Terrible Dads of PR - Page 7

Do i need to read ur post carefully? I guess no. I m on topic and not interested how ovi was cured by onir when i know how ovi behaved after pari's identity was revealed. Insulted baby pari in party while purvi faced the same situation but never insulted ovi's baby.

If it was purvi's wish then let it be. It was not like purvi was sleeping on death bed and it was last wish which is cupalsary to fulfill.

This point always people bring o explain how bad purvi is. If baby donating made purvi the worst mother on earth then why not onir? He was equally involved and dont tell me about emotions, wish, onir is devta and he is best thing God has ever created coz i know everything still he was terrible like purvi at that time.

Originally posted by: soniiyaa

I think parenting is one the most diffcult jobs in the world. I'm not a parent yet to confirm this but from what i've seen - ive realized how diffcult it is. It is also hard to be a good human being b/c of the main issue that we are human. To be human is to error. Parents don't get a handbook to know how to raise a child. Our parents are also learning how to be a parent with each trial and error. And they're also going through the stages of life and learning and growing as you grow up. They also have heartbreaks that shut them down or other painful events in their life that make them make bad decisions or leave them in such despair that they're unable to fulfill their duties as a parent. They say we're so busy growing up, we don't realize our parents are growing old too. Everyone is also not so lucky to have all the fiances or may have other issues in their lives like addiction or depression or mental illness.

Some of the most efficent parent's children end up on the wrong track.

I'm not saying the mistakes the fathers made are right in this show. I'm saying parents are humans also. They make mistakes or are unable to fulfill their duties or just make the wrong decision cuz of the circumstances in life.

Forgiveness is important. Understanding the human condition is even more important.

Originally posted by: peachesnplums

Amusing to see people call Arjun the worst father and not Soham

It's okay to have your children beg on the streets, to leave them uneducated because you spent their school fees on alcohol but not okay to not contact them 😕

Originally posted by: pari-kirloskar

no one said soham isnt a bad father. there is no doubt he is terrible drunkard who left his children to fend for themselves. he is physically present with them no doubt but didnt give the fatherly care that was needed.

Atleast he was a goon who himself didnt get any love.

What about the business tycoon, prince charming Arjun kirloskar? he got more love than necessary still he didnt make any effort towards his children? His indifference toward Pari and pia makes him top the list of terrible dads.

but arjun was a very good father when Pari was a baby. I remember how much he loved her . then what suddenly happened after the leap? why didnt he try to take custody of Pari and pia is something not digestable.

The cvs didnt shape up Arjun's character properly and made him look a weak, confused, love sick person.

what CVs inculcate as part of drama and twists doesn't make Arjun a bad father.

How do you know what went on in 20 years - it wasn't shown was it?

However, Soham's crimes as a father and person were shown repeatedly and yet people, perhaps for the sake of instigation maintain Arjun is the worst father

The worst will mean worst than Soham

If that holds true, I have nothing left to argue for people who think it's worse to not contact your kid after 10 years (Pari, he called her up till 10th birthday and stopped after she shut him out), for Pia he was in touch via Ovi BUT it's alright for Soham to make his kids beg on the street, use their school fees for his alcohol.

As for Bhalla, your Rishabh Kapoor killing rants are unnecessarily repetitive, but you'll not refrain, so no point asking you to stop.

if there's anything new to add by members, I'll respond. Repeated jaap of ArVi are villains is plain old boring.

Originally posted by: FlawlessAshvik

So ,not contacting is worse than guaranteeing a bad,suffering future for his own children !

Good.

😳

yup man, twisted thinking 😕

It's amusing to see that Arjun as a father was shown for less than an year, but still overtakes all the awful things Manav did as a father (thrashing the life out of Soham as Sachin bled, or agreeing to every whim of Ovi) or Soham continues to do. Reverse obsession continues.

Originally posted by: Perfangel5655

The fathers were worse than the mothers. Arjun was the worst in my opinion.

Manav has made mistakes. Letting go of Ovi was one of the worst ones given she was his special child. But he did raise 3 kids alone, and the kids turned out well. They are each successful and they were not deprived of affection. Manav himself has been successful businessman and clearly work never stopped him from loving his kids. Once in awhile he did not know how to handle his kids, but the challenges thrown at him were actual challenges that parents may struggle with. How do you deal with a daughter who is sick? how do you deal with a son who has become a criminal? Different people will deal with these situations differently.

He was even a good father to both Purvi and Sachin although they are not his kids. He has made mistakes, bunch of them but overall he did a good job.

Everyone keeps saying the other characters are flawed and made their share of mistakes as if their mistakes were somehow normal, no! Staying away from children for 20 years is not a mistake. It is bigger than a mistake. It shows how little effort you made to be with your own child.

Not 20 years - it's 10

Rehashing from 2 pages back "Didn't Ovi and he say that they talk about Pia, share her pictures? How do you know if it wasn't mutually decided early on that Arjun shouldn't take an active part in Pia's life, just to avoid further questioning? and wasn't it Arjun who called Pari to wish her on her 10th birthday and she outright refused to talk to him? So the allegation of not contacting them ever is proved wrong. "

and yeah sure, Manav used words like Doosri Aurat for Purvi and refused to see his suicidal nutcase daughter but he was better than Arjun, sure!

