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The problem between Abeer and Meher is Abeer talks a lot and Meher does not talk. She keeps her emotions to herself and tries to do what is right. Most of the time Abeer senses Mehers feelings, but during the marriage he got emotional and ended up throwing a tantrum. In fact in the first few episodes, Abeer says that he gave whatever she asked and she asked for a divorce and he gave that too!
Yes, in a marriage the husband and wife will have a lot of heated fights that's part and parcel of a relationship. Even the ones about having or aborting a baby too happen! But couples don't end up divorcing each other because of that.
Meher who was sorted, buckled at the first sign of trouble. Boyfriends and husbands are altogether 2 different people :).
No couple in a marriage is equally mature or immature. In this case Abeer is immature and Meher knew / knows that about him. It was acceptable that she lost it and went to her moms place. But why did she not discuss what happened in the house when Abeer was not around, especially when he begs her? Why did Meher not discuss with Abeer what Kuber said to her when he was away from her? Why the mahanta of saving father son relationship? Did she not consider the husband wife relationship important?
Abeer, in a way was right, he didnt want a baby when they were so young, he didnt have a job and he wanted to spend more time with Meher without the responsibility. But given the option of having the baby or divorce. We all know what he would have chosen. But the trouble was the way he expressed his emotions at that time and how he ran away. But he did try to make amends and apologized to Meher. However, Meher was sooo affected by her father and to her, all men in general, were like her father. Never to be trusted and in that sense Abeer had horribly failed.
This I feel is what made Meher decide to leave Abeer.
But even after the divorce neither Meher nor Abeer could move on or stop loving each other. They never committed to any one else and Meher chooses to come to Groove and face Abeer and realizes how vulnerable she is where he is concerned and decides to get engaged to Akshat.
In today's episode Abeer's 'I hate you' was resonating again and again in her mind. She deeply loves him and could not take his hate or the possibility of him leaving her. But she needs to understand that the words that he said to her were just words. Abeer could never hate or leave her.
Thats why Suman was advising Meher today to not put Abeer and her father in the same basket. That Abeer was not like her father and really loves her a lot and that Meher would not be happy with anyone other than Abeer.
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