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Posted: 11 years ago
#71
I called Ovi Obnoxious because she IS!
We have every right to present our views on Ovi and her dubious actions and intentions!
My post was abt Ovi's present actions and Purvi's justified outburst at her!
Why is that so hard to understand? Is it Rocket Science?

If people have no logical justifications for Ovi's present behavior then why blame other posters?
Edited by pallavi25 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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^^ I really would not have replied to you... BUT BUT BUT
Why get offensive now--- no DEFENSE is left?

And who the HELL am I to say those threads were obnoxious, those posts were obnoxious?--- They were because the Mods closed them or even warned those people citing similar reasons or along the same lines... BUT you DID not know it, isn't it?

No, don't thank me... those were FACTS again.

Just a clarification: I have NOT labelled any post as obnoxious in this thread..

I have a question though:

Since when did getting PERSONAL and NAME CALLING become stating one's POVs? And since when challenging such things have become BLATANT CRITICISM and UTTER DISREGARD? Especially how do you know them to be blatant criticisms and utter disregards when you made a SELF PROCLAMATION that you DO not KNOW about THOSE THREADS?

Of course even if name calling and getting personal is challenged-- those who are challenged are VICTIMS.

Those who open thread to criticize Ovi are here to ignite fire- those who do the same about Purvi are giving their POVs-- WOW

Wildfire is spreading at an ALARMING rate INDEED.

P.S : To sum up,NAME CALLING and getting PERSONAL is not as same as stating one's POV.



Edited by bitasta - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#73
Exactly one has every right to present their views on characters of the show And not to members of the forum. If One find Ovi to be obnoxious! No problems.I also find Purvi to be a pathetic, useless and a absolutely nonsense character! Because she also Is. And I also find arguments which glorify Purvi to insane levels to be unsubstantive, over the top and imaginery and if one is not willing to accept such high handedness! It's their opinion Why accuse them for their beliefs.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nobody glorified Purvi...her supporters have criticized her for her past actions! But all that is in the past! Now shes staying away from Arjun and Ovi as they wanted, she sacrificed her future happiness by agreeing to marry the dangerous tycoon RK, she made that sacrifice for Arjun's freedom from prison!

But Ovi is being put on a pedestal, its being said she has reformed, turned over a new leaf but none of her present actions are indicative of that!
Shes lying to Purvi and pretending to be Arjun's wife, shes humiliating and taunting Purvi at every chance, adding insult to injury!
And on top of that shes trying to give unwanted advice abt Purvi's fiance without any rational explanations! Shes not telling Purvi abt RK being a murderer, inspite of being privy to such knowledge!

Yet, Brutus is an Honorable Man! 😆

Besides Ovi has admitted to herself in one scene that shes a bad daughter and a bad sister!
Her actions dont match her supposed intentions. If she really wanted to reunite ArVi after Arjun's recovery, she would have told Purvi not to marry RK right after hearing abt their engagement!
But she was telling Arjun to let Purvi move ahead in life with RK...which proves her intention was never to reunite ArVi.
Edited by pallavi25 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Now that You have replied to Me SO SO SO I also have to do the same! Irony? I know.
If One is hell bent on getting Forcefully Offended on post which was Intended to be Absolutely Non-offensive then I guess one should get Their Defences right. Over sensibilities cannot be guarded, So not My fault.
If that Famous Okay 'Obnoxious' Post (You referred it as a Thing)- And Yes I don't know Anything about it! got closed by Mods Then Congratulations! What's Next?. This is what I Stated earlier that if One is offended by the post Just Report to get it Shut down and Maintain Peace, But I was reminded of Forum rules, So Whatever! And I never used the word HELL referring to you- You Yourself Did- that's also a 'Fact'.
To Answer Your ques- if One has a Opinion about the Characters of the show Its their Right Their Opinion, If one wants to call the Characters of the show Names- Well its also A Opinion, Ovi has been called various Names So did Purvi- So I guess its balanced. If getting Personal regarding Members of the forum Well as I said before Its absolutely Uncool that POV is not needed- because Pavitra Rishta the Show is open to Criticizm But personal lives of Real people Are Not.
Yes I did this 'Self Proclamation' about Not knowing Anything about 'Things' you Disregarded and Utterly criticized- And I Stick to it- I Have been taught to believe a 'Person' or a 'Thing' To Be Innocent Until Proven Guilty and Not believe in Hearsay this is What I Believe in. And if Mods also Criticized then it Must be Nasty and Should have been Avoided- So agreed
P.S This point I didn't needed to answer as it was Personal but I had a Defence- For this too.

