That was so Insensitive coming from Sugni!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Okay as much as i love and respect the character sketch of Sugni...These days i simply cannot digest her behavior with Gulabiya.

Here is a mother who is trying to do everything in her will to save her daughter from anything bad that can happen...And Sugni suddenly believes that its her mother who is against her...

Wow...Now that's something...I am so sos so not happy with what Sugni did...I know that this could be the demand of the story but its not what one expects from Sugni...Her attitude to her mother was too bad...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree, Sugni has changed for bad and I do not trust VS anymore. What can be his reason for lying is beyond me
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think you're missing the storyline. Sugni has responded in the way anyone would. Her mother has been on her case about this relationship with TVS. It's her own insecurities at play as well as her experience that marriages between Thakur's and Bednis never happen.
She was right in her fear that TVS had not proposed marriage, she was also right in her suspicions when TVS denied he was at Riva Manzil. However, she ws VERY wrong in storming into the house and demanding to see TVS. That's illmannered and when TVS was there, that embarassed Sugni and made her mother look bad. Sugni has enough stress on her and she desperately needs her mother's support and she's not getting it. If anything her mother sees the negative and only the negative.
The fact is why would anyone be suspicious of TVS as insincere - he's fab. We all want to marry him. 😳 He wanted Sugni to know but he hesitates - out of fear - not something we'd expect from TVS.
When Sugni exploded it was her frustration with her mother acting as another barrier. TVS is the man she loves; she adores him. He's so reassuring, caring, supportive etc. He really loves her. There is no doubt that he does.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Laila2009

I think you're missing the storyline. Sugni has responded in the way anyone would. Her mother has been on her case about this relationship with TVS. It's her own insecurities at play as well as her experience that marriages between Thakur's and Bednis never happen.

She was right in her fear that TVS had not proposed marriage, she was also right in her suspicions when TVS denied he was at Riva Manzil. However, she ws VERY wrong in storming into the house and demanding to see TVS. That's illmannered and when TVS was there, that embarassed Sugni and made her mother look bad. Sugni has enough stress on her and she desperately needs her mother's support and she's not getting it. If anything her mother sees the negative and only the negative.
The fact is why would anyone be suspicious of TVS as insincere - he's fab. We all want to marry him. 😳 He wanted Sugni to know but he hesitates - out of fear - not something we'd expect from TVS.
When Sugni exploded it was her frustration with her mother acting as another barrier. TVS is the man she loves; she adores him. He's so reassuring, caring, supportive etc. He really loves her. There is no doubt that he does.




I am very well aware of the storyline dear...But the character sketch of Sugni is taking a dip here...Just because Vikram Takur is the person who is going to make her dreams come true, she has lost all sense and power of reasoning...As far as i know Sugni is a girl who sees beyond what the eyes sees...Maana ki everything her mother has been trying to say and show her has been butchered by Takur Vikram...But that is no reason to place her mother over him, and then regret about her words...

Gulabiya's fears are justified as a mother who is trying to protect not only her daughter but alsp that dream where she never wants to become the keep (Sorry for the language) of somebody...She wants a respectful position and life and that's all Gulabiya is trying to make happen...She has already seen Takur's daughter,and her questions are as why has he hid the truth for Sugni and her mother...And everytime Takur Vikram twists the tale, it makes her more suspicious that after seeing him at Rewa manzil for 2-3 times he still denies it...When he was there why would he deny?

Sugni has only taken to Vikram's words because she is in love, but what abt her love for her mother that's above all???

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rickks




I am very well aware of the storyline dear...But the character sketch of Sugni is taking a dip here...Just because Vikram Takur is the person who is going to make her dreams come true, she has lost all sense and power of reasoning...As far as i know Sugni is a girl who sees beyond what the eyes sees...Maana ki everything her mother has been trying to say and show her has been butchered by Takur Vikram...But that is no reason to place her mother over him, and then regret about her words...

Gulabiya's fears are justified as a mother who is trying to protect not only her daughter but alsp that dream where she never wants to become the keep (Sorry for the language) of somebody...She wants a respectful position and life and that's all Gulabiya is trying to make happen...She has already seen Takur's daughter,and her questions are as why has he hid the truth for Sugni and her mother...And everytime Takur Vikram twists the tale, it makes her more suspicious that after seeing him at Rewa manzil for 2-3 times he still denies it...When he was there why would he deny?

Sugni has only taken to Vikram's words because she is in love, but what abt her love for her mother that's above all???

