Parallel lives of the siblings

I began to watch TP recently and managed to catch all the episodes. It is a compelling series.

interesting points :)
On one hand Lavanya has been cheated and hates girish for it on the other hand anshumaan is cheating paakhi but lav hates pakhi...
girish and anshumaan both made the same mistake but Lavs reaction to both are quite the opposite

Good points. She is protective about her brother . She has been disappointed by her husband. She ,along with her brother, do show signs of insecurity.

The parallel of the story is quite interesting. Lets see what kind of mess she is going to get herself in with the new partner.

However, there is no denying the fact that she lacks basic manners.

very thgtfull post👍🏼

'@POV!! Interesting take!! I liked Lavanya earlier and I understood her stance when she was basically behind Anshuman when he was scheming against Pakhi. But you see, karma came back to bite her in the behind and now she is shouting that she was deceived. She is upset with her husband for what he did, but had no problem supporting her brother and in fact instigating her brother in his and their quest of ruining the innocent life of a girl who has done them no wrong. (In fact even now despite knowing the truth: Pakhi wishes them no ill)

A well thought out post and you have put across your views perfectly⭐️

I love the parallels because it shows different reactions of different people put under similar circumstances. One cannot fault either Paakhi or Lavanya when they react a particular way to a set of triggers. Paakhi being who she is probably reacts ideally but Lavanya reacts like a flawred human and that is what makes me have a soft corner for her.😳

I have a soft corner for Lavanya in 2 aspects. As you so rightfully said, her unconditional support for Anshuman. While she does really have skewed morals herself, I think Lavanya will do anything for Anshuman, and that includes accepting Paakhi if it comes to that. It takes a lot of love to be that unconditional and Lavanya scores there well.
While I will give her credit for being the loving sister, I cannot give the same credit for being a good sister as such. Lavanya's views, her prejudice and her snobbery and things she finds difficult to overcome and she presses the same things on her brother even when she sees that he feels different sometimes. As a big sister, I would have rated her higher if she (atleast sometimes) set aside her prejudice sometimes and did the right thing.. But then, one cannot fault her completely. From the story about the past that Girish shared, the tragedy would have affected Lavanya too. Being the elder of the two, I am sure she put up defenses to shield herself and her brother and a part of her behavior can be attributed to that shield this brother and sister duo has developed.

The second part is Girish's cheating. One may argue that Girish was atleast truthful but I find that his truth was not just late but also the cruelest thing that he could have done to Lavanya. Given that Lavanya was already insecure about her inability to bear a child, Girish's truth, explained after she took to Naina was really done badly and at the worst possible time. He not only made her worst nightmare come true, he also snatched away that one dream she almost had. When dreams die, a part of you dies with it. You are never the same person after that.

I do not fault Lavanya for seeking a way out of her relationship. I understand her because that is how humans react when their trust is broken. Girish may be a great guy but to Lavanya, he is that one person who hurt her unbearably.. She has the right to react the way she is reacting. It will take time for her to accept his mistake. It may take more time for her to forgive and I am not sure if it will be her fault if she never forgives him ever. With Girish and his cheating, Lavanya gets my vote.

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

A well thought out post and you have put across your views perfectly⭐️

I love the parallels because it shows different reactions of different people put under similar circumstances. One cannot fault either Paakhi or Lavanya when they react a particular way to a set of triggers. Paakhi being who she is probably reacts ideally but Lavanya reacts like a flawred human and that is what makes me have a soft corner for her.😳

I have a soft corner for Lavanya in 2 aspects. As you so rightfully said, her unconditional support for Anshuman. While she does really have skewed morals herself, I think Lavanya will do anything for Anshuman, and that includes accepting Paakhi if it comes to that. It takes a lot of love to be that unconditional and Lavanya scores there well.
While I will give her credit for being the loving sister, I cannot give the same credit for being a good sister as such. Lavanya's views, her prejudice and her snobbery and things she finds difficult to overcome and she presses the same things on her brother even when she sees that he feels different sometimes. As a big sister, I would have rated her higher if she (atleast sometimes) set aside her prejudice sometimes and did the right thing.. But then, one cannot fault her completely. From the story about the past that Girish shared, the tragedy would have affected Lavanya too. Being the elder of the two, I am sure she put up defenses to shield herself and her brother and a part of her behavior can be attributed to that shield this brother and sister duo has developed.

The second part is Girish's cheating. One may argue that Girish was atleast truthful but I find that his truth was not just late but also the cruelest thing that he could have done to Lavanya. Given that Lavanya was already insecure about her inability to bear a child, Girish's truth, explained after she took to Naina was really done badly and at the worst possible time. He not only made her worst nightmare come true, he also snatched away that one dream she almost had. When dreams die, a part of you dies with it. You are never the same person after that.

I do not fault Lavanya for seeking a way out of her relationship. I understand her because that is how humans react when their trust is broken. Girish may be a great guy but to Lavanya, he is that one person who hurt her unbearably.. She has the right to react the way she is reacting. It will take time for her to accept his mistake. It may take more time for her to forgive and I am not sure if it will be her fault if she never forgives him ever. With Girish and his cheating, Lavanya gets my vote.

Originally posted by: cool_sri

Nice post...