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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Samanalyse


Nissar's shirt-flap is a safe place to hide from the andas and tamatars 😳... that is, until Rati finds me. 😕🤣

But I mean, even the eight years wasn't Abeer's hard work alone na? Nissar bhi tha vahan, always in the background but working equally hard, and Rati too saw that. She wants him to get credit for his hard work the same way that Abeer does and right now all she sees is Nissar saying Abeer-this, Abeer-that, and working for Abeer's sake, even when Abeer is not actually absent from work for a valid reason. So she feels like Abeer is taking advantage of his loyalty and his feeling of indebtedness, which she questions... she agrees that Abeer has done a lot for Nissar, but that doesn't mean Nissar has to be in payback mode for the rest of his life?

They can take it either way... make Rati a vamp or develop her character so she eventually sees Abeer's true self; that suspense makes her interesting for me!


Stay safe , that's the most dangerous place to hide 😆

Agree , as u said , their hard work was not alone , Nissar was rewarded for his hard work , even I dnt want him stay behind Abeer after all it's life . He was given abeers slot whic is better than his .


And if u remember , once Abeer said to Meher " where were u when Nissar was on roads 2 years jobless , it was me who recruited him in my band " so the band was there before Nissar too, it might be doing extraordinarily , but it might be decent even without Nissar .

So jus for taking 4 or five days leave , how fair it is ?? Success of band had both Abeer and Nissar's respective contributions in those 8 years .

Thing is I like her concern about Nissar , she wanted see him as rock star , but approach should be different , she was clearly upset the moment she heard Abeer is fine , then whe she came to know about Abeer faking she used it . Alas who am I to judge her ways , we are different humans , with different flaws .


But asking Nissar to take abeers plot completely for faking 4 days of illness , I found unfair , come on even we does that , if I am in no mood to go office , even I fake different reasons . But that cannot change his part of 8 years hardwork .
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Posted: 10 years ago
#22
goshh her characterr is soo irritatingg ..
before nissar seemed ok but after todays episode hmm.. looked like he was more interested in meher abheer.. or rather meher than rati.. something definately fishy
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Posted: 10 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: malikakas


Being hatke is always fun😆

True story! 😆

@bold... I agree with that to a certain extent. But at the same time there is history between Meher and Abeer that Rati and Nissar never had so looking at it from an outsider's perspective I am not sure Rati has a stronger claim. Nissar had never confessed feelings of love before the Loveleen incident-- so Rati's behaviour did come across just as manipulative to me because at that point Rati didn't know how Nissar felt.

I don't think that's totally true. Nissar may not have said he loved her, but he did communicate that he liked having her around in many other ways. So in my eyes, that gave her a right to hang around and say what she felt... he always responded well to it. As for Abeer and Meher, I disagree that their history gave him any advantage. Just because Meher once loved him, it doesn't mean that he is allowed to exercise rights over her for life, especially after they divorced officially. Even the right to woo her should be earned in good faith, haan.

In the office Meher has made it clear that she wants nothing to do with Abeer yet she lets him stay in her house? As Suman said, if Meher really didn't want him there he wouldn't be there.

There was nothing to suggest that Meher loved him here, and nothing to suggest that she had changed her stance on their relationship. She let him stay because she didn't want him to be in danger, and then because he was supposedly in bad shape after getting beaten up, both under the influence of blackmail from her mother.

It sort of came across to me that she was trying to make Abeer out to be the villain because she is tired of Nissar deferring to Abeer. And I dislike that because its not Abeer's fault that Nissar does that. Nissar does that because that's the kind of person Nissar is. Abeer has been nothing but supportive of Nissar's career and she knows that.

I think you hit the root of the problem here, and that is Nissar's role in this whole thing. He is doing a disservice to Abeer's friendship by refusing to come out from his shadow (probably because of his own insecurities) and labelling it loyalty. Maybe Rati would not even think about putting Abeer down if Nissar himself didn't put Abeer on a pedestal. The fact that he had to think 100 times before taking on his own show and only did it with Abeer's "permission" is making Abeer look like some sort of tyrant, when in fact the problem is also in Nissar's own head. Rati is projecting her frustration with Nissar's constant self-effacing behavior onto Abeer and that is wrong, but again, damn interesting for the story going forward.

