Originally posted by: malikakas
Being hatke is always fun😆
True story! 😆
@bold... I agree with that to a certain extent. But at the same time there is history between Meher and Abeer that Rati and Nissar never had so looking at it from an outsider's perspective I am not sure Rati has a stronger claim. Nissar had never confessed feelings of love before the Loveleen incident-- so Rati's behaviour did come across just as manipulative to me because at that point Rati didn't know how Nissar felt.
I don't think that's totally true. Nissar may not have said he loved her, but he did communicate that he liked having her around in many other ways. So in my eyes, that gave her a right to hang around and say what she felt... he always responded well to it. As for Abeer and Meher, I disagree that their history gave him any advantage. Just because Meher once loved him, it doesn't mean that he is allowed to exercise rights over her for life, especially after they divorced officially. Even the right to woo her should be earned in good faith, haan.
In the office Meher has made it clear that she wants nothing to do with Abeer yet she lets him stay in her house? As Suman said, if Meher really didn't want him there he wouldn't be there.
There was nothing to suggest that Meher loved him here, and nothing to suggest that she had changed her stance on their relationship. She let him stay because she didn't want him to be in danger, and then because he was supposedly in bad shape after getting beaten up, both under the influence of blackmail from her mother.
It sort of came across to me that she was trying to make Abeer out to be the villain because she is tired of Nissar deferring to Abeer. And I dislike that because its not Abeer's fault that Nissar does that. Nissar does that because that's the kind of person Nissar is. Abeer has been nothing but supportive of Nissar's career and she knows that.
I think you hit the root of the problem here, and that is Nissar's role in this whole thing. He is doing a disservice to Abeer's friendship by refusing to come out from his shadow (probably because of his own insecurities) and labelling it loyalty. Maybe Rati would not even think about putting Abeer down if Nissar himself didn't put Abeer on a pedestal. The fact that he had to think 100 times before taking on his own show and only did it with Abeer's "permission" is making Abeer look like some sort of tyrant, when in fact the problem is also in Nissar's own head. Rati is projecting her frustration with Nissar's constant self-effacing behavior onto Abeer and that is wrong, but again, damn interesting for the story going forward.