Varun/Viky Appreciation Thrd ONLY4 Varun-Fan-pg108 - Page 75

I have caught up with this week's episodes – WOW. Varun if you are reading this I want to just say your performance through the whole week was absolutely breathtaking. You made the viewers feel TVS's agony, despair and anger. Your ability to maintain TVS in his character everyday of the week especially when there is soo much emotional upheaval is incredible. I understand you are going to be MIA from PHS. Enjoy a well earned break.

My point view on the characters after this week.

I know emotions are running high after last week's episodes and I apologies in advance if I offend anyone. That is not my intention but I would like friends on these pages to consider what I have said below and try and understand and then comment.

This is Varun's appreciation thread so let me start with:

TVS - His stand has been consistent throughout "He loves Sugni and wants to marry her". I understand his stance - he has been in a bad relationship. He then finds love and happiness which is reciprocated totally and does not want to lose it.

From the very beginning of their relationship he has been fiercely protective of Sugni. After wedding debacle, when Sugni tried to do her own Sardhakai he went there for one purpose only - to save her from destroying herself. So many have criticised and suggested had he not gone there this whole Adi Sugni issue would not have arisen. He did what he had to do to save her. That was the right thing to do. His mistake was the deal he made with Adi and has resulted in the Adi Sugni issue.

Since the sardhakai he has tried apologising, cajoling, begging, a little seduction, anger, being forceful but her stance on not being the reason for his marriage break up has not changed (whether you agree with her or not that is her position).

Instead she is prepared to enter into a marriage arising from a samjota even though her every look conveys she does not want to do it. TVS knows better than anyone what its like to be in a unhappy relationship and does not want that for her. He thought forcing her to acknowledge her feeling publically would make her realise that she cannot go through with the wedding but her doing the Puja and explaining her behaviour to MA made it clear that she will go through with it. Hence, his complete meltdown. He realised that the only way to save Sugni from herself/this wedding is for Reva to release Adi from the responsibility of protecting her marriage. So he made a deal with the devil (Reva). The wedding is off.

Sugni - Let me say again she is 19 year old girl dealing with a problem most grown women would find difficult. We are all product of heredity and the environment ie. she has been bought up in a village where women in her tribe are hated by thakurians for destroying their live/marriages. On the other hand the Thakurs consider it their right to use to these women as toys for their pleasure - ie. stuck between a rock and hard place. Marriage is not an option for these girls - who in India wants to marry a girl who is an illegitimate child of a woman who prostituted herself at some point.

Against this backdrop Sugni unexpectedly found that her most cherished dream of being married was going to come true. Unfortunately fate stepped in. She loves TVS of that there is no doubt but she also does not want to be labelled home racker - question of heart verses head. We have all at some point said she is giving out mixed signals, instead of asking TVSs questions she goes on the offensive, why does she need to marry Adi etc. Stepping back, since the wedding debacle she has put someone between herself and TVS - another Thakur (via sardhakai) or Adi (by marriage). Why? She fell in love with TVS not because he was a Thakur or because he was good looking but because of his principles/values/beliefs/his views on life. She knows his marriage has problems and I think she is afraid that if he is able to talk to her / explain things to her, she will give in, so she is putting up walls between them. Her marrying Adi and destroying his relationship with Amu is ABSOLUTAELY the wrong answer but to her mind there are no other options. If she leaves and he pursues her, she is afraid she will give in.

Adi - This young man has serious issues including anger management which has coloured his judgement. Him bringing Reva back was the right things to do. I have said and I still maintain he cannot interfere is TVS/Reva marriage and force them to stay in a marriage. He had no right to give G/Reva/TVS conflicting Vachaans.

Reva's actions about her marriage has broken his illusion about his Mami. TVS told him when he bought Reva back that you love your mami but do you know what kind of person she is? I do! He did not believe TVS but TVS has been proved right. In life when we take a stand about something/someone and we are proved wrong it is very difficult to admit/accept/acknowledge we were wrong. Instead we lash out which is what he is doing.

So as we stand today:

- Sugni is trying to leave because although she loves TVS and he loves her there is no future. Reva has made it clear that she will not give up her position as TVS's wife so Sugni can only ever be the other woman in his life. In his eyes Sugni will be his wife but in the eyes of the world she will only ever be the other woman. Most of us on this forum are women. Would we at 19 enter into such a relationship? No. So she needs to move on with her life without TVS. She must NOT marry Adi because it would be MORALLY wrong to engage in a relationship with 2 men in the same family. She and Adi can be friends who help each other but nothing more. She also needs to tell MA the truth.

- Adi is lashing out at TVS because he does not want to accept that he was soo wrong about Reva. But he also realises that Sugni can only ever be the other woman in TVSs life and if you remember his speech to his Mum he said he would never support a man who for his selfish reasons would destroy a girl's life by making her his Bedni. He does not know that, that is what TVS intends to do, he has just assumed it is. These two factors along with his anger management issue has made him physically attack TVS. He is COMPLETELY WRONG in his behaviour. No matter what, you do not raise your hand to someone older than you and physical violence is not an answer. He also needs to learn that he is not GOD who can interfere in other people's lives and speak for them. Sugni can/has to speak for herself. He can be friend who supports Sugni but their relationship can never be more than that.

- TVS is pursuing Sugni and has requested that G give him one opportunity to speak to her. I assume G has given him his wish. Unfortunately we will never know what he would have said. Although he did not start it he is also beating the crap out of Adi. He is lashing out at Adi for all that Adi has done since sardhakai including trying to marry Sugni. TVS is also WRONG in using physical violence.

Originally posted by: bwtsweetu

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