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Posted: 15 years ago
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another thing i would like to add - let's say we girls want to date a guy our dad or mom don't approve of. and let's say that guy insults our parents on national TV the way Gurpreet insulted Yash's.
tell me honestly - would you still carry on with that guy? i would NEVER! it's very imp to me that my husband should totally respect my parents and act big heartedly if they make a mistake.
why shouldn't the guy expect the same from his wife??
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: jasmine_anih

How you treat people or elders in good times is indicative of who you are as a person. I think Gurpreet started acting as if she was Yash's wife, instead of prospective wife. I thought she blew everything out of proportion and Gulaboo made it even worse. Gurpreet took everything so personaly, most mothers -as to the format of the show prefer somone other than who their son prefers. If Gurpreet had excersices some restraint and waited like priyanka the story would have been different. If you make a mistake you should get a chance to reform. But I think by that time Yashdeep had genuially moved on, I think one time Vivek and Nandita both thought of Gurpreet and Yash two as time pass.
As for posessive, it would drive me mad if my husband stood next to me everytime I spoke to a another male. I need my space...but that's just me ---😊



I understand.....what r u trying to put here .....Even raj's mom was interested in vrinda initially ......but gradually she realised that her son is interested priyanka ....she was ok with it ......she didn't forced raj to dump priyanka ......she never talked roudly to priyanka !!!!


and possesiveness .....not always lead in wrong direction !!!!!!😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ismita

I feel Gurpreet handled the situation immaturely,Iam not saying she is wrong,but as shekhar suman said after gurpreet outburst,she lost a golden chance of handling the things in the right manner .She got carried away by hitesh's mom too.I am sure if gurpreet would not have said all those things on the national TV,yash would definately set things right for them.with her going like that ,he could not do anything other than backing off and I think he took a sensible decision and If i look at him ,I feel he left the situation for the time to solve.He can't go against his family for the sake of the girl he is not commited.

Also gurpreet didnot leave a single chance to taunt them on any occasion.when she was asked to rank the guys she ranked him 4 ,but trying to pursue him later ?she doeanot have to rank him 1st ,but she could be honest.yesterday when they asked the mother's to select the son-inlaws ,all that lecture was not needed.gurpreet said she will move on ,because she has better options and she wants a good family with a good groom, and not the typical sas .Is this all needed when you still love that guy?Only problem with her is she talks at the wrong time in a wrong way and gets carried away,which basically dug her grave.But beacuse she is too young too understand we can't blame her completely.



thanx...All I feel that yash's mom forced her to react like that ...and also I agree she is young .....so may b out of anger she said somthing !!!!😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: wassup28

i am just sad becaoz of gurpreets elimination....like many even i was thinking that gurpreet and yash will get another chance to start a fresh...but things were not meant to be i guess....the main reason to watch this show was becoz of this couple...i really liked it...anyways...lets c what happens next...i dont think yash is interested in any girl left in the show at the moment and even vivek for that matter...they have not shown interest in Vrinda at all...none of the Kuwars for that matter...anyways...im just sad....:(



thanx......ya things could b better in future !!!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: blueash

shez just 21 n most older person behave immaturly many times...gurpreet was so sweet yaar i am feeling really bad for her she cried so many times poor girl.....



thanx.....@ bold very nice point ..!!!!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Perfangel5655

Haven't seen today's episode. Lets face it Gurprit is not someone who will be given the award of Miss Polite, Miss mature or Miss respectful.

Most of the time parents oppose who their children date, I hope those parents don't get insulted like yash's mom . Your real test as a person comes in when the time is rough. I was shocked to see Gurprit lash out at yash's mom on the stage, but sure she was hurt, she didn't know what she was thinking, people make mistakes. I get it she is not bad, but that does not change that she has made some very immature decisions.
I have really liked her after this whole tamasha ended. She is a very strong girl. It's awesome that she is blunt but she should really think before she speaks. What she says can hurt other peoples' feelings.



thanx..........yes .she is not very polite ....but what happened with her was also not right .......parents does oppose .but by giving solid reasons ......yash's mom ......kept on saying only one thing ....that "gurpreet will not fit in their family "....WHY??......She didn't mention that ......yash is not a 2 year old kid .....if he has cum to get married here .....he has full right to take his own decision ..and to put his point in front of his parents !!!!!!😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: neel_jay

the one thing we Indians are taught is to respect our elders and keep our voice down even when they make a mistake and talk to them calmly and try to make them understand our point calmly and politely instead of rudely. Gurpreet was extremely ill mannered and she made a huge mistake by exploding at Yash's mom because by doing that, she proved Yash's mom right!!!!
if only she had been humble and polite and really tried to get close to Yash's mom, the whole equation would have changed.



thanx. @ bold - I agree....but she tried to b cordial with yash's mom ..his mom ignored her .....If someone is not interested in talikng to u how can u forcefully talk to him/her !!!!!!!😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: neel_jay

another thing i would like to add - let's say we girls want to date a guy our dad or mom don't approve of. and let's say that guy insults our parents on national TV the way Gurpreet insulted Yash's.

tell me honestly - would you still carry on with that guy? i would NEVER! it's very imp to me that my husband should totally respect my parents and act big heartedly if they make a mistake.
why shouldn't the guy expect the same from his wife??



Well!......I would say NO.

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