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Posted: 15 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: _Anonymous_

I'm a rumpesh fan so I'll just answer the first part of your post about rumpesh:

I've actually been watching old epis all over again this past week and this is what I saw
  • Gaurav was giving mixed signals to both rumpa and nandita..when asked after he won the first task on who would he like to take on a date he said "Nandita not..but Rumpa"..and then when he won an another task where your supposed to make a jewellry box, he said "the box is for rumpa but I'd like to go on a date with Nandita"
  • A girl likes to feel secure, to feel wanted..rumpa wasn't on the show for friendship but to find a partner and no girl likes to be "played" by getting all these mixed signals on whether the guy likes me or not
  • Gaurav himself was confused and repeatedly told the camera that he only wants Rumpa for practical reasons as he feels she'd make a good housewife and be able to take care of his mom and him and that he wanted nandita from the heart
  • I also feel that the contestants made a MESS out of the word "interaction"...these people lived together in a house 24/7 without any tv or internet or to even go outside...im completely sure that you can still "interact" with both nandita and rumpa and then be able to figure out on which girl is right for you instead of playing them both
  • I also feel that gaurav kept rumpa as a second choice and i think rumpa felt that because when they were all playing truth or dare...nandita confessed that she's opened a "10% window" to stay in india for vivek and gaurav outright asked her if she could open a "10% window" for him as well
  • so basically the whole time he's trying to say is that "if nandita stays in india then I'll definitely marry her but if she doesn't then I'll just take rumpa out of convenience"
  • No girl deserves that sort of treatment
  • I feel that rumpa didn't really LOVE gaurav but was trying to find a way to get some sort of commitment out of him because she really does want to get married and gaurav just wasn't ready for that commitment
  • So i feel that even if she told gaurav she loved him...she did not mean it even though at the time she thought she did because its not love when you've only had one date with the guy and the rest of the time the guy is flirting with another girl
  • Also the morning after the elimination..gaurav was nice to her but never gave her any sort of assurance that he will be waiting for her outside or that he wants to marry her at all so why should she wait for a guy who wasn't even sure of what he wanted
  • so i feel that her moving on to Hitesh who gives her security and commitment and actually shows his full interest in her was the best decision she made
  • I also feel that the reason that their relationship moved so fast was because all those weeks before they got together, they were friends and its always easier to date a friend because your so comfortable with them and already understand them on some level
  • I also feel that they are absolutely perfect with each other because Hitesh is completey himself with her and she accepts him and loves him the way he is and she has such a "calm" nature...never gets angry or anything...and thats exactly what Hitesh needs in a wife



Very well said ! 👏 👏 👏
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: zanish_k

_Anonymous_
I'm a rumpesh fan so I'll just answer the first part of your post about rumpesh:
I've actually been watching old epis all over again this past week and this is what I saw
  • Gaurav was giving mixed signals to both rumpa and nandita..when asked after he won the first task on who would he like to take on a date he said "Nandita not..but Rumpa"..and then when he won an another task where your supposed to make a jewellry box, he said "the box is for rumpa but I'd like to go on a date with Nandita"
  • A girl likes to feel secure, to feel wanted..rumpa wasn't on the show for friendship but to find a partner and no girl likes to be "played" by getting all these mixed signals on whether the guy likes me or not
  • Gaurav himself was confused and repeatedly told the camera that he only wants Rumpa for practical reasons as he feels she'd make a good housewife and be able to take care of his mom and him and that he wanted nandita from the heart
  • I also feel that the contestants made a MESS out of the word "interaction"...these people lived together in a house 24/7 without any tv or internet or to even go outside...im completely sure that you can still "interact" with both nandita and rumpa and then be able to figure out on which girl is right for you instead of playing them both
  • I also feel that gaurav kept rumpa as a second choice and i think rumpa felt that because when they were all playing truth or dare...nandita confessed that she's opened a "10% window" to stay in india for vivek and gaurav outright asked her if she could open a "10% window" for him as well
  • so basically the whole time he's trying to say is that "if nandita stays in india then I'll definitely marry her but if she doesn't then I'll just take rumpa out of convenience"
  • No girl deserves that sort of treatment
  • I feel that rumpa didn't really LOVE gaurav but was trying to find a way to get some sort of commitment out of him because she really does want to get married and gaurav just wasn't ready for that commitment
  • So i feel that even if she told gaurav she loved him...she did not mean it even though at the time she thought she did because its not love when you've only had one date with the guy and the rest of the time the guy is flirting with another girl
  • Also the morning after the elimination..gaurav was nice to her but never gave her any sort of assurance that he will be waiting for her outside or that he wants to marry her at all so why should she wait for a guy who wasn't even sure of what he wanted
  • so i feel that her moving on to Hitesh who gives her security and commitment and actually shows his full interest in her was the best decision she made
  • I also feel that the reason that their relationship moved so fast was because all those weeks before they got together, they were friends and its always easier to date a friend because your so comfortable with them and already understand them on some level
  • I also feel that they are absolutely perfect with each other because Hitesh is completey himself with her and she accepts him and loves him the way he is and she has such a "calm" nature...never gets angry or anything...and thats exactly what Hitesh needs in a wife
agree

