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Hi,

😆 sorry, can't stop laughing, thinking I am making a post on it .... don't know if the topic has been discussed or not ....but here is goes😆

1. What age do girls typically marry at? How do you know if you are ready for marriage? okay, let me add guys... so they don't feel left out.😆 Same questions for guys, too.😃

2. What topics and subjects should be discussed before going into a marriage? especially arranged? Career, ambitions, dreams? kids?

3. What is a "safe" gap between meeting-engagement and engagement-marriage? Enough to develop a mutual understanding? Or am I living in 'la la' land thinking boys-girls can come to a mutual understanding? 😆

4. How much should and can one compromise in a relationship? What is a 'healthy' compromise?

5. What are sure signs for kicking the guy or a girl to the curb?😆

6. Any advice from the ones who have bitten the cake already?😃😆

okay, that is it ... if I think of more, I will add. 😆😆😆

Persy

Originally posted by: MNMS

One question: Is DM going through a Marriage fever these days 😕 😕 😕

😆 😉

Maybe! I am not getting married.... just curious to figure out what the future holds, and be prepared.😆😆😆

Uff somebody has to answer these questions.... I know the topic appears girl-centric, but guys can answer, too. I am sure you have insight.😉😆

Originally posted by: reeps

Hi,

😆 sorry, can't stop laughing, thinking I am making a post on it .... don't know if the topic has been discussed or not ....but here is goes😆

1. What age do girls typically marry at? How do you know if you are ready for marriage? okay, let me add guys... so they don't feel left out.😆 Same questions for guys, too.😃

Varies from country to country, region to region, rural to urban, sect to sect and class to class. In India I think, for girls it's about 23-24yrs and for guys it's about 25-26yrs in the urban area.

2. What topics and subjects should be discussed before going into a marriage? especially arranged? Career, ambitions, dreams? kids?

IMO, matters pertaining to career, ambitions, dreams and kids should be made clear at the early stage so that you can decide whether your basic wants will be affected or not and whether you can consider the person as prospective husband/wife material.

3. What is a "safe" gap between meeting-engagement and engagement-marriage? Enough to develop a mutual understanding? Or am I living in 'la la' land thinking boys-girls can come to a mutual understanding? 😆

No idea what a safe gap should be. How about till both of them get comfortable with the idea of being engaged to each other and realising what marriage will bring for them.

4. How much should and can one compromise in a relationship? What is a 'healthy' compromise?

This part's for our esteemed married members of DM.😃

5. What are sure signs for kicking the guy or a girl to the curb?😆

How is this for an idea?? Offence is the best defence. So as soon as the other one lifts his/her leg/finger (for whatever reason), beat the crap out of him/her and then get down and talk.😛

Guys do it all the time anyway, dump her before she can dump you.😉

6. Any advice from the ones who have bitten the cake already?😃😆

Me too waiting for all those words now, 'marriage needs constant work - WIP', 'love plays a big part but love alone is not everything'.😆 OK time for me to run...

okay, that is it ... if I think of more, I will add. 😆😆😆

Persy

Originally posted by: reeps

Hi,

😆 sorry, can't stop laughing, thinking I am making a post on it .... don't know if the topic has been discussed or not ....but here is goes😆

1. What age do girls typically marry at?

after 25 , thats also if u r ready for marriage, for career, ready to take resposibilities.

How do you know if you are ready for marriage?

i think its in our society. every girl has in her mind ( logon ne bithaya hota hai uske dimaag mein)that she should get married before 25 after that she will be old😆 so automatically they prepare themself for marrieage after 18( i think😳)

okay, let me add guys... so they don't feel left out.

so guys comment😛

Originally posted by: reeps

Maybe! I am not getting married.... just curious to figure out what the future holds, and be prepared.😆😆😆

Uff somebody has to answer these questions.... I know the topic appears girl-centric, but guys can answer, too. I am sure you have insight.😉😆

OK...I was going to post until I read your comment and now I don't want to feel effeminate here....😆😆😆...So i will read the "girly" talk...😆

Originally posted by: reeps

Hi,

😆 sorry, can't stop laughing, thinking I am making a post on it .... don't know if the topic has been discussed or not ....but here is goes😆

1. What age do girls typically marry at? How do you know if you are ready for marriage? okay, let me add guys... so they don't feel left out.😆 Same questions for guys, too.😃

oh I think you mean to ask, when do guys think girls are ready for marriage😆😆 the answer is never😆

2. What topics and subjects should be discussed before going into a marriage? especially arranged? Career, ambitions, dreams? kids?

nope drinking, smoking, affairs, etc(will give the guy something to ponder about😆)

3. What is a "safe" gap between meeting-engagement and engagement-marriage?

eternity, once you are married all the fun is over, I dont want to talk about the safe aspect(for obvious reasons)😉

Enough to develop a mutual understanding? Or am I living in 'la la' land thinking boys-girls can come to a mutual understanding? 😆

mutual understanding, yes, you are in la la land😆

4. How much should and can one compromise in a relationship? What is a 'healthy' compromise?

you asking this from a womens perspective?😆 I think the healthy compromise is the guy to accept everything for his own health's sake😆

5. What are sure signs for kicking the guy or a girl to the curb?😆

that they seem stable, they more stable they seem before marriage, the more unstable they turn out after😆

6. Any advice from the ones who have bitten the cake already?😃😆

dont do it, enough punishment has been meted out already😆

okay, that is it ... if I think of more, I will add. 😆😆😆

why😕

Persy