Gulabiya and Delusions of Grandeur - Page 2

I agree with you to a certain extent. What irritates me in Gulabiya's character is that her devi roop comes out only with Vikram. Her brothers have been trying to sell off Sugni for years, she has never directly confronted them, she just said as long as I dance Sugni doesn't need to. Meaning what? That when I can't dance, Sugni will? I don't remember her saying once, right out, Sugni will never do Rai. But with Vikram its Sugni will never be your wife. Why? Because she knows deep inside that Vik is basically a gentleman, and he won't take unfair advantage of Sugni. Whereas if she confronts her brothers they are perfectly capable of going to Jwala Thakur or some other thakur and getting Sugni sold off secretly, just as they were selling her off. She should reflect a bit on the options she has left Sugni. If, after all this, they are reduced to seeking Adi's (a soon-to-be-married thakur) help, what exactly did she save Sugni from?

Regarding the ring, I wouldn't blame Sugni too much for that. Remember she was getting married, the biggest dream of her life, and suddenly Vik's long dead wife appears. She is devastated at Vik's lying, feeling guilty for disbelieving her mother. Yet she manages to stay fairly calm and leave quietly. Inside she must have been raging with hysteria. So the last ring throw was probably an outburst on her part, a symbolic bidai from Vik. In fact, in her mind, Vik cheated her, hurt her unbearably, so she did the two things she knew would hurt him, pick up her chappals, underlining her bedni status, and reject his mother's ring. Given the magnitude of the previous scene, surely at such a moment she can't rationally think, oh this is his mother's ring, shouldn't throw it, let me find someone to hand it to. So to me the ring throwing was okay, she wanted to hurt Vikram as badly as she could, and she did it.

As Usual great Post Liala,
2 points to be noted in the previous episodes, was when JIJI said The first one is:
1."if it was not for my brother , she would be dancing in front of some thakur, waitning to be sold off!"
Granted the people saying these lines are not the most loved in the show, but the points are VALID!!! (no I am not suddenly a JIJI, hukum and Co. fan ok)
Lailia made the point well, that although Gulabiya's intention was right, she did not think rationally! Dose that mean she should have sit back and watch her daughter walk into a trap? HELL NO, but she should have known Sugni enough to know if I push her, she will push back, if I give her an ultimatum she will take it.
I will say she was a little Jealous,, NOT OF HER DAUGHTER, but maybe the relationship something she never got from Jwala Thakur. She was constantly pounding it into Suni's head that you are either a wife or a plaything, from the beginning she kept saying it until the end. Even when Sugni brought back answers , she was not satisfied. Falshback to :
2."If she wounld.t do Rai or Sardahki...what else is there to do??? What will she do??:
Will Sugni go back tolooking for odd jobs around the village? Enduring the stares and whispers of the villagers , and the come-ons of the perverted old men, who will now think she is free game? Better yet, Adi will suddenly take over TVS previous role as protector of the innocent? Ohhh yes these creative writers...! And off coruse Gulabiya will support him 100% for he is do "Diffrent" from the other Thakurs. !!!
I will say the situation is complex and you can't give any of these characters 100% wrong for how they react, which is human i guess, we can judge it because we are not in it. But I think if the CV's do not give Vickra_sugni a chance would be very wrong. Also I would like to see Gulabiya realize that she was being unfair to both of them by her assumptions!

😊Excellent post Vinnie. You made valid point about Gulabia behavior toward Vickram. She was waiting for an opportunity to prove that Vickram was just like all the other Thakurs. After yesterday's episode do you think the CVs will give Sugni & Vickram relationship one more chance or will they go forward with Sugni & Adi romance. That's a horrible idea given the circumstance.

Well gulibiya & reva thing really put me off ..i fell good the truth is out .

ya the gr8 mother gulabiya who cant save her daughter from gang rape twice is saving sugni from marriage.

Vinne, your post was fabulous! I am so glad I am not alone in recognizing the inconsistencies with this storyline. I find it completely perposterous and outrageously nauseting when I observe the praise bestowed upon Gulabiya for saving Sugni (and this is MY opinion)...Saving her from what? If she had saved her from a lechourous Takhur who had housed her with the desire to rape her and kill her (Gulabiya), then I'd be like - WOW what an awesome mother. To fight against someone who is never going to hurt you OR your daughter, that is NOT a heroic act. Sorry, the deception does not compare to all the other times when Gulabiya lowered her head and remained speechless.

Originally posted by: atria

Regarding the ring, I wouldn't blame Sugni too much for that. Remember she was getting married, the biggest dream of her life, and suddenly Vik's long dead wife appears. She is devastated at Vik's lying, feeling guilty for disbelieving her mother. Yet she manages to stay fairly calm and leave quietly. Inside she must have been raging with hysteria. So the last ring throw was probably an outburst on her part, a symbolic bidai from Vik. In fact, in her mind, Vik cheated her, hurt her unbearably, so she did the two things she knew would hurt him, pick up her chappals, underlining her bedni status, and reject his mother's ring. Given the magnitude of the previous scene, surely at such a moment she can't rationally think, oh this is his mother's ring, shouldn't throw it, let me find someone to hand it to. So to me the ring throwing was okay, she wanted to hurt Vikram as badly as she could, and she did it.

I don't have a problem with her throwing the ring, he is lucky that is all she threw at him!!! Yes it is sybolic of leaving and not coming back :(
She handled herself with dignity and pride...that was excellent.!!!