disagree its just your POV the way you see your fav couple...........
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: No1Aamnafan

disagree its just your POV the way you see your fav couple...........

my opinion is backed up with actual facts if you read all the points
Edited by _Anonymous_ - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Anonymous_

my opinion is backed up with actual facts if you read all the points

that's what i said you feels these are the facts b'coz u likes them but i have my own POV and u can't force me to think as u does na😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: No1Aamnafan

that's what i said you feels these are the facts b'coz u likes them but i have my own POV and u can't force me to think as u does na😳

nono you misunderstand...i am stating actual facts in my post, yes you can of course disagree with my opinions that come from those facts but i am not making up the actual facts...stuff that i point out like how gaurav says "nandita not...but rumpa" when choosing a date or when gauarav decides to give the jewelry box to rumpa but takes nandita out on a date instead
^ those 2 are actual scenes that happen on perfect bride
now its my opinion that you disagree with...which is that gaurav is giving mixed signals to both the girls and isn't sure of what he wants
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Anonymous_

nono you misunderstand...i am stating actual facts in my post, yes you can of course disagree with my opinions that come from those facts but i am not making up the actual facts...stuff that i point out like how gaurav says "nandita not...but rumpa" when choosing a date or when gauarav decides to give the jewelry box to rumpa but takes nandita out on a date instead
^ those 2 are actual scenes that happen on perfect bride
now its my opinion that you disagree with...which is that gaurav is giving mixed signals to both the girls and isn't sure of what he wants

yah but rumpa still said i love you to him and always blamed pri 4 eliminating him strange na😕even afatre she started loving hitesh all of a sudden😕
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: No1Aamnafan

yah but rumpa still said i love you to him and always blamed pri 4 eliminating him strange na😕even afatre she started loving hitesh all of a sudden😕

now this is what i feel happened because honestly its completely impossible for you to love someone under such a short period of time..i felt she became emotional on the spot when she realized he was leaving, she knew gaurav was unsure of his feelings towards rumpa cause he would flirt with both her and nandita at the same time, so she thought that if she "professed her love", maybe he would look at her in a different light and be all "i love you too" and "ill be waiting to marry you when you leave the show" or something but when he left he didnt say anything abt waiting for her so doesnt it make perfectly good sense to just move on at that point when you see that the guy isnt even showing his full interest in you
besides i dont understand whats the big deal behind her saying "i love you" anyways...that same day hitesh told pooja that he loved her as well...but thats completely impossible...you cant love someone after just a few weeks...even priyanka goes around saying she loves all the girls and then she says she doesnt respect them and then later on she realizes what she said and edits it...its like mistakes happen but if your gonna be so STUCK on that one moment, how can you possibly move on
she even stated after she got with hitesh that before she wasnt thinking and got too emotional and now she wants to use her head before going forward...and she did use her head! she and hitesh got married and they seem perfectly happy now and im happy for them
i feel that rumpa was upset with priyanka for eliminating gaurav because she never really got to know the whole "what if he had chosen me if he was here" and blamed her for that but i dont think she realized that priyanka did the best thing by getting rid of gaurav, he was confusing both girls and leading both of them on and rumpa deserves to be with someone who is fully with her whole heartedly...not half a heart here and another half somewhere else
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Anonymous_

