Disgusting purvi DT note pg22 - Page 5

Originally posted by: ChemistryMajor

Okay I just want to make several points here.

1) I never criticized Purvi for her FEELINGS. I don't think anyone here is saying anything about what she feels, whether it's jealousy or anger or hurt. Of course she's allowed to feel the emotions you listed because those are human emotions. It's her ACTIONS that are extremely immature.

2) I am seeing the work Sanskaar as how Purvi described it HERSELF. Was it not her who said she doesn't drink because of her values, sanskaars etc.? Yes, right? Then but the next day/episode she still went ahead and drank. You see she said one thing and did another.

3) Of course Chadda is wrong! It's clearly obvious! Everyone is saying this guy is a pervert. No question about it and that's my point! How dumb is Purvi to make herself vulnerable to a predator like Chadda being at the age she is, all to make Arjun jealous! And by age I mean that at 40+ age, I'd expect her intelligence to be higher. I don't mean that at her age she can't drink, dance, or date anyone. You'd expect a teenager to behave stupidly like this but not a grown woman because one expects grown adults to be more mature in the way they handle their emotions (whether it's jealousy or hurt).

I think Purvi is behaving this way because she knows that something is seriously wrong and both Arjun and Ovi are trying to hide something from her ... She is trying to make Arjun to stop acting and tell her the truth .

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Being Sanskari doesnt mean she cannot get jealous! Sanskari people are human beings too, they can feel jealousy, anger, hurt, pain, and all human emotions! They haven't exactly transcended human emotions, then they would be Saints! Mahatmas! Sant-Rishi! 😆

I think the term Sanskars is completely misunderstood here!

Of course she wanted to make Arjun angry and worried, not exactly jealous! She knew Arjun was worried abt Chaddha targeting her! She wanted to see concern and love in Arjun's eyes. That was her motive!

The thing I found most cheap was the mentality towards NRI women as expressed by Chaddha! Nobody is discussing abt that? Everybody is busy blaming Purvi!

How Chaddha thought that just because Purvi is a single woman, a divorcee from Canada she would be easy game? 🤢

Purvi is a fakester and hypocrite period . I can understand Pari behaving like this ...a wild teen curious about the father who never bothered about her and contented himself cutting birthday cakes . While Purvi knew her parents had died and she was being raised by a shining star who was the ultimate drama queen seperated from her husband Pari knew her father was alive and very much there . She throwing herself at an older man , drinking , flirting was all so understandable . All i can say for today's episode is i wish Archana was there to see it . Unfortunately she is busy selecting jewellery for 40+ Purvi's whimsical third marraige which may or may not happen . Little does she know that instead of traditional jewellery she should be buying designer lingerie .😉

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Precisely because shes a 40+ yr old woman, she has the confidence in herself that she can deal with a perv like Chaddha! Shes a professional and agreed to go to Panchgani because she knew she could handle him. And do u think if Arjun didnt come to rescue her, Purvi would have been dragged to the bedroom by Chaddha? Shes not exactly a Victorian heroine, is she?😆 I bet she would have slapped him or kicked him. She knew Arjun would come to her rescue, she has that much faith in him STILL! They are Amar Premis naa? 😉

She took a risk by dancing with the perv...because she wanted to test Arjun's love for her...thats human nature! She wanted to be reassured that her safety still mattered to him a lot!

As for her lecture to Chaddha abt drinking, remember Arjun had not arrived yet? Chaddha was making assumptions that all Canadian Indian women drink, so she put him in his place with lectures of sanskars. Best way to refuse the drinks forced on her by him!

But she drank when Arjun was present? 😉

But here is where I would have to respectfully disagree with you. I don't think she could deal with him. Who knows what this pervy guy would do? Be forceful with her, knock her out, use a weapon...we don't know.

All I am saying that it's clear that Chadda doesn't have good intentions so why put yourself in the position of him possibly taking advantage of her? She was depending on Arjun to save her.

Sorry but I just don't agree with this dumb scheme all to make a man jealous and to reassure one's self-worth and safety. There are better and safer ways to do that. And if Arjun does save her I don't see how that specific action proves his true love and concern for Purvi (not questioning Arjun's love). I think any decent man or person would save a woman in trouble.

Arjun also saved Ovi when she pretended to make him jealous when they were TEENAGERS in Canada. Does that mean Arjun truly loved her? No. Of course not but he was still concerned about her safety.

And you're right she is a professional business woman so this behavior looks ever more immature for her.

Purvi mata ki jai ho

Purvi throwing herself at Chaddha! 😆 Really, I saw Chaddha pulling her to dance and she relenting unwillingly!

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Purvi mata ki jai ho

i think there should be a statue in this forum to worship her

she can do no wrong 🥳

uff this is why I don't like soap forums so much these days, fan girls annoy the heck out of me

i mean if someone does wrong, they are WRONG ovi is WRONG and no one justifies it

but some fangirls are constantly trying to come up with arguments to defend mata purvi OUFH sorry can't call her mata dil se abhi young hai na woh 🥳

Oh God! What can desperation make one do!

There is just too much desperation going on here.

I agree that Purvi is not buying into the charade put up by Arjun and Ovi.

But why is she so desperate to learn the truth all of a sudden? In fact, Arjun and Ovi are enacting exactly what Purvi has insisted on for 20 years. So, they are actually proving her right, which she should like very much.

Why is she now taking desperate measures to get at the truth she never wanted to accept?

But wait, we have all along thought that taking desperate measures to get close to Arjun is a hallmark of Ovi, Now it is Purvi's too?

Way to go Arjun! You are some prize, though you spent 20 years in loneliness cutting birthday cakes for an absent wife!

Please CVs, give this track a break! And give the viewers a break!

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But jokes apart, seriously, I feel really sorry for Purvi's character - the CVs are totally butchering it with constant inconsistencies. They are being very unfair to this character that has brought them good trps for so long.

I am not anyone's fan in particular. I like all of them.

But if I were Purvi's fan, then I would not defend her behavior especially since the time she refused to listen to Arjun 20 years ago. Defending this kind of behavior would be giving too much credit to the really bad writing done for her character. She truly deserves better writing to get back to the spunky and dignified character she began as. I would start a campaign to get better writing for her,

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PS Came to visit and could not stop myself from posting!

Bye!

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Purvi mata ki jai ho

i think there should be a statue in this forum to worship her

she can do no wrong 🥳

uff this is why I don't like soap forums so much these days, fan girls annoy the heck out of me

i mean if someone does wrong, they are WRONG ovi is WRONG and no one justifies it

but some fangirls are constantly trying to come up with arguments to defend mata purvi OUFH sorry can't call her mata dil se abhi young hai na woh 🥳