I learn that making your child beg on the street is normal, taking their house away and removing the shelter is normal, leaving them to fend for themselves on the street is normal but not contacting them (no solid proof yet of that btw unlike what's shown of Soham as a father) for 10 years isn't!

i dnt get where all rationing goes ..i mean when it comes one hatred and pure jealousy for ARVI.. I mean Arjun cared for Pari even wen her biological & his den wife were skeptical to take her up.. he was one who looked after her.. as far his contacting is concerned.. its shown N no of times that he was bt she wasnt ready.. & he had to give up sum time or d other.. welll for Pia he was in touch thru phone which was allways implied .. as far kidnapping is concerned whr people point out he was more concerned for Purvi than Pia.. I wld even if Pari wld be stuck up in dikki his reaction wld be d same .For ARJUn its always Purvi first.. hhow difficult is it to get...

Originally posted by: peachesnplums

what CVs inculcate as part of drama and twists doesn't make Arjun a bad father.

How do you know what went on in 20 years - it wasn't shown was it?

However, Soham's crimes as a father and person were shown repeatedly and yet people, perhaps for the sake of instigation maintain Arjun is the worst father

The worst will mean worst than Soham

If that holds true, I have nothing left to argue for people who think it's worse to not contact your kid after 10 years (Pari, he called her up till 10th birthday and stopped after she shut him out), for Pia he was in touch via Ovi BUT it's alright for Soham to make his kids beg on the street, use their school fees for his alcohol.

As for Bhalla, your Rishabh Kapoor killing rants are unnecessarily repetitive, but you'll not refrain, so no point asking you to stop.

if there's anything new to add by members, I'll respond. Repeated jaap of ArVi are villains is plain old boring.

Originally posted by: onirfans

did i told anything against purvi ...i think no...and when ovi insultated baby pari in party ...did she told anything against or bad to pari ... and what u expected suddenly a wife will be learn the biggest truth in her life and she will be do hello and hi...

First explain difference between insult and talk against a person or bad words? So while insulting do you use best words and speak in favor of opposite person? And it was a family matter there was no need of public announcement. She came to know about pari much earlier but did not react so why in party?

whatever question was arise on party to arjun,purvi and onir that why they did and why purvi lied ... then how its insultated to baby... and purvi also did same thats was shown in flashback

I m sure not in public place. And she has right to react and if she reacted why ovi did not open her mouth to speak the truth?

scean...and most important thing purvi and ovi's situation was not same ...purvi exchanged ovi's baby without her knowledge...

Its not exchange. Its baby donation. What purvi will do with dead baby?

but ovi did not it , she handled her baby...atleast ovi gave the chance to explain but purvi did not gave...

And how purvi did not give chance to explain in 20 years? Ovi's moth was sealed for 20 years? Even if purvi was not ready to listen then there were other people who deserved this explanation but i know ovi is best.

any way that was not part of discussion u told thats why i told... so i request u do not drag it ...again...

?????????????

and again i am clear u i was just defending onir but i did not told purvi is worst mother ...

So go and read my original post i said onir deserves a place in this list. Never said give him trophy of worst father. And i guess i have right to express my opinion

its u who told ...whats onir fault if the mother of child will be want her child will be with her father...onir can suggest but can not forced her bcz its mothers right to take decission about her baby ...and he loves pari as his daughter but where is his fault ...if the mother did not gave him that right...its mother right that she will be give rights of father...

Ball was in his court and he could have acted sensibly. Again i never mentioned that onir was super excited while giving baby to ovi but once again let me repeat giving baby to someone who never cared about her own baby was foolish.

here i saw unnecessary dragging of onir when people can not defend even now he is not part of show...

Yes yes. Arjun and purvi are active on show. Right?

every father do all works for his child its their duty and natural feelings...but when the person will be do thats of duty and give loves of father without expecting anything then thats make unique love and person...bcz thats not possible by everyone...

So in this world only onir was selfless father. Really? Even my father never expected anything from me. Whats so unique about it? Parents r selfless. Is it a breaking news?

And what arjun was expecting from pari or pia?

one thing tell pari is onir child no ...but whatever he did for pari thats also did not by her own father...

Yes i remember pari demanded stars and moon and guess what very next moment they were on earth. Amazing. Pari's father is normal human being he cant do all these things.

Arjun was doing every possible thing like giving expense of baby pari when he was miserably trapped in mess but still i know he is not best thing God has ever created like onir.

arjun also knows that and in episode he himself told that how onir loves purvi and pari...then whats ur problem

As if arjun's words r very important for this forum. Arjun never said that he is cheating on any lady still this forum cook story. about his cheating.

i am sure if onir could fight for pari and could against of purvi to go arjun or to give fatherly right to arjun then i am sure every one would tell him villian , selfish that he wanted that girl for himself when he has not father of child...

What everyone would say is a mystery and u r assuming. As i said earlier inform arjun about matter and finish ur duty.

some people even would be blame he is like varsha etc etc...but surprised part is same people now expect he sould do that then he could become best father😆

Explain the meaning of sentence.

Originally posted by: arbi_loves

i dnt get where all rationing goes ..i mean when it comes one hatred and pure jealousy for ARVI.. I mean Arjun cared for Pari even wen her biological & his den wife were skeptical to take her up.. he was one who looked after her.. as far his contacting is concerned.. its shown N no of times that he was bt she wasnt ready.. & he had to give up sum time or d other.. welll for Pia he was in touch thru phone which was allways implied .. as far kidnapping is concerned whr people point out he was more concerned for Purvi than Pia.. I wld even if Pari wld be stuck up in dikki his reaction wld be d same .For ARJUn its always Purvi first.. hhow difficult is it to get...

well for me its Soham obviously first for reasons as mentioned ..i mean making yr daughter beg..n god knows wht not ..

and also i wld want to point out Manav in hadling of OVI during her psycho crisis was awful and handling of Sachin