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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: bhallarox



Hi Jhanvi, nice post, I agree with u that Naren and Ankita's marriage was not fully consensual, Naren at that time was not in his senses and he thought of Ankita to be Ahana, I hope he recovers his past memory soon, he will then like Ankita for who she is, Pari still definitely loves Naren, shes trying her best to forget Naren and move on but she really cant control it if Naren keeps coming in front of her, she wud definitely get emotional. About Ankita worried about her standing with Naren as a wife, I think she felt alone was because now she knows that Naren is back to normal and he wont recognize her at all, I guess it must be very hard for Ankita since all this time Naren loved Ahana/Ankita so much and they got so close to each other, and now he doesnt even recognize who she is, she is like a stranger for him now, in this situation I dont think either Ankita or Pari are at fault but they are both victims, I am also hoping for Pari-Shekhar and Ankita-Naren



Bhalla, you are right, none of them are at fault, Rushali is going to take advantage of the situation though. And yes, Ankita's position is very sad, she has gone from adored wife to a nursemaid and that must be painful. But I do want Pari to stay firm and away from Naren, she knows Naren is a married man even if he loves her and even if he doesn't know he is married. Unless of course Rushali convinces her with the divorce card and tells Pari that Naren and Ankita are not married and Ankita herself gave the divorce. The plot is interesting so far, we need to wait and watch :)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: innocentasha

Where it is mentioned that Marraige is Pavitra Rishta ...

Title song itself says "PAVITRA RISHTA TERE MERE MANN KA" not "PAVITRA RISHTA TERE MERE SHADI KA"

but the montage shows the gathbandhan ,which shows that marriage is a pavitra rishta
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: FlawlessAshvik

^^ Common guys. This was a sensible topic and I don't see any harm in discussing about Arvi here. The situation was similar to Ankita-Naren so it was needed.

By the way on topic I don't think it would make any difference. They are married so I would obviously support Ankita and not Pari. As Nikita said, I supported Aish-Ajay than Sal-Aish!


TM's topic is about the reversed role among the current generation, what Arvi got to do with this topic? How is Arvi storey similar here?

In Arvi's situation Arjun was forced to marry Ovi, it was emotional blackmail and stupid sacrifice and this marriage was hell for both Arjun & Ovi. How long a forced marriage would survive? This forced marriage was bound to be unsuccessful because Arjun never ever love Ovi and Ovi cannot force Arjun to love her. Arjun love Purvi and he could not forget Purvi neither could Ovi force Arjun to forget Purvi. People are talking about chemistry between Arvi, it is not only chemistry which is important but love and happiness is the most important. Love and happiness never ever existed between Arjun and Ovi and Ovi could not get love and happiness in a forced marriage. For me a sacrifice marriage is not pure marriage, it is an unfortunate marriage.

As for Purvi and Onir their marriage was based on an understanding and not loves. Onir realised Purvi's happiness was not with him because their marriage was a compromise. Onir knew Purvi's love and destiny is Arjun. Out of love and respect Onir did what he thought was right.

How is Arvi's storey similar to the current storey? I don't see any similarities.

Current generation Ankita married Naren in return she got financial support for her family. Ankita was not force to marry Naren. Ankita married Naren willingly it was her own choice. However now she loves him but Naren loves Ahana not Ankita, have to wait until Naren fully recover and if he chooses Ankita because he too loves her than I will support Anken.

As for Pari and Naren no doubt they love each other however later on Naren remembers everything and he choose Ankita than Pari should move on. Pari should progress in her life, she deserve her happiness and someone who will love her without any sacrifice or compromise.

@TM regarding your question about reversed role for me the storey is more important than the characters irrespective who play the role. In fact I got attracted to Arjun and Purvi's character because of their storey which was eventually destroyed.





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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: vision22

but the montage shows the gathbandhan ,which shows that marriage is a pavitra rishta


i agree that the montage shows gathbandhan which is a symbol of marriage but the title track makes the difference. it is shown a marriage gathbandhan with a song saying pavitra rishta tere mere maan ka which means that a marriage is a pavitra rishta when two people have a bonding between their hearts or souls or minds. purity of a relation is not defined on the basis of socitial approve but the bond between the hearts of two people.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ashvikian4life



i agree that the montage shows gathbandhan which is a symbol of marriage but the title track makes the difference. it is shown a marriage gathbandhan with a song saying pavitra rishta tere mere maan ka which means that a marriage is a pavitra rishta when two people have a bonding between their hearts or souls or minds. purity of a relation is not defined on the basis of socitial approve but the bond between the hearts of two people.



I Agree!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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He just need to be with his true love remember he married ahana the family told her he loves only one yes they had good times but he mistook her for ahana everything he did he thought was ahana . Ankita should know naren rele didnt love her the time they spent together was things he already did with pari . Pari should be explained tht n she should be with him
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: innocentasha

Where it is mentioned that Marraige is Pavitra Rishta ...

Title song itself says "PAVITRA RISHTA TERE MERE MANN KA" not "PAVITRA RISHTA TERE MERE SHADI KA"


of course.!! who said marraige is pavitra rishta? marraige means only other amar prem relations outside marraige right..?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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The concept of pavitra rishta is different for each individual, as a matter of fact having affairs and compromise marriage both stand on the same platform. Society terms the affairs as apavitra, while compromise marriag itself is apavitra because who knows what the other partner is doing.
Now coming to the topic, I never really wanted Pari with Naren so even if Ankita played the role of pari the opinion would not change. In the whole story I always wanted Pari to be away from the mess and it holds true for whoever the actress is.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: innocentasha



did i said that one more assumption just like other stupid imaginary stories...

no Pavitra Rishta means Charno ki dasi



oh really .. good to know. can I ask whose charan..? surely not Purvi's..??
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: foodlover-

The concept of pavitra rishta is different for each individual, as a matter of fact having affairs and compromise marriage both stand on the same platform. Society terms the affairs as apavitra, while compromise marriag itself is apavitra because who knows what the other partner is doing.

Now coming to the topic, I never really wanted Pari with Naren so even if Ankita played the role of pari the opinion would not change. In the whole story I always wanted Pari to be away from the mess and it holds true for whoever the actress is.


Good point foodlover👍🏼. At the end of the day any type of marriage can end up being apavitra whether it's a love marriage or not a love marriage. Heck there are people who have had love marriages who were so in love eachother when they got married but at least one of the spouses ends up cheating 😕. It's for reasons like this which have to w/why I don't give much of a crap in regards to how two people get married to eachother when viewing serials. Some people are mainly onto seeing one or two types of marriages on these shows but to me pretty much any type marriage goes. For me, it's more about how the two people deal w/their marriage post-marriage when it comes to passion, love, trust, commitment, & respect regardless of how they got married.

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