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onirfans

@onirfans

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Posted: 11 years ago

#11

so basically any kid who believes her father abandoned her and cheated on her mother, should not feel angry at him. they should just focus on his happiness. right. got it

no thats not ...its about how parents support their child and understood child psycology and how parents gave up everything for good upbring up child and her good future...

here fault is not pari's but her family especially her parents ...

ovi and purvi both felt cheated . ovi felt cheated but when she becomes mother she tried to her best so that her daughter emotion will be not hurt just like ovi felt in her childhood. she suffered a lot due to hateness so she did not tell anything bad to pia . and always told good about others...

she could told that how she found her husband with her sister in her bedroom and how her sister changed her baby , how her sister tried to close her husband through pari or how her would be husband had affair with her sister after engagement to her ...but she could not did it but simply she told pia that she had fault so that her daughter will be not hate to others...

but here in pari's case i can not think pari knows about onir and how purvi exchange baby and how onir suffered for purvi's mistake and how arovi marriage broke up due to her mother and her issue...no it seems she does not know about this , she only knows arjun was married to ovi but after divorce he again married to purvi and left her. even may be she does not know she was born before her parents marriage . no one and even purvi herself did not tell about her fault but she only know ovi and arjun fault. so its a natural for pari to hate arovi...

its parents duty to make understand that their child should not suffered for their unsuccesss relationship...which is understood by ovi but purvi did not...

this is the major difference

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Posted: 11 years ago

#12

I am so happy about Ovi and Pia. Ovi turned out to be the woman we knew she would someday become once she grew up. She kept Pia away from all the mess and she raised her wonderfully.

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IKEAwizard

@IKEAwizard

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

This actually makes me really sad. By making Pia supportive of Arjun/Purvi and totally "a-okay" with her (non-existent) relationship with father, I feel like the writers are justifying Arjun's actions toward her. If they had portrayed her as the victim of her father's abandonment (the more realistic depiction) and scorn, they would have had to admit that Arjun did some injustice towards her.

However, Pia is portrayed as being well-adjusted and content with having a father who cares very little about her. How is that fair or just? Or even realistic? It's clearly a ploy by the writers to haphazardly minimize Arjun's wrong-doings or flaws so he can continue being "Prince Arjun".

I just feel like Arjun is getting off scott-free. It's like they're saying, "He abandoned his daughter? So what! She's fine - look at her! LOOK AT HOW WELL-ADJUSTED AND COOL WITH EVERYTHING SHE IS!"

Urgh,

I hate this show's sick bias towards Arjun and Purvi (and Pari).

EDIT: Just saw the f*cking ridiculous scene with Pia adoring Arjun and Purvi's wedding photo... who does that? We all just naturally want to see our parents together since they were the reason we exist. It's so unrealistic for Pia to not care at all about her mother's and her father's relationship or what deadbeat Arjun did to her or her mother (abandoning them).

Edited by IKEAwizard - 11 years ago

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Winzy

@nicegirl_good

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Posted: 11 years ago

#14

Any child who thinks their mom was cheated on or they were abandoned should LEARN to forgive

Their mind should be clear , their father loves them

Both Arjun and purvi are terrible parents

The father never tried contacting pari and the mom kept making her negative

Her approach to life is influenced by purvi and Arjun's strained relationship

I don't blame her

But forgiveness and acceptance is key

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Winzy

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Posted: 11 years ago

#15

As parents responsibility is the children gets the best values and learn from their and their parents's mistakes

Purvi and pari's relationship is sad to say the least

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933624

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Posted: 11 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: ambolove
How can we support one over the other just because of their parentage?

Both of them are so similar to each other, apart from mood, one is usually angry with life, the other is more cheerful.

Both are committed to work.

Both Pari and Pia have studied hotel management.

Both Pari and Pia love to cook.

And I'm sure they'll show Pari teaching her little sister all the ropes of business and stuff, with Pia teaching Pari to loosen up a bit and have fun in life.

Why blame kids for what parents do?

EXACTLY...😊 i totaly agree...WHY BLAME THE KIDS FOR THEIR UPBRINGING...

but have to say pia is a very well brought up child .. and the best thing is ovi has told everything abt her past to pia and there are no secrets btwn them...

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Posted: 11 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: Perfangel5655
I am so happy about Ovi and Pia. Ovi turned out to be the woman we knew she would someday become once she grew up. She kept Pia away from all the mess and she raised her wonderfully.

yes ovi raised her daughter beautifully..

ovi herself was a victim of misunderstanding and hated her mom archu for 20 years. she didnt want the same to happen with her daughter...

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onirfans

@onirfans

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Posted: 11 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: pari-kirloskar

yes ovi raised her daughter beautifully..
ovi herself was a victim of misunderstanding and hated her mom archu for 20 years. she didnt want the same to happen with her daughter...

thats show how beautiful ovi in her heart and mind...she easily manipulated by punni due to savita but her good heart gives her strength to be independent ...

one thing i want to know how she adjust her financial condition...bcs due to marriage and pregnancy she lost her career as a model ...very few offer she got after marriage...then whats carrier she choosed modeling in australia or fashion designer ...

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ambolove

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Posted: 11 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: soniiyaa
Growing up with a full family doesn't guarntee a happy and secure personality and adulthood. And neither does a single parent house hold guarantee a insecure personality with multiple emotional issues.

Ovi loved Arjun immensely. Obviously, she would also love their daughter with so much heart. Not to say, purvi didnt or doesnt love pari or Arjun. Its just from that heartbreak, Ovi went thru all the stages, healed and grew up. She was able to give herself the time to grow and mature. Arvi never left that triangle. They were always in emotional distress. That distress seems to have passed to Pari.

Hopefully the sisters get together and teach e/o whatever they each lack like proper siblings.

Totally agree, by the time Ovi gave birth to Pia, she had already gotten over the fact that Arjun would never be hers, but she loved him still and Pia was the reminder of her love for him.

Whereas for Purvi, for twenty years she felt heartbroken by Arjun's 'betrayal' and that mindset passed onto Pari. Although I feel that Pari is not a bad person, she has a good character but is misunderstood. Pari definitely loves the people around her and is very overprotective over them.

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Shina_AshVik202

@Shina_AshVik202

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Posted: 11 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: ambolove

Totally agree, by the time Ovi gave birth to Pia, she had already gotten over the fact that Arjun would never be hers, but she loved him still and Pia was the reminder of her love for him.

Whereas for Purvi, for twenty years she felt heartbroken by Arjun's 'betrayal' and that mindset passed onto Pari. Although I feel that Pari is not a bad person, she has a good character but is misunderstood. Pari definitely loves the people around her and is very overprotective over them.

ambolove a very sensible post...i luv to hear sensible post only..lol i am so biased...yes she is defo nt...if u rember 1 scenario wid sachins son...she told him ajjoba has earned dis wealth with der hardwork so we shud nt jst spend it lik anythng...so she cares for her family a lot...den d hatred part...she wants to protect her moder from heartbrek...coz she is scared for her...and yes i do admire dat ovi raised child in a very gud manner...and purvi too only except d hatred part coz of d reason which u elaborated in very well manner.

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