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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: bhallarox



Arjun has been even worse to Pia, hes trying his best to work everything out with Pari but not Pia. Pia never got to spend her childhood with a father, she just had Ovi with her but unlike Pari who had her whole family with her, Pia is not complaining, it shows how Ovi was a much better mother then Purvi because Purvi made Pari to become this way and Arjun is an awful father. He cares about Pari but Pia doesnt matter to him at all, never once has he asked Ovi about Pia, he forgot that Pia is his daughter and only remembers Pari because Pari is Purvi's daughter which is extremely unfair of Arjun.


Ugh seriously. Arjun-Pia was the worst handled relationship in the show. For some reason the writers thought that showing Arjun-Pia closeness would upset the fans of ArVi, which is why they decided to very unrealistically completely write Pia out of Arjun's life as if showing this dirtbag ignoring his own daughter would somehow strengthen the bond between him and his lover.

I mean, on the last episode, nobody even cared to ask about Pia, not even her so-called "father". What is this? What are they trying to show? That you should only love your children if you love their mother? That's completely nonsensical. I'm very, very disappointed.

Arjun wasn't in a fight with Ovi during the leap. He could have easily convinced her that he wanted to be a part of Pia's life. But no, all he could think about was his premika and their love-child, Pari.

Pavitra Rishta is a good representation of all that is wrong about Indian serials. *drops mic*
Edited by IKEAwizard - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Wish Archana all those years ago had talked to Ovi the way Purvi talked to Pari today. Instead, Archana happily took off to live with Manav and advised Ovi about the sanctity of the bond Ovi had forcibly coerced upon Arjun. Yet, the same Archana advised Ankita to go to Naren (a still much married man) and profess her love to him. Didn't make sense as to how the sanctity of marriage didn't matter all of a sudden.

What happened to the guy who had promised to wait for Pari? Forget his name. These Karmakars spoilt Pari's life completely. Ankita in her selfish need to please Naren at all costs, hid her pregnancy truth from Pari, lied about the reason she had married Naren, and forced poor Pari into marriage with an unstable man. Pari lost her baby because of Naren's mistake and Rushali forced a baby on Pari when she had still not grieved completely for her loss. And Naren, the less said about him the better. He treated Ankita outrageously and then once the tides turned, he didn't waste any time, didn't even wait to divorce his wedded wife, before running back to Ankita.

Also, didn't Arjun say Purvi was the one who was on her deathbed in the first episode after their return? Today Purvi said after the accident Arjun was in a coma. Can't the CVs keep their stories straight.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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They're wrapping up the stories and couldn't do justice to ArVi story when they were on the show, so there's no point in crediting them with any sort of feelings for Arvi fans except spite! They can't even keep Arvi's story straight about tumour, coma, death, accidents!
They could not have shown Pia as the actress was blacklisted from Balaji (some articles shared early on). As for phone calls etc., it doesn't necessarily have to be shown in the show to (which focuses more on the negatives than positives), but Arjun may have kept in touch with Pia off the screen too.

All in all, I'm happy to see ArVi. As for the messages in the show, every story from child donation to marital rapes has been a case of what not to do. Not gonna hold ArVi as some sort of message carriers for a moral compass. They were selfless, they made mistakes, they suffered and lost a lot and finally they got some happiness after all the struggle.




Edited by peachesnplums - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I have to say Arjun is the worst ever father in PR, he beats all of them by far, Soham was a terrible father but he is 100 times better then Arjun in my opinion, but on the 24th october epi Arjun just crossed the limit. He accepts that he did wrong in not being with Pari when she needed them but what about Pia? I was shocked that he didnt even ask Ovi once about Pia, he sounded least interested, he has completely forgotten about Pia. Pari turned out to be one of the most violent, out of control people ever, and this is all because Arjun and Purvi were never there to control her, and Pari is being forgiven so easily by everyone just since she is arjun and purvis daughter. If Pia wud have done the same as what Pari did the whole family wud have disowned her but since Pari is Purvi's daughter who is the most selfish and manipulative person ever, she got away with murder.

