Great post!!
A teenager in the middle of her first love. the rebellion was coming sooner or later!
But in my opinion Gulabiya's handling of the situation was wrong. Sugni has always listened to her mother, and taken her views into consideration.
Even at the beginning when he confessed, and Sugni asked her mother what to do , her Mother was the one who told her to think with her heart, not her head. NOTE :SHE DID NOT say "Sugni Don't be fooled his sweet words!"
Now after she listened to her heart and got into the relation ship in effect Gulabiya is saying "Sugni use your brain and see what is happening, he is fooling you?" ( will he marry you? when will he marry you? love and marriage is not the same?ohhh...expensive gifts now, sugni what are you doing? Ohhh one day...when is that one day coming?)
Now the deeper Sugni got in trusting him and he did nothing to show her she could not, up to the point where she is willing to give him her life...off course she blew up on her mother.
In Sugni's head she is already getting opposition from every one else, his family, all her Uncles see is money signs, and the one person she thought she could talk to about her fears and concerns was her mother...but them the mother is acting like in opposition to the relationship I think somewhere she is feeling alone in her battle!