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haha looks like there is a shaadi/love season going on in DM...anyhoo I'll chip in my ideas..
1. What age do girls typically marry at? How do you know if you are ready for marriage? okay, let me add guys... so they don't feel left out. Same questions for guys, too.
In my family, anywhere around 22-30...after 30 it becomes such a taboo..they're like oh no! the world has just ended 😆
2. What topics and subjects should be discussed before going into a marriage? especially arranged? Career, ambitions, dreams? kids?
Everything...you need time to know the person...like you said kids, job, cooking, living style; practically everything...and I guess it depends on a person and what their main priorties are 😊
3. What is a "safe" gap between meeting-engagement and engagement-marriage? Enough to develop a mutual understanding? Or am I living in 'la la' land thinking boys-girls can come to a mutual understanding?
hehe well out of the la-la land I think one year would be for me...just b/c u kind of get into the commitment but ur not quite there...so it's like getting your feet wet without really jumping into the ocean...and this is really the time you figure out if this is the person you want to get married to...being in love and being married can be totally differnt things...so be sure!!
4. How much should and can one compromise in a relationship? What is a 'healthy' compromise?
I don't know about others but I'm damn stubborn about everything and I would never compromise about anything. I don't think marriages should ever be compromised...mutual decisions should be made..but compromise sounds like such a defeated and beaten up word 🤢
5. What are sure signs for kicking the guy or a girl to the curb?
When he/she starts acting a fool! To be more precise, when you don't think that it'll ever work out or you feel that you are forcing yourself to marry this person...that's the time to kick their booties to the curb.
6. Any advice from the ones who have bitten the cake already?
Good luck too you little brave human beings 😉
1. What age do girls typically marry at? How do you know if you are ready for marriage? okay, let me add guys... so they don't feel left out. Same questions for guys, too.
In my family, anywhere around 22-30...after 30 it becomes such a taboo..they're like oh no! the world has just ended 😆
2. What topics and subjects should be discussed before going into a marriage? especially arranged? Career, ambitions, dreams? kids?
Everything...you need time to know the person...like you said kids, job, cooking, living style; practically everything...and I guess it depends on a person and what their main priorties are 😊
3. What is a "safe" gap between meeting-engagement and engagement-marriage? Enough to develop a mutual understanding? Or am I living in 'la la' land thinking boys-girls can come to a mutual understanding?
hehe well out of the la-la land I think one year would be for me...just b/c u kind of get into the commitment but ur not quite there...so it's like getting your feet wet without really jumping into the ocean...and this is really the time you figure out if this is the person you want to get married to...being in love and being married can be totally differnt things...so be sure!!
4. How much should and can one compromise in a relationship? What is a 'healthy' compromise?
I don't know about others but I'm damn stubborn about everything and I would never compromise about anything. I don't think marriages should ever be compromised...mutual decisions should be made..but compromise sounds like such a defeated and beaten up word 🤢
5. What are sure signs for kicking the guy or a girl to the curb?
When he/she starts acting a fool! To be more precise, when you don't think that it'll ever work out or you feel that you are forcing yourself to marry this person...that's the time to kick their booties to the curb.
6. Any advice from the ones who have bitten the cake already?
Good luck too you little brave human beings 😉
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