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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: vasu_2013

Janhvi!!!🤗for seeing you in the forum after so lo...ng ( I too have not been very active) and one🤗for the post.

For me, obviously Ovi is the one who erred the most and should seek apology first. Apart from all the reasons cited by others, my grouse is that Ovi came in between two people who loved each other truly and deeply and tried buying out Purvi's love first with money and when that didn't work, she used her own mother to achieve her ends.

Like how the first dice that Saguni got Dharma to roll ended up in Mahabharat war, that one deal of Ovi's destroyed many lives including hers. So thats the right place to start the apology rolling.



Vasu, hugs right back!!! Missed you too. Agree with you, the dice started to roll with Ovi and has to end with her. I posted a long list of reasons that Ovi should apologize to all and sundry for messing up everybody's lives (on Kool's thread) :) 😉
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: soapwatcher1



👏 Great point, Pallavi, had forgotten Ovi is also responsible for having remained quiet these 20 years, having made no attempt to clear away the misunderstandings between Arjun and Purvi and her parents. She knew the truth that Arjun was living alone miserably and yet chose not to disclose that to her parents or Purvi.


Thanks, Jahnvi! Its great to see u back on the forum and thanks for opening this opinion poll! 😊

Ever since the 20 yrs leap, I have been questioning Ovi's motives for keeping mum all these years, for hiding away in Australia and for never trying to reach out to her parents and clear up the misunderstandings! Not only did she deprive ArVi and Pari of a happy life, she also deprived Pia of her extended family's love and affection!

I still dont understand why she ran away to Australia and never called ArMaan to clarify. Its been claimed that she did call them and they didnt listen to her. Well, in real episodes they have not shown that so far... so it stands that Ovi didnt bother to contact them and let them believe she was living with Arjun. Ovi's actions always seem so strangely suspicious!

Like yesterday, she knew Purvi's life and Pia's life was in danger! Still she was hiding all that from Arjun, and she would have kept mum if Arjun had not overheard her conversation and hounded her to tell him the truth of what was going on...which was when she finally told him RK was a murderer!


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25



Thanks, Jahnvi! Its great to see u back on the forum and thanks for opening this opinion poll!😊

Ever since the 20 yrs leap, I have been questioning Ovi's motives for keeping mum all these years, for hiding away in Australia and for never trying to reach out to her parents and clear up the misunderstandings! Not only did she deprive ArVi and Pari of a happy life, she also deprived Pia of her extended family's love and affection!

I still dont understand why she ran away to Australia and never called ArMaan to clarify. Its been claimed that she did call them and they didnt listen to her. Well, in real episodes they have not shown that so far... so it stands that Ovi didnt bother to contact them and let them believe she was living with Arjun. Ovi's actions always seem so strangely suspicious!

Like yesterday, she knew Purvi's life and Pia's life was in danger! Still she was hiding all that from Arjun, and she would have kept mum if Arjun had not overheard her conversation and hounded her to tell him the truth of what was going on...which was when she finally told him RK was a murderer!




"I don't mind living in misery and depriving my daughter of her family as long as Purvi and Arjun are not living together" that is her mindset me thinks. And the almost perverse pleasure Ovi takes in humiliating Purvi now while she acts as Arjun's wife sits rather oddly with Ovi's new saintly self.

Thanks, Pals, for the welcome back :)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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"I don't mind living in misery and depriving my daughter of her family as long as Purvi and Arjun are not living together" that is her mindset me thinks. And the almost perverse pleasure Ovi takes in humiliating Purvi now while she acts as Arjun's wife sits rather oddly with Ovi's new saintly self.

Thanks, Pals, for the welcome back :)
Exactly! Ovi didn't lift a finger to clear the misunderstanding between Arjun and Purvi while she knew Purvi separated from Arjun because of her.
Few days back, there was so much noise in the forum when Purvi gave it back to Ovi when Ovi warned her off RK. Remember how much did Ovi taunt Purvi when she went to visit Arjun at his house and met Ovi instead?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hands down Ovi,she should apologize to Purvi Arjun & Pari.she has ruined three lives.I cant
Forget the way she taunted Purvi ,It was uncallled for as it is Purvi was devastated with Arjun's
Lies.At that moment she was getting pleasure in insulting &hurting Purvi.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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The obvious one for the obvious reasons ..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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ovi should have solved problems between arvi...20 years back...

