation can break at any time...and in her case even the engagement is not over...so it's not a big thing for her to go ahead with her life...

Raghu cannot be responsible for the "CHANGE" of her...she is originally like that only evil...now she came out openely...that's it...R's responsiblity ends with promise...only...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: dhakarn

@rekha ... the resturant scene was before raghu's marriage ... after marriage sumitra taunts him in the middle of the street when he was buying a new mirror for shivani... n she berated raghu n told him that if she curses his belived bsbiji's life will b hell... it was then he told her the truth n assured her that he will marry her once babiji is gone back to haveli... n seeing them taljing together her fathet came n beat him with a stick...

Then their enconter happened only during karva chath i think...




What I meant is when they were outside of a restaurant, when they were talking and he was assuring her about his commitment to her and then the karva chath talks.


What Sumi is doing is completely wrong and purely vindicative at the she doesn't love Raghu she is just seeking revenge, my question was that isn't Raghu a little responsible for her change in behavior.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: isha01

i told it before that raghu is not directly using sumitra but somehow he is using sumitra...there was no way left for raghu when shivani came his home.And he was with her but when he met sumitra, he took the decision in 1 miniute.Actually he loves shivani but he dont want to realize it so he is trying to show shivani that she dosent mean anything to him more than his malkin.So sumitra got the chance, without doing anything...But i would like to see something different cause everything is predictable here now!!!!
I dont know how many months they will require to show 1 month...nothing to do,lets see what shivani can do to protect raghu & his family



@ red😆 so true who knows how long 1 month will last.

Agree he had no intention of using Sumi, but she manipulated the situation and gave him a way to make Shivani realize nothing can happen between the two them so he promised her marriage.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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nice post di...and raghu is not ditectly bt indirectly responsible for the current situation...and there is one phrase taali kabhi ek hath se nahi bajati..means we cant clap by one hand...and abt sumi second marriage try broke and she said that her dulha broke the marriage at the wedding day..dont know why bt i feel she is nt speaking truth this is lie to enter raghu life and to force him to marry her..

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