Narcissist KM, bua's strong reply, mysterious taiji

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 10 years ago

Yesterday's epi was one of those episodes which should never be missed. It had everything. The stereotype view of the society, a woman standing upto a narcissist man and of course another woman who appears grey, but does care for Meher.

First and foremost the great KM. Every dialogue he spoke was not a bullet at Meher's heart or a thorn at her leg, but to 1000s of girls outside there who ended up having a love marriage in which they were not accepted by their husband's family. The way she stood still, she was bleeding, though the blood couldn't be seen. After tunnu's confession it was if the life was taken away from the girl. She who had strived to provide for her family, had reached the place she is on her own merit has to hear the most indecent words. Why don't you try to trap another man and the most indecent one was I gave you number to my office and you came to my home. It was really really insult to injury. Ladke ko phasaya. Arey yaar what is ladka doing. Doesn't he have a sane mind yaa phir pagal hai for someone to trick him. If someone managed to trick him oh Kuber Malhotra it is your fault not the girl's fault. Maybe you didn't give him right values so that he could stay away from such vamps. I don't want to write more 😡😡😡😡

And when I was getting fed up with this fellow hats of to bua who stood up firmly for her niece. She replied back to KM in firm language. A language he will understand. He said tunnu has made a mistake and they will repay money but then he has no right to accuse Meher. Meher is their pride, the lamp of their house and if even God come and tell something bad about her, then lamp will not be lit in front of that God. It was really really good scene. Very few times we see the family of the girl standing up for her when she needs it the most 👏👏👏. Mostly they will say chalo beta, adjust kar lo rubbish type of dialogues.

And last part. It was an accident. Meher was not concentrating because she was already emotionally weak plus concern for bua. And the lady I would say is not a vamp. She reversed the car, only when she realized who the people are she asked the driver to go ahead. Maybe strained relations are there and if they knew it was her car that hit Meher and with all those people situation can get worse. However this lady does have concern for Meher and she came back another way and insisted on taking her to hospital. And she called Abeer. So as of now I will park my opinion about new entry. I don't think she is a vamp, but I don't think she is an angel either. Somewhere in between, but more towards a practical person.

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neetha

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Posted: 10 years ago

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KM is equivalent to shyam. I had hopes that Km is better than shyam but no i was wrong . His words where straight like arrow , i dint like the fact how he spoke abt Meher's character. M sure he never approved Meher and Abeer wedding but just cox of Abeer's zidd they marriage might have happened and m sure he is the manipulator in their separation as well! It's not right for him to point out at her character at least consider the fact that she was at one point of time his daughter-in-law.

The best part of the epi is Pearl for me. He stole ma heart away yest , those shivering hands, slow tears from eyes and the scream "Meheeerrr" was perfectly portrayed. Abeer's inner turmoil was well shown

This new entry tayaji, i m also lil confused abt her character sketch. Hit n run dint give me a positive sign but the fact that she did come back to help meher inspite of their family clashes made me feel good. Also i liked the fact that she immediately called Abeer and informed abt the accident, that shows that she does understand Abeer feelings for Meher, She might have liked meher as her bahu in the past as well. Kinda grey character i believe

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Kavila

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Posted: 10 years ago

YUP totally agree

KM--is a jerk..words will fall out to describe that man..shyam and kn are kumb ke mele me bichrey hue bhai Jerk to the livel of infinity huhhh Both abeer and meher are so unlucky in terms of father ...both have got jerk and sarfira baap 😡 i would have thrown the whisky at km face straight away when he was talking all rubish😡

Bua👏i just love her ..she is the most strongest character ever senn in sterotype indian serial where all the elders will only acuse a girl and always..forced her to adjust BUA exactly..a role model how a guardian can be...really...👏⭐️

Accident as per script but the execution was really weak...anyways as far oftayiji masi whatever still confusion she is masi or really tayiji thanks to all articles huh ...she look mysterious its only first day let se how her character lightens and what role she had at mehbeers past??😕she seems to be a weird person but she atleast has some humanity within her for me never to trust Mahalotra except ABEER AND MADHAVI ..they are alien huh..

Abeerr😳the way he got institution something wrong going to happen ,his fear restlesness everything was bang on!!!! now every one will blame abeer😭 but somehow abeer is also at fault...he dos not listen to suman for not using his own money but na Abeer bacha kisi ki sune to kar diya apne dady KM jerk ki share ka swaha and he get a golden oppurtunity..to insult Meher..suman to Gussa hogi but plzz not typical hating type of thing for god sake😡

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shruthiravi

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Posted: 10 years ago

@antika for the first time Abeer is gonna own up his actions. Till now he does lot of things , his ego has never made him accept his mistakes. how some of his actions though they are intended only for pun land others in trouble, how his high handedness in taking decisions on other's behalf have a negative impact etc..Look Suman was specific not to use his money as she knew about self respect. He should have listened to her. If jewellery is sold they also can be bought at a later time when you get money. But his selling the shares, without thinking what if his father knew was a mistake on his part. But some mistakes the price is huge.