I wanna recollect ovi's few mistakes...
1) why there was a need for her to drink alcohol when she was pregnant with her first kid?

2) when purvi had married onir and was trying to move on in her life, ovi created chaos with that pari thing and left to persue her career...

3) she left pari all alone when pari's truth was revealed...

4) when she was knowing that arvi are getting married and she was pregnant, she must have atleast informed about her pregnancy to archana... at the end archana was and is her mother, she would have helped her out...

1)she spoiled her life with her so called love for arjun (which was obsession, in my opinion).

2) she indirectly spoiled arvi's relationship after their marriage.(as arjun lied to purvi because of ovi and purvi lost their child due to stress)

3) she indirectly kept pari away from her dad...( as d-clan and purvi thought that arjun is happy with ovi and pia)

4)she kepy pia away from her family...( if ovi had solved the misunderstandings between arvi, d-clan would have accepted pia and would have showered all their love and blessings on her...)


in short ovi spoiled her life as well as her daughter pia's life...
she spoiled purvi's life and her daughter pari's life...
and in all arjun was destroyed...

so ovi should apologise...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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"I don't mind living in misery and depriving my daughter of her family as long as Purvi and Arjun are not living together" that is her mindset me thinks. And the almost perverse pleasure Ovi takes in humiliating Purvi now while she acts as Arjun's wife sits rather oddly with Ovi's new saintly self.

Thanks, Pals, for the welcome back :)

@ Bold : My thoughts exactly..

Please allow me to recreate my thoughts that I had posted on some other thread... just because I cannot bring the link here. My writing below in RED:

"We can blame Purvi for many things- of being impulsive, of being judgmental and also of ruining her married life by not listening to Arjun ( though it takes two to make a quarrel) - no denying it.

But Deshmukhs disowning Ovi is again Purvi's fault ?

It is OVI we are talking about----Ovi who is lauded as being REAL--- the one who shouts, screams and makes her VOICE heard. The one who SPEAKS what is in her heart. So when her family considered worse of her why didn't she become her REAL self, shouted and made her voice heard? Had Purvi put a PACIFIER in her mouth?

It is OVI-- The one who is used to getting things by CROOK if not by HOOK. So if she really wanted to be with her family, there would have been no STOPPAGE , no force on this Earth would have stopped her.

And it is still Purvi's fault... GREAT

On the retrospect, isn't it Ovi's fault that ARVI remained separated for 20 years? The initial misunderstanding was Arjun and Purvi's fault entirely. Agreed

But had OVI come clean 20 years back ( and she was absolutely capable of doing so had she wanted it), the truth about PIA would have been out and the misunderstandings between ARVI would have been solved there and then.

Was it like , " If my remaining away from family ensures Arjun Purvi's separation, I'm fine with it", on Ovi's part? "

Just blame Purvi for the dice Ovi rolled and the consequences that followed... This way it becomes easier to paint Ovi as a VICTIM...



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Oh Another thing to add...Ovi told Pia in the flashback today that she didnt know how Arjun found out abt Pia? 😆
Really Ovi? You didnt know? 😆 You didnt know that Arjun came to Kaneda, stayed at ur place, heard u blurt out that the baby was urs when she was sick...😲
These writers need a hammering on their heads to move their brain cells now so they can remember what they had shown in previous episodes!
And I thought I was getting old and forgetful...😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25

Oh Another thing to add...Ovi told Pia in the flashback today that she didnt know how Arjun found out abt Pia?😆

Really Ovi? You didnt know?😆You didnt know that Arjun came to Kaneda, stayed at ur place, heard u blurt out that the baby was urs when she was sick...😲
These writers need a hammering on their heads to move their brain cells now so they can remember what they had shown in previous episodes!
And I thought I was getting old and forgetful...😆



LOLOL!! Poor CVs they have too much going on, they change the story so often they can't keep track.

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