TOI: I am the boss-Sargun

Sargun Mehta talks about love, relationships and infidelity

Your first crush? I was always in a girl's school, so my crushes were basically film heroes. I always had a crush on Shah Rukh Khan!

Your first kiss? Oh my God, that's an ouch moment!

You are seeing actor Ravi Dubey... so who's the boss in the relationship? Nobody is the boss, though I like the idea of saying that I am the boss.

What do you think about live-in relationships? That depends on each person. Some are comfortable with it, which is fine. Personally, I feel it would take away the fun of a marriage.

What if you catch your man with another woman? I don't know who would be killed first... he or that woman!

What if you are attracted to somebody else? I'll tell him but I don't think that will happen.

What does love mean to you? Love means understanding each other. Giving each other space, not being too possessive, being supportive of your partner's dreams. Love also means friendship. And there are various forms of love, not just romantic... there's love between a parent and kid, between Friends and siblings, etc.

What about the institution of marriage? I believe in it because I have seen it work at home. My parents have been a great example and you tend to grow up believing what you see.

So when are you planning to tie the knot? You can call my mom for that (smiles).

But Ravi and you plan to get married at some point? Yes, but we aren't thinking about it right now.

Your views on pre-marital sex? Some may not make a big deal of it, while to some, it's very important. I understand both sides. I see nothing wrong with pre-marital sex. I learned about sex when I was in class 11. Today in the age of internet, kids know a lot at an early age. Everyone is aware of what sex is. So I Guess it is not a big deal.

Your thoughts on homosexuality... It's cool. If they don't question people who are straight, who are we to question them? If somebody likes a person of the same sex, it's his/her choice. Why should anybody have a problem with that? It's something natural and nobody can question nature.