practice wat u preach:Mod note pg3 - Page 3

Originally posted by: cradily

well this arjun doesnt value any woman in his life.
on the television there are advertisements as to there should be atleast 3-4 year gap between kids. however i guess those rules apply to sensible men and not to despo maniacs.
his daughter needs attention of both parents. however does he care for his daughter ?
his wife who is hardly 21 is not physically healthy to have 2 pregnancies one after another. however does he care for his wife's health ?
his ex wife is just coping with her life and he goes to her house and boasts about how he his wife is pregnant again. just 1-2 months back he slept with ovi and was boasting of patching things with her. now he goes and boasts about purvi's pregnancy.
there is only 1 thing going in his mind 24/7 and we all know what it is.
however he still has so many female fans. this only proves how regressive our society is becoming.

Although I am neutral on all sides, you have to take pavitra rishta with a pinch of salt. There's nothing right about it. DK sir will soon turn evil too.

What you are saying is not entirely true. Most of our oldies i.e grannies had children spaced barely a year apart and both mother and child were fine. Medically advanced countries can also play a part in healthier pregnancies and labour. With purvi that's totally fine, she has every luxury she would want to have an excellent pregnancy because her baba, husband and father in law are there to pay for millions not just for pregnancy but for after care too!

Following was written by a midwife and health visitor so you see complications can arrive anytime and to anyone! Pregnancy in itself is a complication! A first time mother could have a horrific labor too.

When to have another child is a personal choice and sometimes not entirely within our control! Women starting their families well into their thirties may not have the luxury of choosing wider spacing as diminishing fertility becomes a factor.

Even so, health-wise it is better to recover from one pregnancy and childbirth before embarking on the next for you and your baby. A review of many studies in this area has shown a significantly higher risk of prematurity, low birth weight, and being small for gestational age in babies conceived within six months, compared to babies conceived within 18 to 23 months, of a previous birth. These risks were still evident for babies conceived within 7-17 months of the previous birth, albeit to a lesser extent than those conceived within six months. If you aim for an 18-23 month gap between pregnancies you'll have time to recover your energies and replenish your body's resources.

A smaller gap between babies gets the hard work over with more quickly but the expenses come closer together and there may be more squabbling later as the children's interests overlap. While, larger gaps give you the opportunity to enjoy each child as an individual and to give them your undivided attention for the first few years. It also means you can spread the cost of having children over a longer period of time.

However, children who are very widely spaced may grow up less close to one another. Sometimes there is resentment from the older child who feels his position has been usurped by a new arrival. Also, the risks of the same birth complications seen with a very small gap between pregnancies kick in for much larger gaps too. The review above found that gaps of 59 months (about five years) or more between pregnancies were also associated with a significantly increased risk of premature delivery, low birth weight and small for gestational age.

In general, it is sensible to wait at least six months to a year before trying to conceive again in order to give your next baby a healthier start to life. Other than that, there don't appear to be any major disadvantages associated with having your babies close together, although it may be more emotionally and financially demanding in the short term. The key question is "Are you ready to have another baby?".
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And apparently purvi is all for having a baby. She's recovered from her last birth. She knows what pregnancy is like. Who would know a pregnancy better than a mother?

Thing is arjun should have been more sensitive to ovi's feelings, knowing she had lost a baby. I understand that.