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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 12 years ago

Shiv and anandi's love life has gone with the wind and so is anandi's social work. I feel sorry for Shiv.

anandi should not have married at all but adopted amol.

That way we would not have to tolerate sanchi.

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dixie123

@dixie123

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Posted: 12 years ago

Why feel sorry for Shiv ? Shiv didn't adopt out of compulsion. Anandi didn't force him. He has a mind of his own and he adopted only bcos he felt something for Amol too.. Shiv is not repenting for adopting Amol nor is there any sadness in him. Like Alok said, Anand and Shiv find happiness n being with Amol. So, don't understand why we need to feel sorry for Shiv.

As far as their love life, Shiv will find a way to romance hs wife.. 😉 That is a given... Didn't he do that in yesterday's scene itself even after knowing Amol was there.. 😉

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Muktchand

@Muktchand

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Posted: 12 years ago

@ nivi totally agree with you.

Shiv already said in Wedding Anniversary party for him Amol is his own blood. Anandi did not force him on gun point...

Seeing Shiv and Amol masti along with Anandi no body can say they are doing charity or Anandi force him.

Romance...well...Shiv will find way for this too..😉

Anandi Shiv are not conventional romantic couple

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BeingMahiway

@maahi11

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Posted: 12 years ago

cumon leaves Just coz the kid was dere and shiv couldn hug anandi dat doesnt means dere love life gone with wind...

if dey had dere own children d children would be in dere room only,... i thnk dey have cum mre closed n spend mre lovly and eventful tme den before...

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 12 years ago

Why only adopted child?Even if Anandi and Shiv had their own biological child their love life would still have taken back seat while caring for a child.

A child is a child.If and when they make entry into the family the couple have to share their time and spare some emotions for their child too.

Shiv being the kind of person he is will surely find a way to make sure their love life doesn't fly out of the window.

As for Anandi's social work/ career in social work most of the time women do take a break to give time to their family.It happens in every profession.

I like to believe that this is only temporary break.

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 12 years ago

Even biological kids hamper lovelife and generally husbands feel neglected.

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MaxMayfield

@MaxMayfield

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Posted: 12 years ago

Leaves ur back😛

Shiv is very happy - why feel sorry?😕 he wanted a child and he got a lovable one - and he looks in complete bliss from the day little Amol came as a present in their life - remember the scene where he circled and looked at his entire family one by one - IMO it was a clear signal from him, that Amol is now onwards an integral part of his life...

Its not like Shiv is irritated with A trying to concentrate on Amol - rather I think, it was always this quality of A of serving others which has attracted him to her...and eventually made her fall in love with him - and now he is the shield of his little sweet family...JMO he loves her more for being such a lovable mother and trying to better someone else's life..

As far as their love life is concerned...lets leave it on CVs - how they portray it...valentines is coming up soon😉😛

My complain is that we do not need the rest of Shekhars - only Anshmol are enough to light up the screen😊

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731627

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Posted: 12 years ago

if husband feel neglected because his wife paying more attention to her child that means no married couple should give birth to child and nourish them otherwise husband or wife wil feel neglected

marriage does not mean only love between husband and wife .there r other responsibilites for husband and wife too .in foreign country parents r even question are they sending children to school ?

anandi is not neglecting shiv .she is just doing that work which suppose to be done at that time .now anandi is not only wife she is mother too so she cant pay attention to only shiv she has responsibilties as mother too

Edited by surabhi01 - 12 years ago

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 12 years ago

Let us forget it is about anandi and shiv. If we take ordinary married couples, children bring joy to the parents as well as some problems. Some husbands resent the attention the newborn gets from wife.there will be some like Shiv who will understand and some who will not. It is upto the couple to distribute time wisely between duties and hassle free romance. It is natural for a mother to pay more attention to her child. And the husband should stop feeling jealous. The wife must also take care not to make husband feel neglected. It is a matter of adjustments and give and take. In India, kids become too protected and too attached and when they get married, the parents feel that the children have left them fore new attachments.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 12 years ago

#10

When one gets married and settles down to have kids they should be prepared to make adjustments and cope with the changes that kids bring in their lives.

Husbands if they feel neglected they should learn to react to it in a positive manner by making lives more comfortable for their wives so that their love life continues.

It is not just on the wives to make adjustments.

Husbands also should realise that taking care of a child can be exhausting and should be considerate towards their wives and shouldn't be making too many demands on their wives.After all it is their child she is looking after.Child is part of them.

If people are not prepare to make adjustments in life then they shouldn't be having kids at all or they should wait till they are mentally prepared to cope up with the changes that kids bring into their life.

Edited by aparnauma - 12 years ago

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