Selfish...........

Ankita is not selfish.. rather she is so foolishly selfless that she is giving up on her love and rights that her child deserves just so that Naren and Pari can unite, so that the real lovers can be happy with each other... Bcos she does not want her child to be a burden on his/her father.

How can she be called selfish when she is not getting ANYTHING out of this? Rather she and her child are both losing out on everything.

I actually wish Ankita thought a little about herself. It is not wrong to think about oneself.

Ankita rather than being selfless is acting foolishly. Pari asssured her that she will help Ankita get her rights & her love. I think Ankita is too sure that Naren will never accept her & it is clear after the past incidences.
& why will Ankita not be sure when she herself has witnessed Naren's love for Pari.
But i still feel Ankita should have told Naren the baby truth in time.

and what right would Naren and his actual selfish mother give to Ankita and her baby?? Naren does not care whether she lives or dies and he definitely would blame the baby for his and Pari's separation.

Yes. Naren was waiting eagerly to give Ankita and her child their rights!

Originally posted by: Pheunli

Ankita rather than being selfless is acting foolishly. Pari asssured her that she will help Ankita get her rights & her love. I think Ankita is too sure that Naren will never accept her & it is clear after the past incidences.
& why will Ankita not be sure when she herself has witnessed Naren's love for Pari.
But i still feel Ankita should have told Naren the baby truth in time.

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

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So Pari can say , " I will not leave Naren but this child can still have the rights and his father's name ..She didn't say that and let Ankita and the baby go ...

Ankita was right that Naren will not accept her and the child will come more as a burden than anyone else ..

But Pari is in a stronger position because Naren loves her , she can tell Naren that fine , we are married and together but you have to live up to your responsibilities towards the child and do something for Ankita to appreciate all that she has done for you ...give her financial security etc ...

I understand but why only Pari, why to expect so much from her?? For whom will she fight when Ankita herself has given her rights. Had Ankita shown her will to fight for her rights, it would have been easier & reasonable for Pari to help her.
Why to blame Pari always??? Why?? Is Ankita not wrong?? Like Ankita even Pari is helpless. Try to understand the situations of both the ladies. You cant blindly support one, & blame the other.
When Pari is ready to fight for Ankita, Ankita should also give her concent. Pari is not a superwoman, she doesnt have powers to sort out everything.

Ankita is not selfish honey... in the 1st place why should Naren even know about this child yes his sperm contributed but still he would be forced to accept the child bcuz its his... how is she even sure Naren is going to give the child the love it deserves... I am dead sure he will reject the child because he loves Pari and he'll use his bipolar disorder as an excuse not to accept the child... so should Ankita be foolish and tell Naren that the child is his and then she be humiliated by the Karamarkars by forcing her to get a DNA to prove herself right and seeing how disgusting Rushali has been I'm sure she'll pay the doctors to change the tests reports and again she'll be humilated cuz Rushali and Kinnari will just say that she did that to extort money from Naren to bring up her child... so I seriously don't see why she should give Naren that right... and would you be happy if you forced a man to accept his child? no right? because 1.) that child may never get the father's love it deserves 2.) you and that man can never be happy after you forced him to accept the child. so why put yourself in trouble, true she could've told him privately because if it was me in that situation I would've told him AND THEN TELL HIM you can choose to accept the child or don't have to I am capable enough to raise a child on my own. but after seeing his reaction towards Ankita I don't blame her for not telling him... and you can't blame Naren or Pari either because Pari was led to believe that Naren and Ankita's marriage was just a condition that both benifitte from Naren I still kinda blame him cuz I mean she was your wife for 6 months and then you found out she was pregnant its obvious that the kid is yous but his mind is clouded by his mother's bakwhas and his love for Pari so he didn't even care to find out... the sad thing is in anyway Pari will suffer and Naren will look like a bad guy thanks to his so called mother

Originally posted by: Pheunli

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I understand but why only Pari, why to expect so much from her?? .

Originally posted by: Pheunli

I understand but why only Pari, why to expect so much from her?? For whom will she fight when Ankita herself has given her rights. Had Ankita shown her will to fight for her rights, it would have been easier & reasonable for Pari to help her.
Why to blame Pari always??? Why?? Is Ankita not wrong?? Like Ankita even Pari is helpless. Try to understand the situations of both the ladies. You cant blindly support one, & blame the other.
When Pari is ready to fight for Ankita, Ankita should also give her concent. Pari is not a superwoman, she doesnt have powers to sort out everything.