wish Ovi wud have blasted Arjun a lot for not asking about Pia, Arjun is the worst father ever. He's never suffered at all and is an extremely lucky person but its him and Purvi who are the only ones responsible for ruining Ovi's life, Arjun loves Pari more then Pia just because she is Purvis daughter and Pia is Ovi's yet Pari has been downright rude to Arjun all the time, Arjun doesnt even mind it. and Purvi herself even admitted she told Pari bad things about Arjun, but Pia has always been an extremely nice daughter to Arjun even though Arjun has always neglected her terribly.
Edited by bhallarox - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes yes Arjun was the worst father, as we've seen from last 1+ year in the forum with various discussions. Keep harping on and on and on, doubt it makes a difference anywhere except increasing forum thread activity 🥱
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Posted: 10 years ago
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For me ARVI were much better parents to Pari today wen compared to how Archana -manav handled the Ovi crisis ..inspite of whatever situations of them not being thr.. Archana's favorite was Purvi agree on that .. but when she let Purvi go off the town to save Ovi's amrriage which was doomed .. bcoz d guy again shouted in front of everyone tht he still loves his ex-fiance and den again comes back running to Ovi just on insistense of his love .. any sane and self respected person cld see its doomed but not Archana - manav ,Archana should have given OVi the lecture whic Purvi gave but no ... she lets her go on her own.. and save the sanctity of maarigae and 20 yrs later the what happened to sanctity ..
Even Arjun he cld have easily got into Pari's good books had he talked to naren for treating his daughter like this, since Naren respect him alot .. but no he didnt do tht bcoz sumwhr he knew they were in love or whtaever .. In contrast Manav didnt leave a single oppurtunity to slap , humiliate emotionally blackmail Arjun on countless occasions ..
as far pia is concerned when Mother only didnt bring her daughter wht is the father supposed to do ..
and as everybdy knows the actress no longer in good books of PH so even her charcter is nt mentioned..
at least congratulate Cv's dey have used logic at least once ...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: arbi_loves

For me ARVI were much better parents to Pari today wen compared to how Archana -manav handled the Ovi crisis ..inspite of whatever situations of them not being thr.. Archana's favorite was Purvi agree on that .. but when she let Purvi go off the town to save Ovi's amrriage which was doomed .. bcoz d guy again shouted in front of everyone tht he still loves his ex-fiance and den again comes back running to Ovi just on insistense of his love .. any sane and self respected person cld see its doomed but not Archana - manav ,Archana should have given OVi the lecture whic Purvi gave but no ... she lets her go on her own.. and save the sanctity of maarigae and 20 yrs later the what happened to sanctity ..
Even Arjun he cld have easily got into Pari's good books had he talked to naren for treating his daughter like this, since Naren respect him alot .. but no he didnt do tht bcoz sumwhr he knew they were in love or whtaever .. In contrast Manav didnt leave a single oppurtunity to slap , humiliate emotionally blackmail Arjun on countless occasions ..
as far pia is concerned when Mother only didnt bring her daughter wht is the father supposed to do ..
and as everybdy knows the actress no longer in good books of PH so even her charcter is nt mentioned..
at least congratulate Cv's dey have used logic at least once ...



I dont think Arjun and Purvi were good parents, Manav has been harsh with Arjun many times because Arjun deserved it, he cheated on Ovi. No other father in the show is worse then Arjun, he has never been with either of his children, he cares so much for Pari only because of the reason that she is Purvi's daughter, Manav was a much better father then Arjun because he always protected Ovi from Arjun and Purvi who both planned to ruin Ovi's life, but Ovi didnt bring her daughter because she didnt want to cause any more problems because the family was already mad at her thanks to Purvi lying to the whole family about Ovi, Arjun never cared for pia since she was ovi's daughter. Whenever Ovi talked to him about Pia Arjun always ignored it or tried to change the topic, he was completely indifferent to Pia but he always got happy whenever he heard about Pari. It is only Arjun who is at fault, if he cared enough for Pia he wud have made the effort to contact her but he is only concerned for Pari, there is absolutely no excuse for staying away from ur daughter for 20 years and Arjun did this only to please Purvi, it shows how selfish he is.
Edited by bhallarox - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I know I am hitting my head against the wall making a comment here. It is easy to convince someone who wants to understand something rather than one who has made up their mind not to.

