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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 9 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Chessy

Mind you, if a relationship is strong then nothing would be able to break it. When Abeer and Meher fight its very intense, personal and emotional. When Akshat and Meher fight you could only see friendship.

But isn't that the basis of a strong relationship. You need to be able to be each other's friend to make a relationship work. Passion fades. Abeer and Meher fell apart the first time because they didn't have real friendship between them.

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IntrovertedDame

@IntrovertedDame

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Posted: 9 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: VIMAL.M

Same here nice to see you after Begusarai forum.I stopped watching the show.

Oh, me too. The show became a farce.

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Vimal M

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Posted: 9 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: -Amri-

Oh, me too. The show became a farce.

Yup the show has become crap.

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IntrovertedDame

@IntrovertedDame

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Posted: 9 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: Mages
whether akshat shouts his lungs that ishu is his son...destiny and fate cannot be changed...the fact is ishu is Mehbeer's son...one day ishu needs his biological father...the man who gave birth to him...what ishu needs is his real parents love

Okay, I have to say this- biology isn't everything. I am sure you know that there are many foster parents out there who take good care of their children. The fact that they didn't give birth to them doesn't mean they can't forge close bonds with their children.

Judging from your DP, you're a YHM fan- pray tell, who is better suited to be Ruhi's mom- Shagun, who is her biological mom, or Ishita, who cared for her like a true mother and loves her to bits? Krishna Bhagwan is more closely associated with Yashoda Ma than Devki Ma.

I personally feel that parenthood is a powerful instinct. No doubt, ties of blood forge close and unending ties b/w parents and children. But it's not the only thing that constitutes parenthood.

A "real" parent unconditionally loves his/her child, nurtures and protects them. It's a bond that need not necessarily arise from biological factors.

I am leaving aside the fact of whether Akshat can be a good dad to Ishaan or not. What I am making is a general observation about parents and children in general. Coz, let's face it, there are some lousy fathers in this world who treat their own offspring as sh**. It's not unheard of. And to counter the balance there are also some lovely parents who've adopted and given their all to the upbringing of their children.

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IntrovertedDame

@IntrovertedDame

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Posted: 9 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: malikakas

But isn't that the basis of a strong relationship. You need to be able to be each other's friend to make a relationship work. Passion fades. Abeer and Meher fell apart the first time because they didn't have real friendship between them.

This. 👏

Look at couples who've been married a long time. They'll all tell you that passion fades after a while. It's inevitable- the honeymoon period does come to an end after a while.

But those who get to become good friends, who are able to understand and support each other, despite all the differences of opinion, the mundane realities of everyday existence, the clashes of personalities and convictions- display the occasional but lovely glimpses of affection, and eventually find a dynamic which both of them are comfortable in. That, is a good marriage.

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Mages

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Posted: 9 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: -Amri-

Okay, I have to say this- biology isn't everything. I am sure you know that there are many foster parents out there who take good care of their children. The fact that they didn't give birth to them doesn't mean they can't forge close bonds with their children.

Judging from your DP, you're a YHM fan- pray tell, who is better suited to be Ruhi's mom- Shagun, who is her biological mom, or Ishita, who cared for her like a true mother and loves her to bits? Krishna Bhagwan is more closely associated with Yashoda Ma than Devki Ma.

I personally feel that parenthood is a powerful instinct. No doubt, ties of blood forge close and unending ties b/w parents and children. But it's not the only thing that constitutes parenthood.

A "real" parent unconditionally loves his/her child, nurtures and protects them. It's a bond that need not necessarily arise from biological factors.

I am leaving aside the fact of whether Akshat can be a good dad to Ishaan or not. What I am making is a general observation about parents and children in general. Coz, let's face it, there are some lousy fathers in this world who treat their own offspring as sh**. It's not unheard of. And to counter the balance there are also some lovely parents who've adopted and given their all to the upbringing of their children.

In YHM...ishita respects shagun and let her meet adi-ruhi...i respect adopted parents more than biological parents...for ishita...shagun is the mother who gave birth to adi-ruhi and that bond and relationship can never be broken...shagun is a bad mother...but fact is she gave birth to ruhi-adi...and ishita respect it..she never instigate ruhi-adi against shagun

my problem here is not biological father or akshat can be a good father or not...here the problem is akshat instigating ishu against abeer...his real father...who gave birth to him...ishu doesn't know the truth that abeer is his father...but akshat knows...what rights does he have to keep ishu away from abeer...he is the father...he has rights to bond with his son for a few moments...in that few moments abeer will live a lifetime in the happiness that he made some beautiful memories with his son...he is instigating ishu against abeer...this is not right...akshat is a fatherly figure to ishu and abeer is ishu's father...why can't ishu get both fathers love...why can't at least abeer gets the respect of being a father to ishu...yes he is impulsive...badtameez...drunkard...but he loves his son...he wants to compensate the 8 yrs where he was not with ishu...its a father's love...he just wants to meet and spend moments with his son...why the hell akshat trying to instigate ishu against abeer...meher is doing the same too...abeer has the right to meet ishu...spend few moments with him...why dominate the little boy not to talk...meet...play with his own father...

Edited by Mages - 9 years ago

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shruthiravi

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Posted: 9 years ago

#17

@malikakas I also have put in another post. Love alone cannot sustain a marriage. Only respect along with love can. And friendship is one relation in most cases we respect each other. We give space to each other. Where we are able to open up without being judgemental. So finding friendship in love can only truly make a marriage success.

" Pyaar Dosti hai, Dosti hi pyaar hai" I agree to it. By that I don't mean you have to marry your best friend, but you can try to find your best friend in your spouse also. That will make the relation more meaningful.

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Fero

@Euphoria_V

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Posted: 9 years ago

#18

Well I totally agree with you vimal

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Mages

@Mages

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Posted: 9 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: -Amri-

This. 👏

Look at couples who've been married a long time. They'll all tell you that passion fades after a while. It's inevitable- the honeymoon period does come to an end after a while.

But those who get to become good friends, who are able to understand and support each other, despite all the differences of opinion, the mundane realities of everyday existence, the clashes of personalities and convictions- display the occasional but lovely glimpses of affection, and eventually find a dynamic which both of them are comfortable in. That, is a good marriage.

I respect the above mention marriage and i completely agree...but sorry i don't see that in akshat-meher relationship...nowadays due to his own demons...he is dominating ishu and meher...shouting at ishu...venting out abeer's anger on meher...if you really love the women than trust her...yes she loves abeer but now she is committed to him and is loyal to him...his suspicion nature is coming out slowly

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 9 years ago

#20

@Mages no one here is telling Akshat is perfect for Meher. He has his fault lines. We are only telling Abeer still has fault lines which is not corrected.

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