If one is Equally Guilty of Name calling, getting Personal and Generalizing then they can't take the Plea of being Victims- can they?
P.S Plz answer Only for Yourself and don't Generalize all Purvi supporters as saints, same is the case with Ovi supporters- Balance is the Key! Everywhere.
Those who Criticize Ovi as for that matter Purvi! Are giving Their Opinion- But having this Superiority complex about themselves, Disregarding other people POV, disrespecting their beliefs, their sensibilities, their knowledge- generalizing them as bashers, jobless, jealous, pointless people- This Attitude Is to be seen because This attitude Ignites Fire and You Judge whether this Fire had spread to You or Not( You don't have to answer me because- This is Not My business) as far I am and My Fire is concerned With due respect- Its Not your business!
Great talking to you! so as far as in INDIA- GOOD NIGHT.
Edited by persistence-win - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25

Loved how she blasted Ovi in her office when she came to give her unwanted advice abt RK!

Great job, Purvi! 👏👏 Wish she had blasted Ovi like that 20 yrs ago!

How dare Ovi give advice abt Purvi's private life when she has been taunting, humiliating and insulting Purvi for the last 2 months, telling her to get lost from her and Arjun's married life?

If she didnt want Purvi to interfere in her so called married life, then why is she interfering in Purvi's private life?



The answer to your questions? Very simple. Because Purvi's life would be in danger if she were to marry this man. 😃 And even if according to you, Ovi is the worst sister possible for Purvi.. she is still her sister. No matter how much you may 'hate' your sister, you still can't sit back and let them endanger their lives right?

Since you've already very clearly stated that Purvi has no reason to believe Ovi.. you can't deny that Purvi wouldn't have believed Ovi if she had told her that RK has killed someone before.. Pia has no proof of that so how was Ovi going to blatantly tell Purvi that? Purvi would have demanded for evidence anyway.. and does Ovi have evidence? No.

Let's be practical for this scenario, yeah? Ovi said what she could without putting her daughter in the spotlight.. or getting her daughter questioned (since there's no evidence)..

Cause honestly, according to me.. if Ovi had kept her 'mouth shut' as you have said over and over.. 😆.. I would have been horribly disappointed with her character. I mean, your daughter tells you that she's seen your sister's fiance kill someone.. and you don't react? You don't say anything? That would be unacceptable. =/

So, Pia will save her 'maushi' from RK, huh? 😆 Funny how Pia respects her aunt and dad so much.. despite Ovi constantly trying to break ArVi up even now. 😆 Interesting..

Though, one thing that's bothered me is how much she cares about her father. =/ This man never bothered about you, doesn't even know how you LOOK.. (emails, pictures via text message anyone?).. and she still cares about him. 😲 She's too sweet for me =/ I would never respect such a man. The love that oozes out of her when she calls him 'dad'.. breaks my heart. 😔 There's her and there's Pari who calls him 'Mr Arjun' 😆 Interesting once again...
Edited by Angel-Jot. - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#77

Originally posted by: Angel-Jot.



The answer to your questions? Very simple. Because Purvi's life would be in danger if she were to marry this man. 😃 And even if according to you, Ovi is the worst sister possible for Purvi.. she is still her sister. No matter how much you may 'hate' your sister, you still can't sit back and let them endanger their lives right?

