What was ovi's fault???Mod note pg19

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soniiyaa

@soniiyaa

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Posted: 11 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird
A husband that hid the truth of her stillborn , she is suppose to be honest with him🤣

So its okay with you for ovi to be like arjun and hide truths? What difference us there left between them in your books then? Not much, huh?

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soniiyaa

@soniiyaa

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Posted: 11 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: Perfangel5655

There are certain fans who always expect the worst from Ovi no matter what. Nothing was shown and there were already assumptions that maybe Purvi caught Arjun in a hug with Ovi or other things of that sort. Maybe the baby is not Arjun's and she is using the baby to get back into Arjun's life even though there is no indication of such thing. Some people do not like her character and no matter what she does they will find a way to blame her. It's fine. There are Purvi haters who do the same. I just think people should be honest with themselves.

Maybe Ovi did do something bad. But for now she is innocent.

And as an Ovi fan I was so glad she didn't tell Arjun. Not because I wanted her to be mahaan but because I didn't want Arjun around her. Arjun looks at Ovi as his responsibility. Even when he found out about this baby instead of worrying about how he didn't know about his sick child he was thinking about what this situation does to his life. I am all for fathers having the knowledge of their children but not so much when the father has another daughter and would've only looked at you as another obstacle that is ruining his love life.

Ovi and Pia deserve better. Purvi and Arjun absolutely belong together.

Im def not one of those fans. I applaud ovi when she does well. But i also dont believe she is clean of any fault.

They are human. Arjun was wrong for how he reacted towards ovi and pia but this was a very regular human reaction. It was of a selfish man. Yes, theyre human too. And in even the most mahaan humans, the thought would cross that "oh crap, my life seriously going to be screwed up now". Arjun was always the last to know in both cases of his living children. Both times the moms didnt inform him. And in one case, he didnt even know he lost his child. He was never in control of when or how his children came etc. Kinda sad... He never got to have any input.

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soniiyaa

@soniiyaa

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Posted: 11 years ago

#43

@mayursidma

You say arjun wouldnt give a hoot about pia if he knew beforehand... And this is your belief ... Now what if i say arjun would have given a hoot about pia? He was trying to make it work with ovi and refused to sign divorce papers until arch cried to him about freeing her daughter. Now i know... You will see he was insincere... Well i say he was being sincere... Now what?

Would arjun and ovi been happy? You say probably not... But at least they could have tried again... Especially with the new ovi who had matured ? Who knows. We don't. The fact remains Ovi owed it to Arjun to tell him of the pregnancy since they were married at the time. Whether they would have been happy or unhappy after, she owed him that. And she def owed arvi when they were getting married that listen i have a kid just like how the truth was out that onir was just acting abt being shady. Arvi deserved the truth before they married.

Similarly, purvi owed it to arovi to inform them regardless of what her thinking was that this would just ruin arovi etc. She owed arjun and ovi that.

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sowmya

@Not_a_fan

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Posted: 11 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: soniiyaa

Im def not one of those fans. I applaud ovi when she does well. But i also dont believe she is clean of any fault.

They are human. Arjun was wrong for how he reacted towards ovi and pia but this was a very regular human reaction. It was of a selfish man. Yes, theyre human too. And in even the most mahaan humans, the thought would cross that "oh crap, my life seriously going to be screwed up now". Arjun was always the last to know in both cases of his living children. Both times the moms didnt inform him. And in one case, he didnt even know he lost his child. He was never in control of when or how his children came etc. Kinda sad... He never got to have any input.

The thing is, everybody's at fault so you look at it relatively. Relatively, Ovi has done nothing to break arjun and purvi's marriage. Arjun and purvi already had problems in the few months of their marriage and they didn't trust each other for all their great undying love (or at least purvi didn't trust arjun, at all!). So, it collapsed. They are to blame for the failure of their marriage, nobody else. Even if Ovi had come and told to purvi that she and arjun were having an affair, purvi shouldn't have believed her. Just goes to show that love is less important than trust and respect for your relationship and for your partner.

Coming to arjun, won't you agree that his reaction to knowing the truth of his stillborn and pari was very, very different from his reaction to knowing about Pia? Or maybe they are exactly the same. In the first, he was celebrating that his daughter was actually borne by purvi and in the second, he was mourning his daughter who was borne by Ovi. How ironic, when he should have mourned the death of his stillborn while celebrating pari and celebrated the birth of Pia!

If anything, Ovi has lost everything. Arjun presumably at least had his dad for support while the whole family ditched Ovi and Pia both without a second glance. When purvi had done the same on top of switching the babies without the consent of either parent, she was immediately forgiven after a slap on the wrist. Who needs enemies with family like this? I am very glad they are by themselves, and I hope they are doing very well for themselves without the shadow of the damned!

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Fatima

@Rhimjhimsawan

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Posted: 11 years ago

#45

@ soniiyaa Oh no! 😊 I didn't think you are one of those fans. I am just saying Ovi would be blamed by some people no matter which path she had chosen. She doesn't even need to choose a path and she will still get blamed.

I think Arjun is a very weak man. I love Arjun, Purvi, Ovi all of them as characters. I love these little flaws that the characters have. I support Ovi because at the end of the day I can empathize her with the most but I enjoy flaws in everyone because it makes them appear human. I only have problems when people try to deny these flaws.