Evidence my dear...Gulabia has been on Sugni's case and been a barrier on multiple occasions. While she has her daughter's best interest, she has no evidence, just her fears - and this is frustrating Sugni. Sugni has enough to deal with without her mother's paranoia. She does not suspect TVS because he has done NOTHING bad to her...he has been with her and helped her out everytime she has needed him. Sugni felt miserable after arguing with her mother...she hated it and when to TVS for comfort. He assured her that all would be well - he never said anything bad about her mother...No TVS at Riva, TVS at home and the fact is he has NEVER lied to her but always defended her. She's so close to getting married to a man she loves...she's about to go to the ball and her mother is destroying those dreams - the one person whom she wanted to support her.
Don't assume that she does not love her mother or doesn't care for her because she had an outburst. We argue with the ones we love ALL the time especially when we don't have their support. Sugni loves her mother - don't think she doesn't...when her mother reveals the truth, then we'll see Sugni return home and back to her mother's arms.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rickks

Okay as much as i love and respect the character sketch of Sugni...These days i simply cannot digest her behavior with Gulabiya.

Here is a mother who is trying to do everything in her will to save her daughter from anything bad that can happen...And Sugni suddenly believes that its her mother who is against her...

Wow...Now that's something...I am so sos so not happy with what Sugni did...I know that this could be the demand of the story but its not what one expects from Sugni...Her attitude to her mother was too bad...

What say Guys

Love Viji


Totally feel you, I felt the same watching those scenes, seriously cringing for Gulabiya.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jasmine01


Totally feel you, I felt the same watching those scenes, seriously cringing for Gulabiya.



I know what can we say...But Sugni is gonna be damn hurt after the truth comes out
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Laila2009

Evidence my dear...Gulabia has been on Sugni's case and been a barrier on multiple occasions. While she has her daughter's best interest, she has no evidence, just her fears - and this is frustrating Sugni. Sugni has enough to deal with without her mother's paranoia. She does not suspect TVS because he has done NOTHING bad to her...he has been with her and helped her out everytime she has needed him. Sugni felt miserable after arguing with her mother...she hated it and when to TVS for comfort. He assured her that all would be well - he never said anything bad about her mother...No TVS at Riva, TVS at home and the fact is he has NEVER lied to her but always defended her. She's so close to getting married to a man she loves...she's about to go to the ball and her mother is destroying those dreams - the one person whom she wanted to support her.

Don't assume that she does not love her mother or doesn't care for her because she had an outburst. We argue with the ones we love ALL the time especially when we don't have their support. Sugni loves her mother - don't think she doesn't...when her mother reveals the truth, then we'll see Sugni return home and back to her mother's arms.



There is no question about "NO LOVE" but yet trust does become a factor here...I agree that as much as Gulabiya has no proof against Vikram Thakur...There is something called Trust that Sugni can put forward in her mother...As to why she is acting so paranoid (Like u said) what's the reason etc...The fact is she is blinded with Vikram that she fails to the truth😊 or even think about it

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think in life we need to pick our battles carefully and Gulabiya case she didn't do that at all. Sugni is a firecracker always reacting without thinking and is the same situation here no different.

Gulabiya has made herself look like that person who cried wolf.

Sugni said she loves Vik her mother said you think you're in love. TVS tell he'll hold hand for life, Gulabiya says there is a difference between having your hand for life and marriage. TVS said he'll married Sugni at the right time, Gulabiya said saying he'll married you and marrying you is two different things. Gulabiya even when and got a promise from TVS but still she wasn't satisfied and through this all Sugni was patient with her mother. Then her mother said she saw him at RM Vik denied and Sugni believed but still on her mother insistance sugni question Vik and he lied of course but still there was no reason for her to doubt him. Even still when Gulabiya called Sugni to come without questions Sugni went and again no TVS then to top it off Gulabiya barge in there screaming which in my opinion was disrespectful not because he's a Thakur but is bad manners barging in people house and making accusation without proof.

I think what made Sugni had enough was gulabiya statement that she don't doubt TVS loves Sugni but he'll never fulfill her dreams. Like all people not just children if you think someone is always negative about your happiness you react.

Gulabiya is Sugni mother and knows her better then anybody so she should've handle the situation a little differently. Since the show started sugni hates being told what to do she listens to her mom and loves her mom but at this point she feels her mother is leaving her no choice.

Relationships are very delicate and there is no right or wrong in it. I applaud cv for making it realistic to show different dynamics between mother and daughter. I know sugni will be broken but that's something that's meant to happen cause experience is the best teacher in my opinion.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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From my end sugini is justified with her behaviour . She is keeping patience & she did try to find out & listen her mother . It is situation that is making her react . Only thing she has asked in her life is marriage & when happening ...she cant see otherwise . Sugini didnt see anything in reva & fact that vikram behaviour is good in front of her made her feel that her mom is not her side . Her character define in real & so gulibiya ..she is mother & doing everything she can for her daughter .
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@Rani : Completely agree & you written each point so well .
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