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winterdusk

@winterdusk

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Posted: 11 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: FairyChik

we have Knowledge on the turmoil that was put on Sandhya ,
Its not we Argueing here 😃

we dont but still we would prefer a angry sandhya or a determined sandhya over a confused one...😳

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 11 years ago

#32

@sanjh please understand that we all long term fans of DABH wants Sandhya to win that trophy for herself not for Bhabo, We all want to see the passion in her eyes and respect for that trophy. Only thing we are telling is that we understand her journey and we know why she is behaving the way she is. We are not telling she is right.

@neil you told Sandhya should not have come to IPS if she had this kind of problems. Yes she was exactly planning to do the same. She had given up her dream when she refused the divorce papers from her friend. She had known the ground realities of her marital home and her own personality and has taken that decision without even uttering a single word about it to her husband. It was Sooraj who bought that dream alive, pushed her to achieve it. But even in that she was forced to prove herself a good bahu. So now since Sooraj pushed her to do something which she thought was not possible in the given circumstances he himself has to grow up cut his apron strings from his mother and give her the freedom to pursue what she wants. Unless Sooraj cuts that apron strings it will be a pressure cooker situation for Sandhya.

You said Emily is confident. Yes Emily is because she is a type of bahu Bhabo wants. Plus Bhabo knows Mohit is taunted by Vikram for his low pay now and then. So she indirectly supports Emily to start her work so that Mohit can redeem himself. So Emily as such does not have to think about any vow or whatever. She just needs to think about herself and Mohit and their daughter. And Mohit is a person who doesnt mind walking out with his wife and daughter if that suits him.

You have every right to criticize Sandhya but dont throw unnecessary eggs and tomatoes at her without understanding her journey. That is the only request we have. If you ask me even we all criticize almost all characters of DABH.

Edited by shruthiravi - 11 years ago

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TitanFan

@TitansFan

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Posted: 11 years ago

#33

Oh discussion on old sandhya, cool let me get to it too

One time ago, i liked and adored married sandhya for her confidence and also for stating her mind in taking sides on right thing and saying same to bhaboo without looking for war of words or degrading or insulting elders, oh hell i appreciated cvs for showing that as not every show had showed it earlier. I understand sandhya being worried and expressing same to hubby before leaving but honestly, when bhaboo told her to enter house with trophy has sandhya donated her vocal cords to some charity? where did that gal go who use to keep straight things to bhaboo with a plan or open mind, suddenly she want to do this? for wat ideal bahu? wasnt she ideal bahu when she stood for right before , way way long before???????

Confidence grows from a seed of little faith, i completely agree to that, but did sandhya ever had a tiny bit of confidence even after her husband left? NO, only zak is being rude to her and he is right in her position, if every one shows sympathy then how on earth will one grow out of that sympathy? and be determined? roma and rahul also motivated sandhya during their test recently where did it take? No where and in IPS patience is for a bit not for long. sandhya is not there to be a constable by her speed of growing confidence, and she has balanced ppl to give her support yes zak makes fun of her in team but do others not support her? and does that make sandhya think of any strong strategy other than i donno,

I am not interested in rem how she was cheated by her brother and how she lost al hopes and all, i rem those tracks very well i was in here very much in this forum at that time taking her side, time changes and people change too but not their dreams even if a dream fade, suraj always showed her support and he made sure her dream was kept alive while she told him her dreams in bits and pieces and never in a whole talk. i fail to understand what kind of change and pressure can make a person have no confidence at all when they are at their dream?

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Piu Chatterjee

@Transference

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Posted: 11 years ago

#34

.This is a VIRTUAL world AND THE LAST TIME I LOGGED IN MY COMPUTER DETAILS SAID I AM LOGGING INTO INDIA FORUMS..
FORUMS RIGHT ??

**Definition of forum in English:**

*forum-a meeting or medium where ideas and views on a particular issue can be exchanged...***

Who said IDEAS AND VIEWS have to be Positive only ??This is what a FORUM is for Right??

