if vivek can ...why not yash ???

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sjain

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Posted: 15 years ago

hello!😊

I m so upset that gurpreet left today .....I m so surprised ....Vivek understood everything .....that gurpreet liked yash alot😊 ......then .....Why yash could not understand her feelings ...???.......She was luking so heartbroken

yash ....Why u could not see gurpreet's feelings n her face !!!!

plsss replyyyy!!!!!😊

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jasmine_anih

@jasmine_anih

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Posted: 15 years ago

He likes her he just does not think she is right for him. Just because one person has strong feelings it does not mean the other does. It is also easy to see someone else's feelings when you are not involved. Similar to Vivek and Nandita when she showed a preference for Yash, Vivek could not see it.

As bad as everyone feels, this is the same Gurpreet who did not like any one talking to Yashdeep when they were together. She also had lots of attitude. Yashdeeps mom may have ignored her, but Gurpreet spent lots of time taking cheap shots at his mom (3 mummies and aunty). The exploding at his mom, and she acted like there was a promise of marriage, when there was not. Instead of understanding what she was doing wrong. I hope she grows from this expierence and moves on. I think it was good for her to get out of the house.

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sjain

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: jasmine_anih
He likes her he just does not think she is right for him. Just because one person has strong feelings it does not mean the other does. It is also easy to see someone else's feelings when you are not involved. Similar to Vivek and Nandita when she showed a preference for Yash, Vivek could not see it.

As bad as everyone feels, this is the same Gurpreet who did not like any one talking to Yashdeep when they were together. She also had lots of attitude. Yashdeeps mom may have ignored her, but Gurpreet spent lots of time taking cheap shots at his mom (3 mummies and aunty). The exploding at his mom, and she acted like there was a promise of marriage, when there was not. Instead of understanding what she was doing wrong. I hope she grows from this expierence and moves on. I think it was good for her to get out of the house.

thanx.....but I don't think gurpreet's reaction for yash's mom was wrong ......his mom remained so adamant through out the time when she was their .....she never tried to understand ....her own son's feelings ..she never even bothered to listen to him .....and after so much of humiliation ....gurpreet spoke ....

and yes I agree .....if u like someone .u get a bit possessive for him /her .their is nothing wrong in that !!!!! 😊

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mechocoholic

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Posted: 15 years ago

He does like her, you could see that in today's epi, even though he tried to conceal it, he wasn't all that successful.....the problem is that gur's blow-up on stage was beyond ridculous, and no sensible guy would even look twice at a girl who said all that to his mom, and whom he has just met .....

I dunno if u r a guy, or a girl, but what would you have done in yash's place, imagine ur mom in place in of yash's mom, and suppose someone says all those things to ur mom, would you forget and forgive????? whether your mom was wrong or right is not the point, but the mere fact that someone whom you were considering as a potential life partner, disrespects you mother this much and you could just act as though nothing has happenned...i know i couldn't have, and what about yash's other family members, would they have liked yash forgiving gur, and still carrying on with her, after what they must have seen????? i don't think so....

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jasmine_anih

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: sjain

thanx.....but I don't think gurpreet's reaction for yash's mom was wrong ......his mom remained so adamant through out the time when she was their .....she never tried to understand ....her own son's feelings ..she never even bothered to listen to him .....and after so much of humiliation ....gurpreet spoke ....

and yes I agree .....if u like someone .u get a bit possessive for him /her .their is nothing wrong in that !!!!! 😊

How you treat people or elders in good times is indicative of who you are as a person. I think Gurpreet started acting as if she was Yash's wife, instead of prospective wife. I thought she blew everything out of proportion and Gulaboo made it even worse. Gurpreet took everything so personaly, most mothers -as to the format of the show prefer somone other than who their son prefers. If Gurpreet had excersices some restraint and waited like priyanka the story would have been different. If you make a mistake you should get a chance to reform. But I think by that time Yashdeep had genuially moved on, I think one time Vivek and Nandita both thought of Gurpreet and Yash two as time pass.

As for posessive, it would drive me mad if my husband stood next to me everytime I spoke to a another male. I need my space...but that's just me ---😊

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ismita

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Posted: 15 years ago

I feel Gurpreet handled the situation immaturely,Iam not saying she is wrong,but as shekhar suman said after gurpreet outburst,she lost a golden chance of handling the things in the right manner .She got carried away by hitesh's mom too.I am sure if gurpreet would not have said all those things on the national TV,yash would definately set things right for them.with her going like that ,he could not do anything other than backing off and I think he took a sensible decision and If i look at him ,I feel he left the situation for the time to solve.He can't go against his family for the sake of the girl he is not commited.

Also gurpreet didnot leave a single chance to taunt them on any occasion.when she was asked to rank the guys she ranked him 4 ,but trying to pursue him later ?she doeanot have to rank him 1st ,but she could be honest.yesterday when they asked the mother's to select the son-inlaws ,all that lecture was not needed.gurpreet said she will move on ,because she has better options and she wants a good family with a good groom, and not the typical sas .Is this all needed when you still love that guy?Only problem with her is she talks at the wrong time in a wrong way and gets carried away,which basically dug her grave.But beacuse she is too young too understand we can't blame her completely.

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wassup28

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Posted: 15 years ago

i am just sad becaoz of gurpreets elimination....like many even i was thinking that gurpreet and yash will get another chance to start a fresh...but things were not meant to be i guess....the main reason to watch this show was becoz of this couple...i really liked it...anyways...lets c what happens next...i dont think yash is interested in any girl left in the show at the moment and even vivek for that matter...they have not shown interest in Vrinda at all...none of the Kuwars for that matter...anyways...im just sad....:(

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blueash

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Posted: 15 years ago

shez just 21 n most older person behave immaturly many times...gurpreet was so sweet yaar i am feeling really bad for her she cried so many times poor girl.....

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Fatima

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Posted: 15 years ago

Haven't seen today's episode. Lets face it Gurprit is not someone who will be given the award of Miss Polite, Miss mature or Miss respectful.

Most of the time parents oppose who their children date, I hope those parents don't get insulted like yash's mom . Your real test as a person comes in when the time is rough. I was shocked to see Gurprit lash out at yash's mom on the stage, but sure she was hurt, she didn't know what she was thinking, people make mistakes. I get it she is not bad, but that does not change that she has made some very immature decisions.

I have really liked her after this whole tamasha ended. She is a very strong girl. It's awesome that she is blunt but she should really think before she speaks. What she says can hurt other peoples' feelings.

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neel_jay

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: sjain

thanx.....but I don't think gurpreet's reaction for yash's mom was wrong ......his mom remained so adamant through out the time when she was their .....she never tried to understand ....her own son's feelings ..she never even bothered to listen to him .....and after so much of humiliation ....gurpreet spoke ....

and yes I agree .....if u like someone .u get a bit possessive for him /her .their is nothing wrong in that !!!!! 😊

the one thing we Indians are taught is to respect our elders and keep our voice down even when they make a mistake and talk to them calmly and try to make them understand our point calmly and politely instead of rudely. Gurpreet was extremely ill mannered and she made a huge mistake by exploding at Yash's mom because by doing that, she proved Yash's mom right!!!!

if only she had been humble and polite and really tried to get close to Yash's mom, the whole equation would have changed.

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