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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: madhufx9...

But today nothing Aisa kya Kaha Abeer ne that Meher has to go say" I threw u out of my life " girl who is in pain , after throwing , both are equally right !!

I felt that Meher outburst is not required there . I mean everything was cool till then . She spelt those words as if Abeer is some garbage stuff, but she doesn't know what she actually thrown .

Jealousy mark about not serious wali jealousy 😆 u know na , chullu Mullu jealousy , like fan coming close to Abeer or how about a female singer entering groove 😉

True but I think this kind of outburst from her has been building for a few days. You can't deny he has been purposely irritating her in her own house for days. He pushes her to feel that she needs him but at no point does he admit that he needs her too. He reads her diary in front of everyone-- something she told him in confidence (I know he did it for the right reason-- but SHE didn't want him to do that-- its not his place to decide what's right for her).

He tells her that she must be thinking she made a mistake by breaking up with him as if he is some God's gift to women (He is😉 but she doesn't want to think that way😆) but then making it clear that from his end he doesn't have any regrets. He has taken over her house, her room and her life. He is clearly well enough to go home at this point but he isn't-- from her perspective he is just trying to trouble her.

Then he goes behind her back and gives Tunnu money. Bardasht ki limit hoti hai. Sorry but I think that was wrong of him. Even if he was her husband, he didn't have the right to do to that-- if he doesn't like her decision then he should just talk to her about it. Its not his place to override her decisions with her family. So I think him telling her what to do over the Jagran thing- was just the straw that broke the camel's back. Something small that just pushed her over the edge. She definitely over-reacted and going forward Meher definitely needs to learn to manage her frustration better but her reaction is understandable to me.

Both Abeer and Meher are strong characters-- they don't just take things lying down. Suman is more understanding-- but then that same nature allows her to be a doormat to Shyam. Basically the good comes with the bad. Without Devki's strong nature the family likely wouldn't have survived as well as the did but now that same nature is also a hindrance. I see Meher the same way... Meher was strong enough to survive heartbreak and make a life for her family but that same nature makes her fight back against what she perceives as Abeer's trying to dominate her life.

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asmaanixx

@asmaanixx

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Posted: 10 years ago

#12

I haven't watched the episode yet so I don't know what provoked the argument but there has to be a limit to Bua's taunts. As for Meher, she needs to stand up for Abeer. The fact that she just stands by and let's Devki speak harshly to him is unjust. Yes, they are no longer married but there has to be some value to their relationship that she stills holds dear. There has to be a reason why she continuously lets Abeer into her life and allows him to impact her so much.

But just the dialogue, "We won't be affected if you pass away" is absolutely cruel. And to say that in front of Abeer's mother? Vicious. Bua needs to change her ways and Meher needs to learn how to speak up rather than standing back and watching the show.

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Mishti

@Neven002

Beginner

Posted: 10 years ago

#13

meher bar bar bolti h... : hamara rishta tha..yeh tha kabhi math bhulna abeer...fir uss din boli..hum pati patni the..yeh the math bhulna!!!

i want to ask why meher? tell d truth..dont u miss him???

our abeer was right while saying one paper cant break relations, but meher's indiffernce is bit sad to see.. i hope she doesnt want to get affected by abeer agn...now abeer needs to stop irritating her and shudnt give meher attention only then she will miss his charm...!!

i want meher and abeer to open up n what happened in these last 8 yrs..esp 🥱.what is meher's secret🥱

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suma madhuri

@madhufx9...

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: asmaanixx
I haven't watched the episode yet so I don't know what provoked the argument but there has to be a limit to Bua's taunts. As for Meher, she needs to stand up for Abeer. The fact that she just stands by and let's Devki speak harshly to him is unjust. Yes, they are no longer married but there has to be some value to their relationship that she stills holds dear. There has to be a reason why she continuously lets Abeer into her life and allows him to impact her so much.
But just the dialogue, "We won't be affected if you pass away" is absolutely cruel. And to say that in front of Abeer's mother? Vicious. Bua needs to change her ways and Meher needs to learn how to speak up rather than standing back and watching the show.

Exactly Gurr!! Meher jus watches when her family accuses Abeer , I dnt find it fair . She should voice her feelings atleast a little , but she doesn't want Abeer to know her feelings , so she is keeping quite . Where as Abeer , he dnt think of his ego , when someone bad mouths about Meher , he will tries to stop them

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asmaanixx

@asmaanixx

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Posted: 10 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: madhufx9...