now this is what i feel happened because honestly its completely impossible for you to love someone under such a short period of time..i felt she became emotional on the spot when she realized he was leaving, she knew gaurav was unsure of his feelings towards rumpa cause he would flirt with both her and nandita at the same time, so she thought that if she "professed her love", maybe he would look at her in a different light and be all "i love you too" and "ill be waiting to marry you when you leave the show" or something but when he left he didnt say anything abt waiting for her so doesnt it make perfectly good sense to just move on at that point when you see that the guy isnt even showing his full interest in you
besides i dont understand whats the big deal behind her saying "i love you" anyways...that same day hitesh told pooja that he loved her as well...but thats completely impossible...you cant love someone after just a few weeks...even priyanka goes around saying she loves all the girls and then she says she doesnt respect them and then later on she realizes what she said and edits it...its like mistakes happen but if your gonna be so STUCK on that one moment, how can you possibly move on
she even stated after she got with hitesh that before she wasnt thinking and got too emotional and now she wants to use her head before going forward...and she did use her head! she and hitesh got married and they seem perfectly happy now and im happy for them
i feel that rumpa was upset with priyanka for eliminating gaurav because she never really got to know the whole "what if he had chosen me if he was here" and blamed her for that but i dont think she realized that priyanka did the best thing by getting rid of gaurav, he was confusing both girls and leading both of them on and rumpa deserves to be with someone who is fully with her whole heartedly...not half a heart here and another half somewhere else

b'coz she is an immature girl that's y she confessed her love 2 a guy jiski feelings uske liye waisi thi he nahi there is nothing wrong in saying i love you dear but teh time and situation matters a lot 😳 and No sicere person in this world can 4get hi/her 1st love in just 2 weeks and hitesh tou usse bhi agay tha dear usne tou 2 dn bhi waste nahi kiye aur apna decision badal dala wow i wish main bhi apne dil pe itna control kar pati even in gala round a ltter stated this about him that he is doing all this 4 NAAK bachana lolz😆😆and in finale too auidience comment about him and rumpa aapne dekhe he honge na?i loved that lady who said hitesh ko yeh reality show jeetna tha isliye usne apni shoice badal li aur i dnt care about them at all seriously they won b'coz their compedetors were not in the condition to get married on teh show so the result autonatically went in their favor but my question was y teh hell she blamed pri 4 eliminating gaurv even after she was in love with hitesh?😕mujhe iska jawab nahi mila?she should say thanks to priyanka b'coz of her she got her true life partneer hitesh her balimg shows taht she knew k gaurav was better than hitesh and rumpa also said this n initial satge that hiteshk sath dosti tak theek hai per uske baad bohat cheesen dekhne parti hain yaar😆😆and hitesh said k national tv pe i love you nahi kehna chaiye tha afte that they eaten their own words and choosed eachother wonderful waise they truly deserves eachother and even their mum tooo😆😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I completely agree with u Anonymous
Originally posted by No1Aamnafan