If anyone says I HATE sandhya - HE IS FREE
If someone says I LOVE Sandhya-He is free too
That is why I said...Saying RIGHT OR WRONG is like PAINTING THE ENTIRE WORLD BLACK OR WHITE..Just LIKE CATEGORIZING A LONG HAIRED SANDHYA BEENDANI AS AN ADARSH WOMAN AND OTHERS AS RETARDS...
If there exists a SEGMENT who LOVES the show and LEADS ..
There is another who doesn't as SIMPLE as that...
There SHOULDN'T be any EITHER/OR...
Everyone HAS THE RIGHT to say what he FEELS within the CODE OF CONDUCT

@Criticism-meaning

the expression of disapproval of someone or something on the basis of perceived faults or mistakes:
Please see the emphasis on the word PERCEIVED...Perception is not ABSOLUTE its INDIVIDUALISTIC..Thus the arguement that criticism has to be general is certainly not valid
the analysis and judgement of the merits and faults of a literary or artistic work:
So Criticism includes both merits and faults...If SOMEONE IS LOVING THE MERITS OF THE SHOW it again falls into CRITICISM..So my question again is...WHAT IS SO POKING ABOUT CRITICISM which encompasses both Praises and issues ?

So yes if someone can raise PRAISES then we can RAISE ISSUES TOO ??

Now coming to your questions one by one Sanjh...

Why does anyone every now and then need crutches of SUPPORT?WHY ON EARTH portray every Woman who NEEDS Support.I really have nothing much to say but When I train people there si this only one thing I say -a quote from Mohammad Ali

This is how Champions Speak..

There are thousands of reasons to cry but there is only one reason to EXCEL!!-TO SURVIVE AND PROVE YOURSELF WITH CONFIDENCE...Need I say more..
Let me share a real life incident with you..There is this girl whom I know 20 years old exceptionally brilliant in academics but one day her father became paralysed and she was forced to take up a job...She had the most brilliant future ahead but everything ruined within a flash of a second and you know what the job was nowhere related to her education strature...She could have been a professor but she is selling goods but you know what Every morning I see HOPE on her face.There is TWINKLE in her eyes..She DREAMS of making BIG and strives for it every day by her limited means only.There are times she does not bring food to the office because of lack of time and she does not order too to save money..But still the BRIGHTNESS and her Self confidence is never shaken...
IN REAL LIFE we have thousands of people who have faced WORST but STILL beam and DREAM !!need I say more ??And you know what..Every person is actually born perfect!!Inferiority is just a mistake of the mind RIGHT??
They say na "man k harein haar man k jeetay jeet"..Do I need to say anything anymore...?
There are people with much less resources who do exceptionally well and have the TWINKLE and HOPE in their eyes😊

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winterdusk

@winterdusk

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: shruthiravi
@sanjh please understand that we all long term fans of DABH wants Sandhya to win that trophy for herself not for Bhabo, We all want to see the passion in her eyes and respect for that trophy. Only thing we are telling is that we understand her journey and we know why she is behaving the way she is. We are not telling she is right.
@neil you told Sandhya should not have come to IPS if she had this kind of problems. Yes she was exactly planning to do the same. She had given up her dream when she refused the divorce papers from her friend. She had known the ground realities of her marital home and her own personality and has taken that decision without even uttering a single word about it to her husband. It was Sooraj who bought that dream alive, pushed her to achieve it. But even in that she was forced to prove herself a good bahu. So now since Sooraj pushed her to do something which she thought was not possible in the given circumstances he himself has to grow up cut his apron strings from his mother and give her the freedom to pursue what she wants. Unless Sooraj cuts that apron strings it will be a pressure cooker situation for Sandhya.

