ankitha is wrong

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Ankitha is wrong all the time... she created all the problems...

1) shashank was deeply in love with her... may be she also liked him.. bt she rejected him only for her siblings as she said ... still remeber the dialog she said to shashanks mother that her siblings are too toung so she has to keep them with her even after marriage.. thats y shashanks mom dint agree for their mrg

BUT even after she married Naren ,her siblings are living in chawl .all alone..NOW shashank is protecting them. so what ankitha had done ? did she frget her words after she got Narens mad love ?

2)Falling love with Naren is fine... understandable... bt after regaining memory,Naren had all the rights to knw the truith esply about her pregnancy... why she hide all those things ? once Naren asked her about his behavior in mad condition... bt she remained silent

3)PARI... is not at all wrong at that time... she was ready to marry another guy and she accpted the changes in Narens life ... Ankitha then created problems by Mahanatha,,,,,,,,,

4) Rushali is an evil... that we all know.. bt Ankitha could expose everythng in frnt of all as she had everthng with her Manav deshmukhs support and financial stability and so called big family support etc etc

5) Ranvijay... the poor guy and family treated her like a princess and she is still thnkng of her sisters husband !! what a pavitra rishta !!!

i love ANKITHA LOKANDE... not this crappy ankita ( charector) who got ruined by cvs

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vishwap

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I dont see why all the onus of revealing things to everybody in PR lies on the shoulders of Ankita? Are other characters not involved in any way?

When Shashank wanted to marry Ankita three things existed. Shashank himself was middle class.His mother did not like the fact that Ankita would have to look after her siblings . Mansi loved Shashank and his mother also wanted her for Shashank. Why are these things forgotten? With Naren she got some amount of stability for her siblings ie their education and other needs were apparently taken care of. At that point Rushali wanted her to marry Naren and promised to look after her siblings welfare . But getting married to a mentally unsound person was a risk which Ankita took in full consciousness and is facing the consequences to this day. It was lucky for her in a way that the "mental" Naren was a sweet person. But it could have turned out otherwise.

When Naren recovered from his condition, he hated the fact that he was married to Ankita. He became abusive, suicidal, violent and asked her to go and die. His mother, who started the whole thing, had turned hostile and there was no one significant who supported her. If she had told him about the child, nothing positive for her would have happened for her, but most probably the Naren- pari marriage would not have taken place easily. And she would have been blamed anyway for breaking up the great love story. So she went away , so that Naren and Pari can carry on with their love story.

Did she ever expect the recovered naren to take any responsibilty? I dont think the present Naren who is showering fatherly "love" on the baby would have been this way. This Naren is acting this way only because he cannot have a child with Pari, for which he feels responsible in some way. What happened to Naren and Pari after Ankita left is purely their mutual thing. So why should Ankita be blamed NOW for not tellin POOR Naren about his baby? I will not be deceived that Naren would have showered the same love on the baby if he had known of her existence in the earlier circumstances. He would have considered the a baby as a thorn in his love story . Rest we can only speculate. But to blame Ankita indirectly for his present condition is just not correct. The Naren of five years ago WAS a selfish and cruel man to whom ONLY his love story mattered, not Ankita or her condition. His present condition should not let us forget that!

As far as Rushali is concerened, how can Ankita expose her or who will support her. Did not her grandparents know the fact that she was carrying Naren's baby five years ago? Did anyone do anything concrete except shed sympathetic tears since supporting her at that point meant that Pari's marriage would be ruined. So how would they have helped her expose Rushali?

And why SHOULD Ankita fall in love with RanVijay. If he has helped her then, as his own family says, she has also helped them a lot by bring back normalcy and stability to their life. I see statements like this in other threads too that ranvijay is good and so Ankita should fall in love with him. Is this "falling in love" part in anyone's hands? As is "falling out of love". Has anything that Ankita has done after she left Mumbai, done any thing to harm Naren-pari relationship. So she should not be shedding even tears in private is it? Is she in some way troubling Ranvijay or Vaishnavi now? Isnt she taking care of Vaisnavi as she had promised. For what may happen in the future why is she being blamed NOW? She MAY fall in love with Ranvijay soon. She MAY even get married to him without falling in love with him if the circumstances so arise. If in future, she has to choose between Vaishnavi and Aashi, what is the right choice for her? Can anybody say this with objectivity? Its not easy is it?

But is everything in the story solely Ankita's fault? I dont think so. There are others who have got away and are more responsible! Especially Rushali. And the great Naren. They deserve a lot more bad things coming to them for all that they have done.

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Lol.. One strange thing. When the character of Ankita showed weakness, it was her character which was taken to task right and left.
But now when Pari is telling lies and manipulating..,Her behavior toward Ashi is very illogical...vow... it is the writers who are being blamed, not the character.
why? Arent the same writers writing both characters?what will Ankita Doing this ?

