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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: freakyy

i actually agree with her sister to some extent, like some of u said Priyanka's sis is like her mother and she is just trying to protect her. Raj is talking about winning everyyoneeee in the family, not only his dad. And it is hard to please everyone, wat if they don't agree then wat?? poor Priyanka will be left heart broken.

after watching all the episode, i just think all the people in PB have little bit of fakeness in them, but Raj-Pri do look like they genuinely like each other. So i would also like them to get marry.


yeah......i too hope to see a fairytale ending to their love story
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Posted: 16 years ago
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thank you all for ur replies...

and setting aside my dislike for priyanka, if the are to get married better to wait n get everyone important to you approval...u cant leave behind family who have been with u ur whole life for some u just meet...priyanka too would not give up her sister for any reason either so why ask raj to give up his tayaji or anyone else he considers close...after all marriage should bring ppl together not rip apart families...its better to wait and get marriage then rush n upset ur family...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Minal81

thank you all for ur replies...

and setting aside my dislike for priyanka, if the are to get married better to wait n get everyone important to you approval...u cant leave behind family who have been with u ur whole life for some u just meet...priyanka too would not give up her sister for any reason either so why ask raj to give up his tayaji or anyone else he considers close...after all marriage should bring ppl together not rip apart families...its better to wait and get marriage then rush n upset ur family...


very true...i think they both r mature enough that they understand this fact nd hope they take decisions wisely
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Minal81

thank you all for ur replies...

and setting aside my dislike for priyanka, if the are to get married better to wait n get everyone important to you approval...u cant leave behind family who have been with u ur whole life for some u just meet...priyanka too would not give up her sister for any reason either so why ask raj to give up his tayaji or anyone else he considers close...after all marriage should bring ppl together not rip apart families...its better to wait and get marriage then rush n upset ur family...



If the whole extended family has to agree with your choice, you will never have a marriage. Unless something is very wrong with Raj's choice, only his mom and dad are the only one that count, other extended members in the family are usually happy that their brother and his wife likes their sons choice.

In most cases tayaji is brought in because the Raj's dad doesn't like the girl and he is bringing tayaji as an excuse and wants their help in rejecting the girl. In other words tayaji, bhuaji choice are just excuses for politely turning down the girl.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Mr. Fake Butts, So if priyanka needs money, Gur and Rumps are staying in the show for charity?😆
If I recall NO GUY is interested in Gurpreet ..none wants to wed her and take her home. ..so pray why is she on the show?? Please explain this thing first and then we shall talk about Priyanka, Ok?😳
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Minal81

thank you all for ur replies...

and setting aside my dislike for priyanka, if the are to get married better to wait n get everyone important to you approval...u cant leave behind family who have been with u ur whole life for some u just meet...priyanka too would not give up her sister for any reason either so why ask raj to give up his tayaji or anyone else he considers close...after all marriage should bring ppl together not rip apart families...its better to wait and get marriage then rush n upset ur family...

Sweety, I had a love marriage with a guy from my community. But, in the end when it came to getting married, apart from my husband's mother and father, we did not seek anyone else's approval. Tayaji etc are a part of extended family. They can impose their thoughts on their own children but not on their nephew. Even for Raj, apart from his dad and mom, none else's opinion should matter. All these things are mere excuses and if some guy would have told me off from marrying citing reasons as above, I would know that the guy is dilly dallying and playing it safe.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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u cant dismiss the extended family so easily...marriage isnt about one day and who comes to the wedding or not...its about spending the rest of your life without your cousins and uncles n aunts....(if the matter is that serious) and that means birthdays, festivals, etc...with out them...i could never do it.....whats wrong with waiting...letting priyanka show them that she can fit in....
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: April2007



If the whole extended family has to agree with your choice, you will never have a marriage. Unless something is very wrong with Raj's choice, only his mom and dad are the only one that count, other extended members in the family are usually happy that their brother and his wife likes their sons choice.

In most cases tayaji is brought in because the Raj's dad doesn't like the girl and he is bringing tayaji as an excuse and wants their help in rejecting the girl. In other words tayaji, bhuaji choice are just excuses for politely turning down the girl.

Ditto..I wrote the same thing👏
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: sunandshine

Mr. Fake Butts, So if priyanka needs money, Gur and Rumps are staying in the show for charity?😆

If I recall NO GUY is interested in Gurpreet ..none wants to wed her and take her home. ..so pray why is she on the show?? Please explain this thing first and then we shall talk about Priyanka, Ok?😳



Free food, living in a very nice place free of rent, opportunity to gossip and feel important, public exposure.

If you recall Raj's dad said to Raj's mom "Surag mai rah rahai ho tum"
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Minal81

u cant dismiss the extended family so easily...marriage isnt about one day and who comes to the wedding or not...its about spending the rest of your life without your cousins and uncles n aunts....(if the matter is that serious) and that means birthdays, festivals, etc...with out them...i could never do it.....whats wrong with waiting...letting priyanka show them that she can fit in....



Most of the time extended family members are very different than each other, different education levels, income levels, diff life style. Most extended families have underlying problems and disputes. To expect a new wife to fit in with everybody is impossible. You might as well never get married at all and stay with your extended family with all its hidden politics and disputes.


Edited by April2007 - 16 years ago

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