yah but rumpa still said i love you to him and always blamed pri 4 eliminating him strange na😕even afatre she started loving hitesh all of a sudden😕
now this is what i feel happened because honestly its completely impossible for you to love someone under such a short period of time..i felt she became emotional on the spot when she realized he was leaving, she knew gaurav was unsure of his feelings towards rumpa cause he would flirt with both her and nandita at the same time, so she thought that if she "professed her love", maybe he would look at her in a different light and be all "i love you too" and "ill be waiting to marry you when you leave the show" or something but when he left he didnt say anything abt waiting for her so doesnt it make perfectly good sense to just move on at that point when you see that the guy isnt even showing his full interest in you
besides i dont understand whats the big deal behind her saying "i love you" anyways...that same day hitesh told pooja that he loved her as well...but thats completely impossible...you cant love someone after just a few weeks...even priyanka goes around saying she loves all the girls and then she says she doesnt respect them and then later on she realizes what she said and edits it...its like mistakes happen but if your gonna be so STUCK on that one moment, how can you possibly move on
she even stated after she got with hitesh that before she wasnt thinking and got too emotional and now she wants to use her head before going forward...and she did use her head! she and hitesh got married and they seem perfectly happy now and im happy for them
i feel that rumpa was upset with priyanka for eliminating gaurav because she never really got to know the whole "what if he had chosen me if he was here" and blamed her for that but i dont think she realized that priyanka did the best thing by getting rid of gaurav, he was confusing both girls and leading both of them on and rumpa deserves to be with someone who is fully with her whole heartedly...not half a heart here and another half somewhere else
b'coz she is an immature girl that's y she confessed her love 2 a guy jiski feelings uske liye waisi thi he nahi there is nothing wrong in saying i love you dear but teh time and situation matters a lot 😳 and No sicere person in this world can 4get hi/her 1st love in just 2 weeks and hitesh tou usse bhi agay tha dear usne tou 2 dn bhi waste nahi kiye aur apna decision badal dala wow i wish main bhi apne dil pe itna control kar pati even in gala round a ltter stated this about him that he is doing all this 4 NAAK bachana lolz😆😆and in finale too auidience comment about him and rumpa aapne dekhe he honge na?i loved that lady who said hitesh ko yeh reality show jeetna tha isliye usne apni shoice badal li aur i dnt care about them at all seriously they won b'coz their compedetors were not in the condition to get married on teh show so the result autonatically went in their favor but my question was y teh hell she blamed pri 4 eliminating gaurv even after she was in love with hitesh?😕mujhe iska jawab nahi mila?she should say thanks to priyanka b'coz of her she got her true life partneer hitesh her balimg shows taht she knew k gaurav was better than hitesh and rumpa also said this n initial satge that hiteshk sath dosti tak theek hai per uske baad bohat cheesen dekhne parti hain yaar😆😆and hitesh said k national tv pe i love you nahi kehna chaiye tha afte that they eaten their own words and choosed eachother wonderful waise they truly deserves eachother and even their mum tooo😆😆