MOST DISLIKE CHARACTER IS NAREN

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: devidevika
Ankitha is wrong all the time... she created all the problems...
1) shashank was deeply in love with her... may be she also liked him.. bt she rejected him only for her siblings as she said ... still remeber the dialog she said to shashanks mother that her siblings are too toung so she has to keep them with her even after marriage.. thats y shashanks mom dint agree for their mrg
BUT even after she married Naren ,her siblings are living in chawl .all alone..NOW shashank is protecting them. so what ankitha had done ? did she frget her words after she got Narens mad love ?
2)Falling love with Naren is fine... understandable... bt after regaining memory,Naren had all the rights to knw the truith esply about her pregnancy... why she hide all those things ? once Naren asked her about his behavior in mad condition... bt she remained silent
3)PARI... is not at all wrong at that time... she was ready to marry another guy and she accpted the changes in Narens life ... Ankitha then created problems by Mahanatha,,,,,,,,,
4) Rushali is an evil... that we all know.. bt Ankitha could expose everythng in frnt of all as she had everthng with her Manav deshmukhs support and financial stability and so called big family support etc etc
5) Ranvijay... the poor guy and family treated her like a princess and she is still thnkng of her sisters husband !! what a pavitra rishta !!!
i love ANKITHA LOKANDE... not this crappy ankita ( charector) who got ruined by cvs

Agreed. Ankita lost respect in my eyes after Naren gained his memory back. She became a helpless little puppy so viewers could sympahtize with her. I haven't felt any pity for her charcater until the baby was taken.

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bonnefille

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: vishwap
I dont see why all the onus of revealing things to everybody in PR lies on the shoulders of Ankita? Are other characters not involved in any way?

When Shashank wanted to marry Ankita three things existed. Shashank himself was middle class.His mother did not like the fact that Ankita would have to look after her siblings . Mansi loved Shashank and his mother also wanted her for Shashank. Why are these things forgotten? With Naren she got some amount of stability for her siblings ie their education and other needs were apparently taken care of. At that point Rushali wanted her to marry Naren and promised to look after her siblings welfare . But getting married to a mentally unsound person was a risk which Ankita took in full consciousness and is facing the consequences to this day. It was lucky for her in a way that the "mental" Naren was a sweet person. But it could have turned out otherwise.

When Naren recovered from his condition, he hated the fact that he was married to Ankita. He became abusive, suicidal, violent and asked her to go and die. His mother, who started the whole thing, had turned hostile and there was no one significant who supported her. If she had told him about the child, nothing positive for her would have happened for her, but most probably the Naren- pari marriage would not have taken place easily. And she would have been blamed anyway for breaking up the great love story. So she went away , so that Naren and Pari can carry on with their love story.

Did she ever expect the recovered naren to take any responsibilty? I dont think the present Naren who is showering fatherly "love" on the baby would have been this way. This Naren is acting this way only because he cannot have a child with Pari, for which he feels responsible in some way. What happened to Naren and Pari after Ankita left is purely their mutual thing. So why should Ankita be blamed NOW for not tellin POOR Naren about his baby? I will not be deceived that Naren would have showered the same love on the baby if he had known of her existence in the earlier circumstances. He would have considered the a baby as a thorn in his love story . Rest we can only speculate. But to blame Ankita indirectly for his present condition is just not correct. The Naren of five years ago WAS a selfish and cruel man to whom ONLY his love story mattered, not Ankita or her condition. His present condition should not let us forget that!

As far as Rushali is concerened, how can Ankita expose her or who will support her. Did not her grandparents know the fact that she was carrying Naren's baby five years ago? Did anyone do anything concrete except shed sympathetic tears since supporting her at that point meant that Pari's marriage would be ruined. So how would they have helped her expose Rushali?

And why SHOULD Ankita fall in love with RanVijay. If he has helped her then, as his own family says, she has also helped them a lot by bring back normalcy and stability to their life. I see statements like this in other threads too that ranvijay is good and so Ankita should fall in love with him. Is this "falling in love" part in anyone's hands? As is "falling out of love". Has anything that Ankita has done after she left Mumbai, done any thing to harm Naren-pari relationship. So she should not be shedding even tears in private is it? Is she in some way troubling Ranvijay or Vaishnavi now? Isnt she taking care of Vaisnavi as she had promised. For what may happen in the future why is she being blamed NOW? She MAY fall in love with Ranvijay soon. She MAY even get married to him without falling in love with him if the circumstances so arise. If in future, she has to choose between Vaishnavi and Aashi, what is the right choice for her? Can anybody say this with objectivity? Its not easy is it?

But is everything in the story solely Ankita's fault? I dont think so. There are others who have got away and are more responsible! Especially Rushali. And the great Naren. They deserve a lot more bad things coming to them for all that they have done.

I agree with you on all the points but the bold part. She doesn't need to fall in love with Ranvijay, but at least she should move on in life. Would you want to see your friend, daughter or sister continue to mope for a man who treated her so shabbily for five long years. It is important to fall out of love for such a man. On the same grounds, a woman physically abused by her husband is justified to continue to remain in such a relationship because she is in love with him and its not easy to fall out of love. Even when Ankita remembers the baby she lost, she describes it as a loss of a link between her and Naren.

