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This is truly out of curiosity. 😊 There is always more than what the eyes see. Don't just go on Hitesh and his broken heart.
Pooja came in the show. Some say she is an actress and she is here for fame
-- well yes. So is everyone else. 😊 You can get married outside of tv too. None of these girls are blind or disabled, they are not from the streets, they look decent and they have education. They can find many guys outside and get to know them. But they want fame. Swati was a model, Rajbir was a model, Priyanka was an anchor. Pooja didn't hide her profession unlike others and she even said she would continue after this. The girl never lied. So everything else is your own assumption.
She didn't like Hitesh, she liked someone else.
-- She didn't really like anyone. All the guys were offended because she didn't know who to pick. But ofcourse Rajbir's looks gets to everyone and she picked him. She didn't go after any guy who was already taken or was not interested in her. Was that wrong? would you prefer she waste her time like Vrinda waiting for Rajbir? Someone she doesn't even really like. 😕
Hitesh liked her. The show is about getting to know each other and that is exactly what she did. Would you rather prefer that she said no even before she got to know him.
She shouldn't have taken Hitesh on dates if she was not interested.
--- Then who should she take on her dates? There were only 4 guys and only one wanted to marry her. Was it not fair to try to know him before she said yes or no. Isn't the whole point of these interaction is to know if they suit? If saying " NO" is not an option then why not just marry like yash's mother's style and then get to know Hitesh? She always always always said I need time. Let me think! Which basically meant let me think if I want to marry you or not.
She broke Hitesh's heart
-- Towards the end they were suffocating her. If you have ever been in a situation like that you would know. You can't just marry someone because they love you, or they are good. You have to love them. There has to be a feeling that yes I can spend the rest of life together with this person without complains. I am willing to make sacrifices for him the same sacrifices I know he will make for me. You can't force those feelings on yourself.
It takes time to know someone. She must've not imagined Hitesh or his mom were such aggressive people at the beginning. It didn't even show till the past few weeks, when She would guard Pooja. Don't say the voiceover influenced us. Hitesh mom was taking healthy daily walk around the table when Pooja was taking to Rajbir's mom?? Few weeks ago hitesh's mom was the sweetest person for Pooja and now she is taking cheap blows at Pooja. You never know what kind of a person someone is till you have seen many different faces.
But even now the girl has held her head high, she is being honest and she is not badmouthing anyone but saying it was all her fault. She is the bad one.
I am not a Pooja fan but I do sympathize with her.
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