You said Emily is confident. Yes Emily is because she is a type of bahu Bhabo wants. Plus Bhabo knows Mohit is taunted by Vikram for his low pay now and then. So she indirectly supports Emily to start her work so that Mohit can redeem himself. So Emily as such does not have to think about any vow or whatever. She just needs to think about herself and Mohit and their daughter. And Mohit is a person who doesnt mind walking out with his wife and daughter if that suits him.

You have every right to criticize Sandhya but dont throw unnecessary eggs and tomatoes at her without understanding her journey. That is the only request we have. If you ask me even we all criticize almost all characters of DABH.

we are for more than a month and one month is enough to understand a psyche of a character sorry to say but sandhya has emerged as confused soul who is constantly depended on her family and her husband for moral support her idealogy of naaritiv isnt well defined feminism is not about growing long hairs or wearing bangles saaris.but its a inner strength of spirit to sustain woman in her...that is what i feel... we are recent viewer tht doesnt mean we are bunch of strangers no we are watching the show and we are presenting our thoughts from our POV why to come up with moral policing... u can see lots of eggs and tomatoes are thrown at zakir by the old members..see any post on zakir u will see my point... so y not on sandhya they both are sailing in the same boat one is confident and arrogant other lacks confidence and is confused both of them wont make good IPS in future and zakir is rude but he always makes sense yesterday also sandhya went on complaining to roy with rahul and roma she wasnt a school kid tht she will run here and there zakir was cool he said so wat if she is put on the condition think how will she come out of it he was rude but he was correct but still ppl throw eggs at him ! do we complain naah their point of view respect it then y to restrict us and we throw eggs on cv for degrading a strong lady like sandhya... we only state wat we see it is weak characterization of sandhya tht is making us to vent out our frustration...

as far as emily is concerned i dont know wat bhabho wanted from her but i see Emily as a level headed girl one who is carrying her career and her responsibility with dedication and sincerity lots better tht is my point of view

anyways those reports wont make any difference... becoz we are mature ppl and we always comply with the rules and regulation watever u ppl think but the truth is tht no one has broken any rule in the AT chill guyz no will send us the warning note as the rules were first broken in the main forum we only follow wat we see in this forum

.we were eager to participate in your dicussion trust me we enjoyed some of ur posts some of the members are fantastic with their puns and their creativity wen we entered into the discussion the personal comments were passed on us... we were also called spammers didnt one member said the new AT is spamming ka adda in FT i dont think so comes under a category of welcome...as a result we all decided to stick to our AT and present our honest opinion their we neil fan dont believe in just praising we look for the content the crux the logics we pointed it out wen you ppl themselves called us spammers wen u ppl dont want to pariticipate in our dicussion then y do some of u bother to enter our AT and read our comments is tht so important to you all NO then y this cold war with us ? i m really trying to understand the behaviour in this forum ? but dont get it at all

anyways i have already mentioned those who are reporting us are simply wasting their time becoz we dont break the rule and we are the members as well...we will criticize/praise sandhya roma rahul zakir singh bhabho everyone till we are here in this forum...rather back up ur self becoz we are still here in this forum...

Edited by sanjh11 - 11 years ago

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diyafan

@diyafan

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Posted: 11 years ago

#36

really good insight on Sandhya's character, let me add my 2 cents here...

we all liked Sandhya's daring attitude, but suffering emotional knockout puches first by loosing her parents, marrying off without her will and then having to suffer Bhabo's EA, she is just coming out of the shackles and yes it will take time to overcome these EAs.

However, I do agree with Jhema that this is a daily soap and CVs are compelled to create a new drama every week to keep the viewers on the edge of their seats and keep TRP ratings up...

We all know that Sandhya has to win to get posting in pushkar, anyhow my take is that CVs are going to show special circumstance for Sandhya to win the trophy because it seems that straight up it is impossible to defeat Zakir so special circumstance like the blurb we saw in the episode today where Sandhya is going to get away from cycle race to save a boy.

So its my opinion that Sandhya might save TA or others from a big event to be given the trophy.