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Posted: 11 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: Angel-Jot.

So you wanted Ovi to tell Purvi that RK is a murderer without proof? Knowing it'll be futile and Purvi will 'blast' anyway? 🤔 So, whether she said something as vague as 'he's not a good man' or 'he's a murderer', at this point, both statements would have the same affect on Purvi. 😆

Im sure a more concrete statement would have more effect, like "Dont marry RK because I found out hes a criminal, or has a criminal past"..instead of a vague statement like hes not a good man!😆

Why would Ovi tell her daughter to tell Purvi that knowing that Pia doesn't have evidence to prove her point? I would never put my daughter in such a position where she has to put such an extreme accusation on someone.. WITHOUT PROOF. Ovi was a good mother by not asking her daughter to get involved directly. =/ Besides, didn't we all know that Pia would've done the job herself anyway without Ovi having to tell her? 😆

Ovi transfered her own lifelong guilt on Pia, which is why Pia thinks its her life's aim to reunite Arjun with Purvi...was that right on Ovi's part? She had no right laying the guilt trip on Pia that it was because of her birth that ArVi got separated! I wonder why nobody mentions that fact?😕

Arjun wronged both the sisters. Not just Purvi. And in this case, (Arjun not being a part of Pari's life) is because of Purvi =/ She believed Arjun cheated on her when no such thing happened therefore, suffering herself and making her daughter suffer as well. =/

Did Arjun even try to keep in touch with Pari? He was her father, even divorced or separated dads can be a part of their kids' lives...why didnt Arjun ever bother to know Pari or meet her? Purvi has never been shown to deny him his fatherly rights, just the opposite, she has been shown in REAL episodes to tell Pari to call Arjun, rebuking a young Pari from tearing up her father's photos! Its no use blaming only Purvi in Pari's matter and blaming Arjun in Pia's matter! Always lopsided views!😆

Arjun talked to Pia once in a while on the phone.. he never sent her birthday gifts either. 😛 He didn't even know how her studies are going.. He doesn't even know she's in India (even though he isn't supposed to for the plan to be successful).. shows how connected they are. 😆 But whereas one child has been taught to respect that father, the other was given the chance to harbour hatred towards him. Ovi didn't shun Arjun out of Pia's life, she encouraged it because it was the best for the child. Who cares what was best for Ovi and Purvi emotionally? Unlike, Purvi, Ovi thought of the best interests of her child.


Even Ovi didnt know Pia was coming to India. Pari grew up amongst relatives like Nina...who would go on taunting her abt her father abandoning her...because Purvi has been shown in actual episodes (and not the imaginary ones) telling adult Pari to call her dad, rebuking younger Pari for badmouthing her dad! On the other hand, Arjun never bothered to call Pari or send her bday gifts etc.

And why would Ovi teach Pia to hate Arjun? 😆 You guys are getting mixed up between the 2 scenarios...in Pari/Purvi's case, Arjun supposedly abandoned his wife and child, in Ovi/Pia's life that was not the case!

Ovi wasnt married to Arjun, she had Pia without him, she was satisfied with whatever contact Arjun kept with her and Pia...because she didnt have higher expectations from him, he wasnt her husband who had cheated on her! 😛
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Then why u unnessasrry blame other side with a false blame - Are you sure with false blame 😲 many years back in PR when Pari was born vulgar comments was made about Pari (if you are not one of them then you should not feel it right) however there are some 🤬 who made various vulgar comments about Pari and it still continues.
Have any vulgar words or comments made about Pia - NO
Edited by rkis - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: rkis


Yes, Pari is still called illegitimate, she has been called that since the time she was born, inspite of the fact that her biological father named her Pari Kirloskar himself just after her birth!
I wonder why certain people dont notice all that!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Pari was Not Illegitimate And that was Only because of the Fact that Purvi was married to Onir when Pari was born, She was His daughter, Arjun naming her as Pari or whatever is totally a non-issue and doesn't hold Any substance. Indian law recognizes that Relationships Are Illegitimate children aren't, So that Jhopda Night of ArVi may be Milan of those Amar premis according to many But according to Law that was (though not Illegal) but Definitely Immoral and yes Illegitimate ( I am not saying it Law does). So that Onir which is denoted as Hadda, Peeping Tom, Unwanted etc etc- Gave Legitimacy to Pari and Honour to Purvi! But was He appreciated? We All know the Answer. Too much Logic?Right?
When Ovi was pregnant with Piya and was working received One call from her Male colleague/friend and there were Numerous posts Accusing Ovi of having affair with that guy and charged Piya to be Illegitimate. Plz also refer to those🤬 People who made Those Posts.And there is Talk of sticking to 'Facts of the show' and Only relate to what is shown in 'Actual episode'! WOW. This is what I have always said if there is Good it lies in Both the point of views And If there is Evil it also Lies in Both the views. So Running on this High Horse - Post after Post and Claiming that Only They know the Facts, Only they use Good language, Only they possess Requisite knowledge, Logic, Only They are fit for debate! What You call this Behavior- Respect For Other Opinion! Isn't it?





Edited by persistence-win - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#85

Originally posted by: pallavi25


😲 I am really shocked about ur opinion ...

yes i saw so many topic where they discuss about pari is illegel but here any one not blame for this pari by using illegel all they wanted to blam arvi's wrong act ...but u told other side blame pari ...

if u could notice i never used this type of word inmy comment and also i disagree with these comment where they used this word , i clearly told its not a pari's fault but we can not ignore that its arvi's wrong action . so what u do mean by otherside . if u mean ovi fan then so many ovi fans still support pari . go and tell that person who told ...not to all😉

u used other sides it means u include every people who r not in ur group ...and now u told ur not in group👏



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25


Arjun also didnt know how Pari looked, he saw her photo for first time on Trilogy website before doing the business deal with manav's company!
Arjun never sent her gifts on her bday, never tried that hard to be part of her life, Purvi did want Pari to call Arjun, to communicate with her dad, but Arjun never bothered to keep in touch with Pari.

We never badmouth Pia, I dont know why the other side always badmouths Pari. 😕 Just because shes Purvi's daughter?

Pari has seen her mother cry for her dad for last 20 yrs, she grew up knowing her dad has ditched her mom and married her mausi, why wouldnt she be angry with her dad? Its quite normal!

Whereas Pia grew up in contact with Arjun...at least over the phone. He had seen her when she was younger, girls and boys do change in appearance when they grow up!
Arjun didnt see her after she grew up but he was a long distance dad to Pia, whereas he was a non- existent dad for Pari so obviously Pari's anger towards him is more severe!



what is there in pia to badmouth..??? even if u all wanted u cudnt...😆 and pia is like purvi teju ... but i bet if she had been like ovi.. u all would have gladly called her names and god knows what...!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Topic was kept open with a hope that both grps will debate it out sportingly and thats why DT dint interfere in it for a while till things were more or less under control but now the discussion has totally diverted to something else with both grps trying to take potshots about each other and bringing references of past posts which is not really needed ..

@Topic maker : When u open any post , u should b prepared for both agreement as well as counter attacks from members .. its your duty to make sure that no member feels attacked or offended in any way and the discussion continues in a sporting way .. Also as coolbie u r carrying certain responsibility too .. plss remember that next time

Closing this topic since the discussion is going nowhere now

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