I read some comments which shocked me. Hatred for a character is there, but to this extent! Pari was forgiven because she was Purvi's daughter? Are you kidding me or something? If you watch an Ekta kapoor show, you should be prepared to know that a murderer, a rapist and a criminal are forgiven in the end. Why? Because the show is ending! Also, what about Savita being forgiven? Sachin, Ovi, Naren, Rushali? For all they did? And oh, Soham?! I could give a long list of what they have all done, but cannot be bothered.

Secondly, in my honest and humble opinion, regardless of the fact that I am an ArVi fan, I disagree with comments such as Soham is a better father than Arjun. What?! Did he not make his daughter beg on the streets so that he could get money for alcohol? Or Manav is a better father than Arjun? Really? Like, really? Which father would pick one daughter over the without even listening to the other one's side of the story? Remember why Ovi stayed away from the family for 20 years? Not because Purvi told them that Ovi snatched Arjun from me or they cheated on me! But because they were not good parents to check and follow up on the situation! Which father would accept his loving daughters marriage to a man whom he knows loves another woman unconditionally and that that woman happens to be his adopted daughter?! Ohh yeah, a daughter he promised to support and help and whatever else he said!

I am just saying that even Soham and Manav are not as good fathers as they are made out to be.

I am NOT saying that Arjun is the BEST father in the world! Of course he is not! He made mistakes! Gave up on his daughter whom he loved and adored so much because she tells him to leave her and her mother alone! Another mistake, not following up on Pia. How could he when the mother of the child had no interest in letting him know that she was pregnant with his baby?! She did not even tell him that she gave birth to Pia before he got married to Purvi! However, that does not justify anything. But, we must not forget that we are critically analysing the characters of an Ekta Kapoor show where all the events are illogical, so criticising every single thing about a character is just wasting time.

The talk that Purvi gave to Pari in the episode was BANG ON!!! Not every parent can confess their mistake in front of their child. Also, the talk made sense despite the bloopers; the coma one, Purvi telling Pari wrong stuff about Arjun (in the earlier episodes we were told how much Purvi wanted for Pari and Arjun to meet. Doesn't make sense to me at all, this bit of I told you wrong things.) I completely agree with those who are saying that Purvi gave Pari the right talk about marriage and love. Something that made sense. Oh, and it was the right advice given to the right person!

Anyways, guys, just relax, the show is over, whatever mistakes that were made was ONLY and only due to Cvs and their tracks and LOVE for separating Arjun-Purvi. I mean which girl would leave her husband whom she loves so much, got united with after all the problems they faced together on just seeing him together with his ex wife in the hospital or room? No trust at all on the man she claims to love?!

So, as I said it is only the LOVE for separating Arjun-Purvi that got the story this far! LOL!

Anyways, love you Rithvik Asha! You guys were FAB as ArVi and loved seeing you in the last episode(s).

P.S: Apologies if I sound rude. No offence to anyone. No intentions of hurting any feelings:).

P.P.S: For all those going on about Pia not being cared, Arjun not asking after her, the reason is very simple; the actress left the show and the makers must have thought why bring a new face for the last episode?

P.P.P.S: The way ArVi "behaved" by ignoring Pari, was only and only the CVs fault. They did not know how to bring closure for the characters. Sad how everyone is fighting oops giving out "constructive criticism" like that. I am sure no real person would behave the way the characters are shown to.

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