Exactly Gurr!! Meher jus watches when her family accuses Abeer , I dnt find it fair . She should voice her feelings atleast a little , but she doesn't want Abeer to know her feelings , so she is keeping quite . Where as Abeer , he dnt think of his ego , when someone bad mouths about Meher , he will tries to stop them

It's not. If Meher doesn't want her feelings to be acknowledged, then that's a different matter. But to stand by when a wrong is being committed, that's wrong as well. If she can risk her life by wanting to stay back with Pinky, a goon, for Abeer, then why not stand up to Bua?

I don't know what it is about Bua but Meher holds too much respect for her and I want to know more about these two before I judge them too much.

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N_impossible

@N_impossible

Inactive

Posted: 10 years ago

#16

Bua and meher knows very well that abeer was there to protect them he was beaten up badly infront of meher he saved her life without any single scratch they dont even thanked him for that but if they cant thanked him but should give him respect which is his right too as a human being abeer was right ok fine he is not husband anymore but he is a human and being a human every person right to be respected... they cant say a one word to shyam whatever he said but i think they bua used abeer as a punching bag she was not rude she was cruel no sensible person can wish to death and the person who saved her daughter who took risk his own life

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malikakas

@malikakas

Rocker

Posted: 10 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I don't know what it is about Bua but Meher holds too much respect for her and I want to know more about these two before I judge them too much.

I think Meher thinks she owes a lot to her Bua.. maybe even more than her mom. She seen her Bua struggle to support them. That comment that if one day Suman doesn't want to make food and they order food from outside-- her Bua walked to court for 3 days to make up for it. Her own father has only ever taken from the family and here is someone who gave to them unconditionally. If you grew up seeing someone do that for your family- -- when they didn't have to, could you ever be disloyal to them? I don't know if I would respect Meher if she was harsh with Bua.

Also lets not forget it was likely Bua that supported Meher when Meher perceived that Abeer abandoned her. At this point Meher has a lot of bitterness in her heart with Abeer over what happened. What Bua said was wholeheartedly wrong-- but Meher can't pick sides in that scenario.

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suma madhuri

@madhufx9...

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: N_impossible
Bua and meher knows very well that abeer was there to protect them he was beaten up badly infront of meher he saved her life without any single scratch they dont even thanked him for that but if they cant thanked him but should give him respect which is his right too as a human being abeer was right ok fine he is not husband anymore but he is a human and being a human every person right to be respected... they cant say a one word to shyam whatever he said but i think they bua used abeer as a punching bag she was not rude she was cruel no sensible person can wish to death and the person who saved her daughter who took risk his own life

Exactly dear , Bua is quite impulsive , she blurted out , dnt whether intended words or unintended . But she should watch her words .

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asmaanixx

@asmaanixx

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Posted: 10 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: malikakas

I think Meher thinks she owes a lot to her Bua.. maybe even more than her mom. She seen her Bua struggle to support them. That comment that if one day Suman doesn't want to make food and they order food from outside-- her Bua walked to court for 3 days to make up for it. Her own father has only ever taken from the family and here is someone who gave to them unconditionally. If you grew up seeing someone do that for your family- -- when they didn't have to, could you ever be disloyal to them? I don't know if I would respect Meher if she was harsh with Bua.

Also lets not forget it was likely Bua that supported Meher when Meher perceived that Abeer abandoned her. At this point Meher has a lot of bitterness in her heart with Abeer over what happened. What Bua said was wholeheartedly wrong-- but Meher can't pick sides in that scenario.

That moment was running in the back of my head as I was thinking about Meher and Bua. Bua has done a lot for their family without needing to. If she had wanted, she could have settled down and started a family of her own. But instead, she considered Suman and her kids as her own and provided for them. I don't want Meher to be harsh with Bua but there has to be a limit to what Meher can let things slide. Continuously allowing Shyam and his second family into the house, having them leech off of them, always finding Abeer at fault without having great evidence, standing back and letting Bua verbally abuse Abeer.. it's not right.

I don't want Meher to choose one relation over another as that will be wrong. But she should be able to see the right and wrong in both Abeer and Bua rather than blindly following one.

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suma madhuri

@madhufx9...

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#20

@ Malika , he said , do u regret giving divorce to me not out of his self obsession , bcz it was Meher , who wanted divorce , when Abeer approached her to mend back things. As she confessed, she threw him out of her life. So he said it that way.

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