Me, Myself and only I - Soham - Page 2

Ash, lovely post. Watching PR and Gauri is telling her parents she never loved Soham. You are right, however much we might have liked Soham, he is ultimately responsible for what he did to Sachin. Same way as Ovi couldn't accept for a long while that Arjun didn't love her, Soham is not accepting that Gauri does not love him. Same mistake. Wrong both times.

Ash very very good post. Already my view others post. So my view are finished.😆

Originally posted by: pikachu.

Wonderful post Ash! 👍🏼

Soham is entirely responsible for what he is facing now! Even if I had any pity for him after yesterday's episode its gone! He really wished for Sachin's death and that's very much unhuman thing to wish! Even Balan did not wish his death! Shows the limit Soham has crossed.

I don't blam Gauri at all for chosing Sachin. Why shouldn't a doctor(who might have spent sleepless nights studying) should marry a guy like her who can earn a livelihood unlike the one who has spent his life killing people! It would have been very unrealistic if she would have chosen Soham. Happy that Ekta chose the realistic way !

Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham

this is some weird fantasies that are playing out right now. haha. bechara soham, bad jealous sachin (idk y a lavishly brought up NRI lawyer would ever be jealous of soham the uneducated mawali, for manav and archu aai's attention? thats just stupidity, this kid doesnt need validation from archu, she was willing to leave everything she had for him- i dont think he needs any further validation) take his lub! he tried to kill his own brother and FORCEFULLY marry Gauri, but Gauri must have feelings for him because she denied her feelings very quickly?!? to the same people, by that logic- arjun must have had feelings for ovi too right? i know this is a show where anything can happen but give me a break! wanting gauri to have feelings for him is equivalent to having rape fantasies. its messed up and should not be shown on tv. India already has raped girls being forced to marry the guy and terrible cases of stockholm syndrome, anything to add to that is just extremely irresponsible media conduct. and yes yes archu is a TERRIBLE mother, i agree 100% but a lot of people grow up with absentee parents and turn out fine and if they dont they are sent to jail or rehab, as they shud be. Grow up Soham!

Shockingly enough ppl who hated ovi so much for 'forcefully' marrying arjun, stick up for soham. y? he's doing something worse than ovi! ovi never tried to kill purvi or even wished her death. she was straightforward. she wed arjun right in front of purvi, with purvi and arjun albeit sad and begrudging consent. she had money, she could have hired someone to get purvi outta her way but she didn't. even in her darkest hours she never wanted harm on anyone- she harmed herself, her baby but not anyone else. gauri never thought or said once that she liked soham. arjun willingly put a ring on ovi's finger. gauri never gave an inkling of hope to soham, arjun got ovi pregnant. this is so much worse! ovi's love was years of being assured by others and sometimes by arjun that they would be together. soham was just making things up in his head.

this is a sad attitude- if a male is aggressive about a female then he is right and she should be with him but if a woman is aggressive about getting her man, then she is a b**t*h? wah wah!

Now coming to our show stopper Archana- archana with all your bhajan about 'why did i bring soham home and varsha's galti' what happened to your own galti?!? we dont even have to go 20 years ago. lets talk about what you did like a few months back. your son whom u left to be raised by wolves essentially was brought back to your home and had to live in a house with four educated polished siblings who'd been brought up with class and comfort- can one even imagine the kind of inferiority complex he must've felt? and if he didnt then that made him tots delusional and he started to think of himself as on par with sachin and a medical professional like gauri- they wouldnt even hire him as a peon in a hospital. archana brought another purvi mata bhakth into her house and was like ASSIMILATE! and voila! the magic happens and Soham ban gaya gentleman. What non-sense? if she was even a little bit cautious to her children's needs (other than purvi), then she would have made sure to get the best tutors in the world but ensure that Soham became an educated man who could hold his own in the family. being a grocery delivery man does not erase years of bad values. she needed to make soham the equal of sachin or another manav- get arjun to teach him business, get tutors for english, proper hindi, marathi, etiquette, not just coddle him as he is and gun gaan his physical labour and poor person kamai.

now lets come to a more recent time- two weeks back: how cleverly aai and her parvarish ki nishani just kind of forgot to mention to the family that they knew all about soham's crazy. purvi knew that he was harassing gauri and still felt that as long as her wonderful supporter dada did not kill someone it was all kosher. as long as she told her smart ass aai about it, these two smart ass women would deal with it. are you friggin kidding me?!? they should have discussed this as a family, maybe sachin wouldve not even married gauri or at least they couldve firmly told soham to choose his family or his zidd. or locked him up if thats what it took. but no, aai and her ladli just pretended like they didnt know anything- shocked innocent souls.