Yeah, Ovi knows Purvi's life is in danger yet she says a vague thing as :Dont marry RK as hes not a GOOD MAN! 😆 Not a Good Man! How lame is that? She shd have told Purvi RK is a murderer! And since she knows Purvi wouldnt believe her after all she has said and done, she shd have let a complete stranger Pia tell Purvi that she SAW Rishabh Kapoor killing a lady in a Hotel room!
Purvi doesnt know Priya is Pia, right? So she would believe Priya more than Ovi...yet Ovi insisted on going and saying vague things to Purvi. Why beat around the bush? Why not come straight to the point? Or better still let Priya tell Purvi abt RK?

Since you've already very clearly stated that Purvi has no reason to believe Ovi.. you can't deny that Purvi wouldn't have believed Ovi if she had told her that RK has killed someone before.. Pia has no proof of that so how was Ovi going to blatantly tell Purvi that? Purvi would have demanded for evidence anyway.. and does Ovi have evidence? No.

Again Pia/Priya could have informed Purvi Ma'am that she has seen him murder a woman with her own eyes! She is an eye-witness to the crime. Purvi likes Priya, she would have believed her!

Let's be practical for this scenario, yeah? Ovi said what she could without putting her daughter in the spotlight.. or getting her daughter questioned (since there's no evidence)..

Purvi doesnt know Priya is Ovi's daughter Pia

Cause honestly, according to me.. if Ovi had kept her 'mouth shut' as you have said over and over.. 😆.. I would have been horribly disappointed with her character. I mean, your daughter tells you that she's seen your sister's fiance kill someone.. and you don't react? You don't say anything? That would be unacceptable. =/

Ovi still didnt inform Purvi of the horrible truth abt RK, she just left and didnt ask Pia to tell her either

So, Pia will save her 'maushi' from RK, huh? 😆 Funny how Pia respects her aunt and dad so much.. despite Ovi constantly trying to break ArVi up even now. 😆 Interesting..

Pia is genuinely nice, she is like Prahlad, Ovi is Hiranyakashyap!😆

Though, one thing that's bothered me is how much she cares about her father. =/ This man never bothered about you, doesn't even know how you LOOK.. (emails, pictures via text message anyone?).. and she still cares about him. 😲 She's too sweet for me =/ I would never respect such a man. The love that oozes out of her when she calls him 'dad'.. breaks my heart. 😔 There's her and there's Pari who calls him 'Mr Arjun' 😆 Interesting once again...


Arjun also didnt know how Pari looked, he saw her photo for first time on Trilogy website before doing the business deal with manav's company!
Arjun never sent her gifts on her bday, never tried that hard to be part of her life, Purvi did want Pari to call Arjun, to communicate with her dad, but Arjun never bothered to keep in touch with Pari.

We never badmouth Pia, I dont know why the other side always badmouths Pari. 😕 Just because shes Purvi's daughter?

Pari has seen her mother cry for her dad for last 20 yrs, she grew up knowing her dad has ditched her mom and married her mausi, why wouldnt she be angry with her dad? Its quite normal!

Whereas Pia grew up in contact with Arjun...at least over the phone. He had seen her when she was younger, girls and boys do change in appearance when they grow up!
Arjun didnt see her after she grew up but he was a long distance dad to Pia, whereas he was a non- existent dad for Pari so obviously Pari's anger towards him is more severe!


Edited by pallavi25 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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So you wanted Ovi to tell Purvi that RK is a murderer without proof? Knowing it'll be futile and Purvi will 'blast' anyway? 🤔 So, whether she said something as vague as 'he's not a good man' or 'he's a murderer', at this point, both statements would have the same affect on Purvi. 😆

Why would Ovi tell her daughter to tell Purvi that knowing that Pia doesn't have evidence to prove her point? I would never put my daughter in such a position where she has to put such an extreme accusation on someone.. WITHOUT PROOF. Ovi was a good mother by not asking her daughter to get involved directly. =/ Besides, didn't we all know that Pia would've done the job herself anyway without Ovi having to tell her? 😆