hitesh was only one who boldly face suitation in this show.In gala round when judjes was questioning to hitesh,he always gave the best answer,and always keep their mouth close.he was here for marriage,he had always two choices rumpa and pooja.If u want to watch the initial episodes,then u must admit.he really liked rumpa from the beginning,and stated that she was the sweetest among all the girls.and yes hitesh said k usse national tv pe I lov u nai kehna chahiye tha,but may be u dont know at the time he take sided with rumpa.and said she is innocent, gaurav ko is ko I lov u kehna chaiye tha, wo itna practical and confuse kyoo hain,us ne usse hurt kya.then yashdeep said she is little immuture,jab wo yahan se bahir jaye gi to ushe bohat face kerna hoga.This was the conversation between boys,which clearly showed that gaurav was confused and very practical person,and about gaurav agar usse rumpa se zara sa bhi concern hota toe wo waha se bahir janne k baad us k parents se zaroor milta but he didnt.and this conversation also showed hitesh care for rumpa.
When rumpa said about hitesh in initial satge,yes it was just an initial stage.U Should watch the rumpa interview in chandigarh,in which she said that when he first saw hitesh i thought he was not here for marriage.
but in this show when she realized that hitesh was serious about marriage then she said to hitesh in gala round i wanted to know hitesh as husband.They both was geniune at their own point.
then they both made their own chemistry,started their love.In one of the episode when rumpa'mom was questioning about his lov 4 rumpa, then hitesh said aunt jee pyaar wakt k sath sath barhta hain.and i also agree on this love increases with time.and that what exacltly happend in hitesh rumpa story.They both shared a great understanding.They both are the back of eachother.rumpa always understand hitesh.On the other hand engagement ker k hitesh gave security to rumpa,which she lacks.U know when in one of the date hitesh said to rumpa that im possessive,what rumpa replied It depend upon girl k wo usse pressure samjhe,but im not like that.Thats called understanding,which lack in pooja.
Hitesh did a very sensible step to give preesure to pooja because he realised that pooja was playing with me.and she was not taken me seriously,and draged things,Then finally pooja dumped hitesh.Hitesh mom once said that he is very emotional person.so thats why he shed tears,just like priyanka shed tears.but he overcome his emotion and moved on,which was his next sensible step.he did fast because wese he pooja madam ne 7 weeks unnecessiry relation ko steched out kya,so he dont waste time and moved on.and then rumpa concern,care,affection toward hitesh works a lot,then he easily attached with rumpa.
And u know in finale u loved the statement of aunty jee.but i loved the expression and statement of malaika jee,when she said to rajdeep ap ne vaada kya tha k app priyanka se 10 days baad shaddi ker lai gay.which clearly showed that rajdeep wass the biigest player who actually here 4 titleand not only malaika jee but most of the sensisble people who was not lived in fantasy,lived in real world admitted this .At least hitesh and his family fullfilled their committement.
koi kanya happy ho ya na ho result sae but i loved that malaika jee and shekhar suman were so happy👍🏼
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I completely agree with u Anonymous
Originally posted by No1Aamnafan