Edited by Samanalyse - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: madhufx9...



Thing is I like her concern about Nissar , she wanted see him as rock star , but approach should be different , she was clearly upset the moment she heard Abeer is fine , then whe she came to know about Abeer faking she used it . Alas who am I to judge her ways , we are different humans , with different flaws .


But asking Nissar to take abeers plot completely for faking 4 days of illness , I found unfair , come on even we does that , if I am in no mood to go office , even I fake different reasons . But that cannot change his part of 8 years hardwork .


@bold: That is exactly why I like Rati for the story. She has her flaws, and her strengths and that is what is making the story convincing. We can see why Nissar would fall for her, but also why she is the reason for a potential rift between the two friends. So Nissar and Rati are not a "shippable" couple, exactly, but have a much more interesting role in the story.

Yeah, it's not fair for her to be undermining Abeer's work so far, but she does raise interesting questions to Nissar about the nature of his friendship with Abeer! 😉
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@Samanalyse

Lol-- what I meant was from an outsider's perspective they wouldn't know all those details about Meher's mom blackmailing her and stuff. For eg.. even Sattu made it a point to bring up that it was weird that Meher was letting him stay there (at the beginning).

So I think from an outsider's perspective it could be taken either way as to whether is secretly receptive. And I really do think if Meher didn't truly want him there she would kick him out-- but somewhere she wants him around too. Honestly even with his so called injuries the guy is walking around with no problem. Heck today he was dancing-- the guy is fine to go home but she is putting up with him.

Anyways the point I was making wasn't that what Abeer is doing is right... its just that Rati doesn't really have the right to cast stones. She doesn't know what the relations between Meher and Abeer have been like lately. Also Nissar was friendly with Rati but friendship doesn't necessarily equal romantic interest. Causing Loveleen to slip and fall is as aggressive in my mind as Abeer faking his injuries. At least what Abeer is doing wasn't directly harming anyone.

Originally posted by: -Samanalyse-


Rati is projecting her frustration with Nissar's constant self-effacing behavior onto Abeer and that is wrong,


This is what I find frustrating... and why I can't truly root for the character.

In fact, now I am starting to think that at then end Nissar may end up needing Abeer. For some reason they chose for Nissar to get into a fight with the other band mates. If Rati causes a rift between Nissar and Abeer -- then Nissar will be alone and that might be detrimental to him in some way. Whatever Abeer is--- he is someone who fosters a lot of loyalty. I think both friends will end up needing each other in the end.
Edited by malikakas - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i soo hate tat 🤬 mera khun khaul ut tha hai wen i see her man..W*F..how she started screaming at nisar abt abeer coming back...bloody hell...abeer is soo sweet that he called her to the party just coz she is close to nisar..warna saali receptionist ko kaun bulata hai..ghar ke party main..i know its rude of me..but i hate her! I just wonder if she even fills meher's brain stating that abeer is all good n he is doing natak🤢 she is fr sure gonna break NisBeer and also she ll affect MehBeer to some extent.. i dont understand y does nisar give her soo much bhaav?? Is she is freaking gf already??🤬n tat stupid dance of theirs🐷
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@wida..i agree to u for some extent..the way he looked at meher seemed fishy..his concentration was immediately diverted from rati to MehBeer...in thr press conference of the show he did mention that he is just balancer between meher and abeer..but trp's ke liye and to add masala cv's might turn him towards meher..hope NO!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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rati does emosanal atyachar n cry baby with out tears always abeer jaap lol.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I don't like Rati since she start behaving like a jerk after Nisser show launched.I know she will going to creat more problem between MehBeer and Nisser Abeer in future after saw yesterday epi.about Nisser I hope he not going turn a grey character.

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