Are manav & archana themselves civilized? (Soham's case)

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I was thinking of writing this for a while now and the day before episode was the last straw for me.
Soham whoever he is today or whatever his behaviour is...whether you call him an animal or beat him up like an animal...is because of his upbringing.

A human being's nature is a product of the environment in which he grows up and also the teachings his elders give him/her.

It is not soham's fault where he grew up and what his foster parents taught him...is it? Is it his fault that his real mom is a great sacrificing woman who gave him away to her psycho sister?

After soham shot archana he changed as a person and tried to mend his ways by working as a labourer despite his father being one of the top-most businessman of india.

The question arises is what has his parents done to reform him? You cannot just wish away the upbringing soham has got and make him a gentleman in one day...can you?

I don't see PR that often but whenever i see manav and soham in one frame...manav is either beating him up like an animal or is treating him like a servant.

Archana too has nothing much too offer except her un-conditional motherly tears and advices to reform.

The problem is a guy like soham who has grown up with a gangster cannot change his behaviour pattern and thinking just like that.

You should educate him...there are 100 of great personality development institutes just for this purposed.

Manav who is a rich business has just one way to reform his son and that is to call him a "animal" and beat him up like an animal.

What manav and archana did on day b4 y'day's episode was cruelty and i sincerely hope no child gets shouted and abused and beaten up like soham got.

One really wonders is whether manav and archana themselves are any better than the people soham grew up with?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I know only one thing... Soham is not bad...his upbringing is bad...

I love soham that's it and agar soham ne itna kuch kia ...
Then baaki itni achhi upbringing ke saath kaunsa doodh ke dhule hai...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Even if we leave everything aside, the way Armaan were beating was gruesome!
They were literally beating Soham like an animal!
It was almost like a WWE!
Have you seen parents beating a 20-25 year old son like that ?
They are too not civilised at all! Archana did not have any right to call him an animal!
GOD! Parents even if their children does the biggest mistake do not beat their children the way they beat him!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Soham isnt that bad :( nice post
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Posted: 11 years ago
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TM agree with your view.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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hug for u!!!!
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uth sooth sagle majhya soham la blame kartahet!!
Still the parents can be blamed - both sets only hitting and shouting is not a way to treat
apart from gauri and sometimes purvi, no one really showed the right path to soham!!
sick of ppl bashing him😡😡😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Totally agree with TM! Ive expressed the same views in many other threads! How could they expect Soham to change overnight without any help, education or training? Behavior modification classes?
Theyre calling him an animal, pets like dogs are sent for behavior modification classes! Why didnt they send Soham to a human equivalent like a behavior therapy institute? Archana thinks just her lectures abt sanskars would undo the years of violence and criminality that Soham grew up amidst?
Hes prone to violence, he needs checks and measures to curb his violent tendencies! But what do his wonderful parents do? They treat him with violence, they beat him up mercilessly in public because he DARED to ask for Gauri's hand in marriage! Why didnt they beat up Ovi when she actually married Arjun by trickery and blackmail?
Archana and Manav are themselves uncivilized! Archu slaps anyone who infuriates her, she cannot control her anger! Manav used to yell at everyone before, he also needed anger management classes.
Now with the bullet lodged in his brain, hes himself a menace to society, beating up anyone who angers him!
However wealthy and cultured they may pretend to be, Armaan are still uncivilized and still have brawling in public tendencies like Savita!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: WhatOnEarth

That can be said of every criminal of the world. In that sense nobody in the world is bad.😳


i dun talk to haters...don't hv tym to explain d things...😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25

Totally agree with TM! Ive expressed the same views in many other threads! How could they expect Soham to change overnight without any help, education or training? Behavior modification classes?

Theyre calling him an animal, pets like dogs are sent for behavior modification classes! Why didnt they send Soham to a human equivalent like a behavior therapy institute? Archana thinks just her lectures abt sanskars would undo the years of violence and criminality that Soham grew up amidst?
Hes prone to violence, he needs checks and measures to curb his violent tendencies! But what do his wonderful parents do? They treat him with violence, they beat him up mercilessly in public because he DARED to ask for Gauri's hand in marriage! Why didnt they beat up Ovi when she actually married Arjun by trickery and blackmail?
Archana and Manav are themselves uncivilized! Archu slaps anyone who infuriates her, she cannot control her anger! Manav used to yell at everyone before, he also needed anger management classes.
Now with the bullet lodged in his brain, hes himself a menace to society, beating up anyone who angers him!
However wealthy and cultured they may pretend to be, Armaan are still uncivilized and still have brawling in public tendencies like Savita!



This bold point is so true.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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pallavi25 and u all in this thread!! u guys rock! i used to think in this forum if one bashes the great armaan then they themselves get bashed!! but this thread changed my mind!! yes arman are at fault and yes there are double std probs in soham and ovi's case as u all highlighted

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