Originally posted by: hillydee
😆 I think it is kinda cute seeing the Adi-Sugni fans comments. There was a time, when I used to dream of my favourite young actor, that he should be my husband etc. So, the comments remind me of those days.
Anyways, There are young couples who get married and regret later in life, just the same as couples who marry with large age gaps and regret later in life. What I guess some of us don't understand, is that it is not the age gap or the perfection of age alike that cause the regrets, it is the fact that they were not meant for each other. Until you truly fall in love yourself, you will never understand how important it is listen to the right voice(God's voice) telling you who is that one for you. So, no age, nor parents, nor friends nor strangers can tell you who is for you.The cvs have their own God, who made up this belief that Adi and Sugni are made for each other, but they fail to understand that God would never want anyone to marry someone who treats them the way Adi treated Sugni. He did not only disliked what she stood for, but he did not even want his Uncle with her, before he even found out about Reva.The younger generation of women need to let go of the old tale, from a young child, that when a little boy treats you bad it is because he likes you so much. Those are wrong teachings for young ladies.We have progressed as humans to let go off of this wrong notion that being treated badly is the start of some turn on for true love.We know the cvs will fix the story nicely, and make Adi the hero. However, in real life guys like Adi never change. When a man shouts at you, verbally abuses you, or even physically abuses you (which Adi did when he grabbed Sugni by the hand and started pushing her out of Vikrams's house) it means he is not a good person, and he truly cannot be your protector. Guys like Adi, would need serious spiritual counselling to change. As we can see, he has not gotten that help.Sugni herself has gone through her own abuse of being neglected by her Father, seeing her Mother prostitute to feed her family. So, Sugni should not be with someone like Adi, it is not healthy.If the Adi-Sugni fans do not like Vikram, no problem, to each his own, but not liking Vikram does not make Adi-Sugni the perfect pair.What the poster wants, is some substantial reason for liking this Jodi, not because you don't like Vikram, not because the couple is young, not for some superficial, or imagine chemistry.Sugvi Fans saw Vikram has a motivator for Sugni, he made her believe in herself, he encouraged her, he supported her in everything. He had her back. We also saw "Live-Wire Chemistry." We felt at the time Sugni reciprocated the love. I have a different view now.However, we do not see the same type of man in Adi. I don't even see the man in Adi. Yes, he can grow, but how will he? He has already made tall claims of standing up for just, and made Vikram to be the evil person, made his lie seem like death. So, what is Adi doing now? He is lying now. He lied to Vikram about his intentions towards Sugni. What he did to his own Uncle who he knows all his life, shows the lack of substance in this 'young,' man.I could go on and on, but I know the Adi-Sugni fans have a far way to go in development in life, if all we can get are those empty reasons.So, guys don't be hard on the Adi-Sugni fans, they are exactly just that.