Loved, loved loved your post Teju...

Originally posted by: sherma

👏superb post.

i so agree soham is responsible for his own doings.i cant understnd gauri tld him directly no,cant he understnd that.h is continuously jhapoing meri gauri meri gauri.

i was so hoping he being little guilty fr wat he did to sachin after allhe is armaan son,but no he so wanted sachin dead.

soham is such a looser.i cant stand people like dem

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Today I loved Sachin-Gauri scene in hospital room.

This is all about how couple learn to know abt each other to become close and fall in love with Arrange marrage..I liked what I saw.

Soham is really delusional right now...May be Varsha can get thru to him more than any one else..Hope he comes to his senses b4 it is too late.

Archana's claim on she could not raise him with her sanskars was BS.

Her fault was in trusting a 3 yrs young innocent boy with mad sister Varsha who in turn kidnapped him and raised him with goon balan. But at the end of the day SOham is an adult..He has seen both bad and good life with Balan and ArMan. Now he should know what is right and wrong..What he is doing is making it worse for himself and hurting the girl who he claims to love the most..

I think Varsha is already feeling guilty abt the part she played in soham's life..Truth has a way of hitting you right in your face between the eyes 😳..

Haii Ash ! Rambling ho tho aisa :)
Kidding aside, this whole triangle saga is such a yawn ! There is no depth in any of the relationship combos - gauri & soham or gauri & sachin. One is non-existent and the other is just a budding relationship because of a arranged marriage.
As far as soham, Growing up in a rustic and rough atmosphere, I dont think he had an opportunity to know what it is like to be a friend with a girl. Gauri's kind words, acts of friendship is mistaken for love. She had never crossed the boundary, but he doesnt know the difference.. That is the sad part.. It still doesnt excuse his obsessive and maniacal behavior. When she doesnt have such feelings for him, what is wrong in her wanting to get married to a lawyer? A relationship has to be between equals. How can a doctor marry a ex-gunda, however reformed and who is uneducated? Does it ever happen in real life? Just imagine the life they will have !

Sachin and gauri's growing affection for each other is nothing strange. It happens in arranged marriages, it grows with time and proximity. That is how arrianged marriages go..
As far as the family goes, less said the better. I cannot excuse the parents, they are always in their on la-la land, where the Aai thinks that just by askjng the kids to follow her dikhat by constantly saying 'Mere liye karo', she is better-ing him. Whatever ! The funny side is all their kids have a problem comprehending the thin line of difference between love and friendship, be it Ovi (Arjun), Purvi (Onir), teju (sunny), each with a varying degree and now Soham at the extreme. Except sachin so far. I include Teju because what she professed once as undying love, she now takes a one year 'break' from it :) just plain ridiculous !
Sorry if I deviated from the topic Ash, but the whole track is a big BLAH for me ..

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Today I loved Sachin-Gauri scene in hospital room.

This is all about how couple learn to know abt each other to become close and fall in love with Arrange marrage..I liked what I saw.

Soham is really delusional right now...May be Varsha can get thru to him more than any one else..Hope he comes to his senses b4 it is too late.

Archana's claim on she could not raise him with her sanskars was BS.

Her fault was in trusting a 3 yrs young innocent boy with mad sister Varsha who in turn kidnapped him and raised him with goon balan. But at the end of the day SOham is an adult..He has seen both bad and good life with Balan and ArMan. Now he should know what is right and wrong..What he is doing is making it worse for himself and hurting the girl who he claims to love the most..

I think Varsha is already feeling guilty abt the part she played in soham's life..Truth has a way of hitting you right in your face between the eyes 😳..

Originally posted by: Ashlaika

Thanks Arohi.

Feel the same way as u do in your 1st paragraph! 👍🏼

Just one thing, at bold above, sometimes people do marry beneath their station (thats a good old fashion British way of saying ppl marry persons who are not on the same level as them) and they are VERY happy together... for whatever reason - either they balance out each other or what they bring to the marriage are very different and therefore work. I have seen it myself. Doctors marrying gardeners, Lawyers marrying clerks. Once the common values, morals, respect for each other is there, then I truly believe any man can marry any woman - regardless of position or status. BUT - they have to want to marry that person of course 😉 😊