Can't Ex's be friends?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I really did not agree with Maliaka Aurora's funda that an ex cannot be a friend. Two mature, educated people, can work out a friendship. Rumpa needs to get over her insecurity (fear of not winning 25 lakhs... Hitesh be damned!) šŸ˜† And if Hitesh or Pooja still do feel something for eachother, they they aren't really Ex's, are they?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Nope. I don't think ex's can be "just good friends". Either they are kidding themselves now or were kidding themselves before.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Naah! I dont think Ex-es can be friends...It becomes way too complicated to handle!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i too think that Ex ant b frendz

cuz its to get over that mis-circumstances...and as the Ex always reflects the bitter past so i dont think they can b frendz but yah formally they can just act like frends nothnig else..for sure!!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I have to agree with the original poster, that two exes CAN be friends. It's a very narrow minded point of view that they can't be. Matter of fact, I'm friends with my ex, and I know many people who are.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Definately not if even one of them has a new romantic interest in their life.......not fair to the other person...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: roxthefox

I have to agree with the original poster, that two exes CAN be friends. It's a very narrow minded point of view that they can't be. Matter of fact, I'm friends with my ex, and I know many people who are.



Instead of calling them narrow minded, leave it at "individual preferences'. Some people cannot embrace other people in their lives without comparing the current to their past. such people can never be wholly committed to the new person in their life. If you can break up cleanly, treat your current love interest equally, without letting ghosts from the past to haunt you, then go ahead and be friends, provided your current partner is OK with that😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sunandshine



I nstead of calling them narrow minded, leave it at "individual preferences'.šŸ‘šŸ‘ Some people cannot embrace other people in their lives without comparing the current to their past. such people can never be wholly committed to the new person in their life. If you can break up cleanly, treat your current love interest equally, without letting ghosts from the past to haunt you, then go ahead and be friends, provided your current partner is OK with that😊

narrow minded is such a hard word for us!!!yaar may b we r not that strong !!but calling narrow minded is such a powerful word!!!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Well, why wasn't the word 'preference' brought up when Malaika, and the rest of you, claim it to be a fact that exes can't be friends? It is narrow-minded to state that 'exes can't be friends' as a fact.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: roxthefox

Well, why wasn't the word 'preference' brought up when Malaika, and the rest of you, claim it to be a fact that exes can't be friends? It is narrow-minded to state that 'exes can't be friends' as a fact.



I cant speak for Malaika. I can certainly speak up for myself. I assume that the poster asked for everyone's opinion, I provided mine. Simple..Good for you that you can be friends with your exšŸ‘Peace!
Edited by sunandshine - 15 years ago

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