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malikakas

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Posted: 10 years ago

Awesome post!

I agree... really what Meher had to listen to was awful. And Bua was fantabulous!

But somewhere I don't entirely blame KM, at least not yet, because he does have a legitimate reason to think Meher is a gold digger. This kind of stuff just reinforces his belief that Meher is after Abeer for money. And given her father-- its really hard to separate the acorn from the tree. I am not saying he is right-- just that its understandable.

For some reason, KM does think his son is emotional and easily manipulated. He is not impressed with his son's life choices but also knows he has no control over him. And he is frustrated by all that -- so he takes it out on everyone except his son. KM definitely could've done better as a father-- no doubt there. But I think his character is still redeemable unlike Shyam.

And I like the tayji too-- she seems interesting. Not wholly positive or negative.

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shruthiravi

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Posted: 10 years ago

@malikakas the problem with KM is not present. When Abeer married the first time itself KM would have branded Meher as a gold digger. You know stereotyping. A girl like Meher can only marry a boy like Abeer for money. And from day one this man would have tried to separate them. When their past is shown more we will get a feel of it.

And Shyam would have played alongside KM for his own greed which would have reinforced KMs view point.

I agree to you KM has disappointment in his son. Again another stereotyping. A business man's son has to be a business man only. It is assumed that he will have interest in business only. Just like even now the media is expecting Sachin Tendulkar's son to be like him. A cricketer. And there will be constant comparison. How is papa, how is son.

If you look at every character of BD till now , it is about breaking stereotypes. The assumptions people have about people hearing about their background, family etc...

@neetha only difference between KM and Shyam is KM is a white collar jerk, while the other is I have no words 🤢

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malikakas

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: shruthiravi
@malikakas the problem with KM is not present. When Abeer married the first time itself KM would have branded Meher as a gold digger. You know stereotyping. A girl like Meher can only marry a boy like Abeer for money. And from day one this man would have tried to separate them. When their past is shown more we will get a feel of it.
And Shyam would have played alongside KM for his own greed which would have reinforced KMs view point.
I agree to you KM has disappointment in his son. Again another stereotyping. A business man's son has to be a business man only. It is assumed that he will have interest in business only. Just like even now the media is expecting Sachin Tendulkar's son to be like him. A cricketer. And there will be constant comparison. How is papa, how is son.

If you look at every character of BD till now , it is about breaking stereotypes. The assumptions people have about people hearing about their background, family etc...

Honestly the characterizations on the show have thus far has been amazing! They are all so complex and layered. In some situations the same traits are assets and in other the same traits are detrimental-- very much like real life. Like Bua-- she is not afraid of standing up for herself but then sometimes her own short temper can get her to say some very unnecessary things that may make things worse instead of better. Same with Meher.

I am still not sure what KM's first impression was of Meher when they got married. In some ways, I wonder if he would be impressed by her considering she did beat his score-- he knows she is hardworking and capable. I wonder if he thought she might be able to "sudharo" his son and when she failed he believed that she was only out for herself. Add to that Shyam's greedy behaviour and manipulations could've easily started to convince KM that Meher was indeed a gold digger. He almost seemed angry with her-- when he told his wife that she sold the relationship for 2.5cr-- like it was a test and she failed. But then he could've just as easily thought she was a gold digger, too. So I am reserving judgement on that. I can't wait to see what their initial relationship was. But even if he was prejudiced from day 1-- I still see the concern of a father for his son which I don't see from Shyam.

Btw-- I really like what you said about Abeer for the first time owning up to his actions. As far as I can see he has never had to before. He has always known if anything bad happens his dad can bail him out-- like with the goons he had full confidence that his dad could fix things if he left town. Even in the marriage he has never really taken blame for his own actions that lead to the breakdown-- he just blamed it on Meher. But for the first time -- his actions are going to be explored. There will be no hiding from this and this isn't something money or charm can fix.

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shruthiravi

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Posted: 10 years ago

Yes Malika that is the only point I give to KM. KM has some concern for his son, but his own way. Unlike Shyam who wont mind destroying his daughter's or son's or sister's life for his own well being.

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malikakas

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: shruthiravi
Yes Malika that is the only point I give to KM. KM has some concern for his son, but his own way. Unlike Shyam who wont mind destroying his daughter's or son's or sister's life for his own well being.

And I think that's what makes a difference to me. I don't see that he is hurting Meher because he enjoys torturing people (like Shyam)- just that he is genuinely afraid that his son is going to get used by this woman again. He is just making it clear that he sees through them. He is wrong but he doesn't know that-- everything Abeer did just reinforced his beliefs. Its like when Bua says mean things to Abeer-- its genuine anger that this person broke her niece's heart and there is real fear that he will hurt her again.

There is real hurt and fear there on both ends so I don't really feel as angry with Bua or KM.

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