I don't expect Ovi to be perfect. Telling him would've been the right thing to do because then Arjun would know that he has another child. But I really didn't want him to know. I don't think he deserves her or Pia so I really wished he hadn't found out about it. He did find out but look where it is now. He still doesn't have Pia in his life (unless Pia died or Ovi disappeared with Pia). So from where I see it this particular father knowing about his daughter or not knowing about his daughter really didn't matter when it comes to that father/daughter business.

Edited by Perfangel5655 - 11 years ago

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MidnightRambler

@MidnightRambler

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Posted: 11 years ago

#46

@soniiyaa I am happy to see that you want Ovi to not be on the same level as Arjun/Purvi and want her to be a bigger person.

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Fatima

@Rhimjhimsawan

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Posted: 11 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: soniiyaa
@mayursidma

You say arjun wouldnt give a hoot about pia if he knew beforehand... And this is your belief ... Now what if i say arjun would have given a hoot about pia? He was trying to make it work with ovi and refused to sign divorce papers until arch cried to him about freeing her daughter. Now i know... You will see he was insincere... Well i say he was being sincere... Now what?

Would arjun and ovi been happy? You say probably not... But at least they could have tried again... Especially with the new ovi who had matured ? Who knows. We don't. The fact remains Ovi owed it to Arjun to tell him of the pregnancy since they were married at the time. Whether they would have been happy or unhappy after, she owed him that. And she def owed arvi when they were getting married that listen i have a kid just like how the truth was out that onir was just acting abt being shady. Arvi deserved the truth before they married.

Similarly, purvi owed it to arovi to inform them regardless of what her thinking was that this would just ruin arovi etc. She owed arjun and ovi that.

I think this is what makes it so interesting because we can never really say with certainty what the characters feel. (Especially because they are not well written)

I think Ovi and Arjun marriage a second time around would've worked out well. They are weird. They are never too mad at each other no matter what the other one does. They give into each other. Their friendship was a strong base.

I still think he would've been a terrible father to Pia. He would've looked at her as his responsibility

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..CrazyInLove..

@..CrazyInLove..

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Posted: 11 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: soniiyaa
@mayursidma

You say arjun wouldnt give a hoot about pia if he knew beforehand... And this is your belief ... Now what if i say arjun would have given a hoot about pia? He was trying to make it work with ovi and refused to sign divorce papers until arch cried to him about freeing her daughter. Now i know... You will see he was insincere... Well i say he was being sincere... Now what?

Would arjun and ovi been happy? You say probably not... But at least they could have tried again... Especially with the new ovi who had matured ? Who knows. We don't. The fact remains Ovi owed it to Arjun to tell him of the pregnancy since they were married at the time. Whether they would have been happy or unhappy after, she owed him that. And she def owed arvi when they were getting married that listen i have a kid just like how the truth was out that onir was just acting abt being shady. Arvi deserved the truth before they married.

Similarly, purvi owed it to arovi to inform them regardless of what her thinking was that this would just ruin arovi etc. She owed arjun and ovi that.

When Arjun thought Pari was ArOvi baby he hardly spent time with the baby and Ovi was shown always taking care of the baby. After he found out that Pari was Purvi's baby he took more time out of his work to be with her. So it shows that he always favoured Pari more once she was Purvi's baby. If he were to care for Pia, he would not termed her just as his responsibility in the hospital as if he were indifferent to her existence. He definitely wouldn't have focused more on his life with Purvi rather than first asking how the baby was doing. He had every right to be mad at Ovi for keeping the truth from him, but can that not wait till first he is reassured that his baby is safe? When his affections didn't change Pari (infact they grew) when he found out her mother was Purvi while he was still married to Ovi, why should his affections change for Pia if now he finds out she is his and Ovi's baby during his marriage with Purvi? It's not the baby's fault, so shouldn't he have accepted Pia just like he had accepted Pari when he found out, or do different daughters get different reactions depending on who their mother is? Does a father's reaction change according to whether he is married to the mother or not?

Now for making it work with Ovi: If a person is sincerely trying to make their relationship work, they definitely don't keep tabs on ex's husband and go around spying on them. They don't follow ex's in the rain and hug them when they know that the wife is miserable in the other room after listening to the premarital sex explanation given by the ex to justify Pari's existence. A person who would've sincerely tried making his relationship work, wouldn't go back to his ex after a few days of signing the divorce papers and claimed that he and his wife couldn't have made it work since he never loved her. How can we assume that Arjun and Ovi would've stayed happy, if he himself claims he could've never made it work since he never loved her? They might have, but according to me chances are they most likely they wouldn't have.

Anyways, I had clearly stated that according to me Ovi should have informed Arjun as should have Purvi. But regardless if she tells or hides the truth, she is thought to be the cause for their separation. In this particular case from what has been shown, Ovi doesn't seem guilty of causing the rift between Arjun and Purvi. They did it all by themselves.

Edited by MayurSidma - 11 years ago

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arvifan1

@arvifan1

Dazzler

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Posted: 11 years ago

#49

The reason all this is happening is because of ovi... It was entirely ovi's fault from the beginning till now

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bips

@bips

Sparkler

+ 8

Posted: 11 years ago

#50

unbelievable, i thought that at least THIS would not be ovi's fault. This 20 year misunderstanding nonsense is completely purvi's doing. She is just pissed that arjun slept with ovi without her express orders. Initiative in slaves is so not appreciated

btw, if ovi is so powerful, what the heck is the Amar Prem all about ? eating puchkas, dancing around in the rain, flowing dupattas?

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