yah but rumpa still said i love you to him and always blamed pri 4 eliminating him strange na😕even afatre she started loving hitesh all of a sudden😕
now this is what i feel happened because honestly its completely impossible for you to love someone under such a short period of time..i felt she became emotional on the spot when she realized he was leaving, she knew gaurav was unsure of his feelings towards rumpa cause he would flirt with both her and nandita at the same time, so she thought that if she "professed her love", maybe he would look at her in a different light and be all "i love you too" and "ill be waiting to marry you when you leave the show" or something but when he left he didnt say anything abt waiting for her so doesnt it make perfectly good sense to just move on at that point when you see that the guy isnt even showing his full interest in you
besides i dont understand whats the big deal behind her saying "i love you" anyways...that same day hitesh told pooja that he loved her as well...but thats completely impossible...you cant love someone after just a few weeks...even priyanka goes around saying she loves all the girls and then she says she doesnt respect them and then later on she realizes what she said and edits it...its like mistakes happen but if your gonna be so STUCK on that one moment, how can you possibly move on
she even stated after she got with hitesh that before she wasnt thinking and got too emotional and now she wants to use her head before going forward...and she did use her head! she and hitesh got married and they seem perfectly happy now and im happy for them
i feel that rumpa was upset with priyanka for eliminating gaurav because she never really got to know the whole "what if he had chosen me if he was here" and blamed her for that but i dont think she realized that priyanka did the best thing by getting rid of gaurav, he was confusing both girls and leading both of them on and rumpa deserves to be with someone who is fully with her whole heartedly...not half a heart here and another half somewhere else
b'coz she is an immature girl that's y she confessed her love 2 a guy jiski feelings uske liye waisi thi he nahi there is nothing wrong in saying i love you dear but teh time and situation matters a lot 😳 and No sicere person in this world can 4get hi/her 1st love in just 2 weeks and hitesh tou usse bhi agay tha dear usne tou 2 dn bhi waste nahi kiye aur apna decision badal dala wow i wish main bhi apne dil pe itna control kar pati even in gala round a ltter stated this about him that he is doing all this 4 NAAK bachana lolz😆😆and in finale too auidience comment about him and rumpa aapne dekhe he honge na?i loved that lady who said hitesh ko yeh reality show jeetna tha isliye usne apni shoice badal li aur i dnt care about them at all seriously they won b'coz their compedetors were not in the condition to get married on teh show so the result autonatically went in their favor but my question was y teh hell she blamed pri 4 eliminating gaurv even after she was in love with hitesh?😕mujhe iska jawab nahi mila?she should say thanks to priyanka b'coz of her she got her true life partneer hitesh her balimg shows taht she knew k gaurav was better than hitesh and rumpa also said this n initial satge that hiteshk sath dosti tak theek hai per uske baad bohat cheesen dekhne parti hain yaar😆😆and hitesh said k national tv pe i love you nahi kehna chaiye tha afte that they eaten their own words and choosed eachother wonderful waise they truly deserves eachother and even their mum tooo😆😆
hitesh was only one who boldly face suitation in this show.In gala round when judjes was questioning to hitesh,he always gave the best answer,and always keep their mouth close.he was here for marriage,he had always two choices rumpa and pooja.If u want to watch the initial episodes,then u must admit.he really liked rumpa from the beginning,and stated that she was the sweetest among all the girls.and yes hitesh said k usse national tv pe I lov u nai kehna chahiye tha,but may be u dont know at the time he take sided with rumpa.and said she is innocent, gaurav ko is ko I lov u kehna chaiye tha, wo itna practical and confuse kyoo hain,us ne usse hurt kya.then yashdeep said she is little immuture,jab wo yahan se bahir jaye gi to ushe bohat face kerna hoga.This was the conversation between boys,which clearly showed that gaurav was confused and very practical person,and about gaurav agar usse rumpa se zara sa bhi concern hota toe wo waha se bahir janne k baad us k parents se zaroor milta but he didnt.and this conversation also showed hitesh care for rumpa.
When rumpa said about hitesh in initial satge,yes it was just an initial stage.U Should watch the rumpa interview in chandigarh,in which she said that when he first saw hitesh i thought he was not here for marriage.
but in this show when she realized that hitesh was serious about marriage then she said to hitesh in gala round i wanted to know hitesh as husband.They both was geniune at their own point.
then they both made their own chemistry,started their love.In one of the episode when rumpa'mom was questioning about his lov 4 rumpa, then hitesh said aunt jee pyaar wakt k sath sath barhta hain.and i also agree on this love increases with time.and that what exacltly happend in hitesh rumpa story.They both shared a great understanding.They both are the back of eachother.rumpa always understand hitesh.On the other hand engagement ker k hitesh gave security to rumpa,which she lacks.U know when in one of the date hitesh said to rumpa that im possessive,what rumpa replied It depend upon girl k wo usse pressure samjhe,but im not like that.Thats called understanding,which lack in pooja.
Hitesh did a very sensible step to give preesure to pooja because he realised that pooja was playing with me.and she was not taken me seriously,and draged things,Then finally pooja dumped hitesh.Hitesh mom once said that he is very emotional person.so thats why he shed tears,just like priyanka shed tears.but he overcome his emotion and moved on,which was his next sensible step.he did fast because wese he pooja madam ne 7 weeks unnecessiry relation ko steched out kya,so he dont waste time and moved on.and then rumpa concern,care,affection toward hitesh works a lot,then he easily attached with rumpa.
And u know in finale u loved the statement of aunty jee.but i loved the expression and statement of malaika jee,when she said to rajdeep ap ne vaada kya tha k app priyanka se 10 days baad shaddi ker lai gay.which clearly showed that rajdeep wass the biigest player who actually here 4 titleand not only malaika jee but most of the sensisble people who was not lived in fantasy,lived in real world admitted this .At least hitesh and his family fullfilled their committement.
koi kanya happy ho ya na ho result sae but i loved that malaika jee and shekhar suman were so happy👍🏼 .They both really diserve the vicotory.

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