Arjun wronged both the sisters. Not just Purvi. And in this case, (Arjun not being a part of Pari's life) is because of Purvi =/ She believed Arjun cheated on her when no such thing happened therefore, suffering herself and making her daughter suffer as well. =/

Arjun talked to Pia once in a while on the phone.. he never sent her birthday gifts either. 😛 He didn't even know how her studies are going.. He doesn't even know she's in India (even though he isn't supposed to for the plan to be successful).. shows how connected they are. 😆 But whereas one child has been taught to respect that father, the other was given the chance to harbour hatred towards him. Ovi didn't shun Arjun out of Pia's life, she encouraged it because it was the best for the child. Who cares what was best for Ovi and Purvi emotionally? Unlike, Purvi, Ovi thought of the best interests of her child.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Arjun never sent her gifts on her bday, never tried that hard to be part of her life, Purvi did want Pari to call Arjun, to communicate with her dad, but Arjun never bothered to keep in touch with Pari.

its true arjun only bothered to purvi , as a father he should try more to convience her child how he loves her bcz we saw arjun tried and called but due to hateness pari disconnect the call and more pathetic is when pari told do not call us he stoped ... arjun is very wrong not only for pari but also for pia ...

We never badmouth Pia, I dont know why the other side always badmouths Pari. 😕 Just because shes Purvi's daughter?
oh really u all never bad mouth to pia 😆...in first entry of pia all of u make mockery of her and when u saw we badmouth to pari did u give me some example 😊...we felt bad for pari , if we gave some sympathy for pari's bad luck then its wrong for u ...we blamed purvi, arjun and D clan for pari's situation and her nature but never pari and why we will be do ? still pari's story is unfold. then why u unnessasrry blame other side with a false blame


Pari has seen her mother cry for her dad for last 20 yrs, she grew up knowing her dad has ditched her mom and married her mausi, why wouldnt she be angry with her dad? Its quite normal!

yes for pari its normal but the fact is differentiation of pari and pia . pia is more victim bcz both lost their father but pari at least family in pia case she has only mother . so in both cases it was a duty of mother how she will be handle and how she will be bring happiness for her child , how she will be give a happy and joy full childhood for her child which will be make her child life smooth . it is a big exam for a mother but see ovi is win and purvi failed even having whole family...we never discuss about pari's behaviour is normal or abnormal bcz we known its normal for pari how she growp up. its not her fault...

we can not ignore the fact is purvi and ovi both felt betrayal and both lost child , both faced lieing from sister and husband . but see how they deal with situation for their child. when ovi become mother she forgive every one only for her child even when she was in Canada her sister snatch her husband . ovi could feel bad on pia's ear that how her sister changed her baby and how they cheat her etc etc...she is still in love with arjun, she could cry in front of pia for arjun . what ever purvi did but she did not she thought what will be good for her child pari and pia . for pari she divorced arjun and go away with pia . for pia she forget everything ...


Whereas Pia grew up in contact with Arjun...at least over the phone. He had seen her when she was younger, girls and boys do change in appearance when they grow up!
Arjun didnt see her after she grew up but he was a long distance dad to Pia, whereas he was a non- existent dad for Pari so obviously Pari's anger towards him is more severe!
its totally arjun fault he did not try but also its mother duty if the child asked about dad how they will be handel them . for mother child happiness should be greater than the hateness to ur husband or any other person...but we can not ignore D clan and Purvi they also wrong why they never tried to meet or call to arjun at least for pari's sake but only gave lecture to pari she should not hate her dad and in otherside they told only half truth to her , if they imagine arjun and ovi together then the fact will be never change pari is daughter of arjun and she also has right on her dad and same with pia she also has right on her ajji and ajuba ...but arman again failed as elder member of family...

and for pia's situation for a child a glance of father is not sufficient , they need father in every situation but hats off for ovi who handle everything and give all happiness to pia like normal parent

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Posted: 11 years ago
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bdw pallavi 26 likes for ur post...guddd

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