Originally posted by: hima_123
Hey Raj..in a way you are right....that many people dislike her coz she doesn't have the looks or personality that we wanna see......but do you feel that those people who think this way are really wrong?
Looks might not be so important in many areas, like when we look out for a soul mate...when we wanna find a friend .... buddy...in day today life....in work .....
But in certain areas, looks do matter...especially when one wants to achieve name and fame of being a TV celebrity...a star...a well nown personality....... don't you feel TV stars, models, film stars , are over-rated....in terms of money and fame?..Why? Its public opinion, that makes or breaks them...... And public opinion is such a strong phenomenon, that it can make any ordinary mortal larger than life. This public wants to see good appearances..personalities...confidence...traits..that etc rock...that stand out.
It would be naive of us to believe that people contesting in these reality shows do not expect things apart from marriage...many of them have come there for name, fame and money, and lets understand that Priyanka aint an exception.
There is nothing wrong with having this ambition..but then people will judge her too, before making her a celebrity - does she really have the looks? Can she carry herself? Does she reflect a strong character?
So we wont judge her the way we judge regular people....we'll judge her in a way whether she deserves the name and fame...she is there to achieve...
And thats why all these opinions about her looks, smartness, gait, strength of character.....
Hope this answers some of us...who want to know why these contestants are subject to such criticisms...(come on we dont make every movie a hit...just because we get sentimental over that its not nice to criticise or not appreciate some-one's hard work, it will hurt the sentiments of many ...etc etc...😊.).......
if someone..be it Priyanka or anyone wants to achieve something big...free money...adulations.......they've got to prove themselves to public...and believe me public will judge everything abt you, before it makes you a big guy!😊
hii hima.....well u said absolutely correct n raises d right point but buddy v r here 4 searching d perfect bride of d country not a perfect miss india or ny new supermodel................wat make a perfect bride of d country like india is sumone who has all d blvs, sentiments, emotionss, careness n everything which is demanded as in an indian wife..........
Internal beauty is more den external beauty..........i can give a live example 4 dat........do u remember VIVAH movie under sooraj barjatya's banner of rajshri's production.............at d end poonam lost it's external beauty totally still prem accepted her without showing ny hesitation...............n dat movie was blockbuster hit in d yr 2006.........coz dat was viewed by our people by 2-3 tymss in d theaters............
here in our country if v r gng to search a bahu 4 a son den ol hv prefered her internal beauty, her aticates, her way of toking wid otherss n all first. as itself ol moms in d show raises dis points agn n agn dat shezz toking wid al motherss n shezz not toking wid ny mom....
m totally agree wid u by looks factor...........but buddy shezz not so bad as so much people criticize her in dat manner..........looks n face is decided by god....so dis factor is juss left on dat superpower itself 😊