As Usual great Post Liala,
2 points to be noted in the previous episodes, was when JIJI said The first one is:
1."if it was not for my brother , she would be dancing in front of some thakur, waitning to be sold off!" Granted the people saying these lines are not the most loved in the show, but the points are VALID!!! (no I am not suddenly a JIJI, hukum and Co. fan ok)
Lailia made the point well, that although Gulabiya's intention was right, she did not think rationally! Dose that mean she should have sit back and watch her daughter walk into a trap?
HELL NO, but she should have known Sugni enough to know if I push her, she will push back, if I give her an ultimatum she will take it.
I will say she was a little Jealous,, NOT OF HER DAUGHTER, but maybe the relationship something she never got from Jwala Thakur. She was constantly pounding it into Suni's head that you are either a wife or a plaything, from the beginning she kept saying it until the end. Even when Sugni brought back answers , she was not satisfied. Falshback to :
G-"will he stay with you? Mark my words he will never marry you!" S-"Yes he promised to hold my hand/love me for life"G- "HOlding a hand, is not the same as marriage, will he marry you?" S-"Yes he [promised to marry me, one day?"G-"One day? when will that one day be? ___________________
G-will you marry my daughter?
V-Yes i will at the right time?
G- You say that now but will you say that in front of the socity?
V_ I give you my VOW in front of my family I will marry your daughter!!!That shut her up for a bit, but you could tell she was not happy about any of it, why?? Mother's instinct? disbelief?
Then she found out that TVS was hiding a wife!!! that was all she amo she needed to prove that he is no better than the rest of the Thakurs. She had no bones about barging into his house , insulting him and even physically attacking him...it says alot that not once did he retaliate, which he could have done easily!
Now any relationship/marriage based on a lie will not last, but there were so many other ways to handle the situation rationally . . The writers made Gulaibya come off as just wanting to prove TVS as being a evil lecherous man and nothing else! She came out in full blown attack mode and made every one else defensive. If he really wanted to..he could have married her right at the temple when she left her mother's , and she would have done it...then what would have happened?
So now that she has proven her point, and Sugni is back home, what is the next step? Point 2
2."If she wounld.t do Rai or Sardahki...what else is there to do??? What will she do??:
Will Sugni go back tolooking for odd jobs around the village? Enduring the stares and whispers of the villagers , and the come-ons of the perverted old men, who will now think she is free game? Better yet, Adi will suddenly take over TVS previous role as protector of the innocent? Ohhh yes these creative writers...! And off coruse Gulabiya will support him 100% for he is do "Diffrent" from the other Thakurs. !!!
I will say the situation is complex and you can't give any of these characters 100% wrong for how they react, which is human i guess, we can judge it because we are not in it. But I think if the CV's do not give Vickra_sugni a chance would be very wrong. Also I would like to see Gulabiya realize that she was being unfair to both of them by her assumptions!