More than blaming her for it, most people here desperately want Ankita to see other opportunities that have opened up for her. She is not a 60-year-old woman remembering moments with a man with whom she has spent 40 years. And I personally don't understand the concept of first love...people hardly get to live their lives with their first love. At the moment, Ankita is so blinded in her love for Naren that she chooses not even to remember the bad experiences she has had with him. Her tight hold on Naren is the reason for her loneliness.

Also, she will never have to choose between Aashi and Vaishnavi. One is Ankita's daughter, the other considers Ankita to be her mother irrespective of whether or not she is married to her father. Even if Ankita chooses to go back to Naren, Vaishnavi will continue to regard Ankita as her mother. And if chooses Ranvijay, no one cannot stop Ankita to have Aashi back as she is biologically her mother and Aashi was taken away from her without her knowledge. She can go to court, win Aashi's custody and even get Rushali in jail. There is no doubt about the fact that Aashi and Ankita will click together. The choice is between Naren and Ranvijay only...and considering Ankita's undying love for Naren, Ranvijay hardly has a chance.

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ankita is wrong because she is worshipping disgusting man like naren .

Edited by sonalak - 10 years ago

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john909

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: sonalak
ankita is wrong because she is worshipping disgusting man like naren .

she is not worshipping him. she loves him. big difference. she loves him despite of the fact how selfish he is coz their relationship started with love and both loved each other immensely. she is choosing to remember happy memories.why is that disgusting? she left him coz how he treated her and hated her. she loves him unconditionally and to the point of no return. how naren is as a person is an entirely different issue. if someone loves a selfish or a bad person does not automatically make that someone pathetic or disgusting.

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Wow so all the wrong doings are of Ankita's. Even Rushali's evilness is because Ankita is creepy. What about the most likable human being Naren and and his 2nd wife without divorcing the fist one the real angel Pari. If Naren can not understand a simple line and if he can tell a girl who nursed her during his illness to go and die then it is also Ankita's fault. If Pari holds grudge on everyone except herself, if Pari traets Naren like trash if Pari behaves badly with Aashi even not knwing that she is Ankita's daughter, if pari runs behind Manav's property knowing fully well that there are so many people who should get a share then also its Ankita's fault. If Rushali goes and steals Ankita's baby about whom poor naren and the angel Pari spread those wonderful rumors and angel Pari also suggested Ankita to go for abortion is also Ankita's fault. If the Deshmukhs support their angel over creepy Ankita then also its her fault. If Pari badmouths Mansi and Ankita on Mansi's baby's party then also it Ankita's fault.

How convineintly we forget all the wrong doings of all the characters and all the blame falls on one single character.

Also i lost respect for Pari when she spread those rumors about Ankita's baby and told her to go for an abortion. Naren was never respectable after he gained his senses.

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Originally posted by: john909

she is not worshipping him. she loves him. big difference. she loves him despite of the fact how selfish he is coz their relationship started with love and both loved each other immensely. she is choosing to remember happy memories.why is that disgusting? she left him coz how he treated her and hated her. she loves him unconditionally and to the point of no return. how naren is as a person is an entirely different issue. if someone loves a selfish or a bad person does not automatically make that someone pathetic or disgusting.

the real naren is selfish and pathetic and in these 5 long years not once he thought what happened to that girl who once saved my life by putting herself in danger.I am the one who told her to go away from my life.whether she is alive or dead.forget about guilt he lacks basic humanity but this idiot girl is keeping fast for him taki aap khush rahe.it is very stupid in my opinion.I am not liking it at all the way these writers using ankitas character to propagate their regressive thoughts.they are giving very wrong message no matter how cruel your husband is you should keep fast for his happiness though he is abandoned you to marry another girl. I am ankita lokhande fan
I feel bad for her the way they are ruining her character.

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: sonalak
he real naren is selfish and pathetic and in these 5 long years not once he thought what happened to that girl who once saved my life by putting herself in danger.I am the one who told her to go away from my life.whether she is alive or dead.forget about guilt he lacks basic humanity but this idiot girl is keeping fast for him taki aap khush rahe.it is very stupid in my opinion.I am not liking it at all the way these writers using ankitas character to propagate their regressive thoughts.they are giving very wrong message no matter how cruel your husband is you should keep fast for his happiness though he is abandoned you to marry another girl. I am ankita lokhande fan
I feel bad for her the way they are ruining her character.

ya.i can understand your viewpoint. you are simply trying to say that she should put her self respect first. right? i think all this is done by the writers to reunite naren and ankita in future but anyways that is a different issue. i agree that the whole fasting thing is too much. if she simply remembers their love its ok but fasting and praying for naren is sort of too much. its like i m suddenly watching a drama in satyug or something. anyways i agree with your thoughts abt naren's character. he is truly rushali's son. same use and throw policy by mother and son. although i dont mind her being in love naren even today because that is how she is. i mean she has always been this way. she always have loved people around her unconditionally and immensely. regardless of how they treat her she always have loved them be it soham, D family, pari and even naren. basically she is an emotional fool most of the times.

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