Sacrifice! - Page 4

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

@ilovedhanjanird

I did not say physical want was what drove him into Ovi's arms. All I said was his love for Purvi does not cease to exist because he sleeps with Ovi or vice versa. I agree with you that Arjun's problem is he is emotionally weak. He finds it difficult to hurt people he cares for upfront but anyway, ends up hurting them in the long run. He is a confused, weak man.

Believe me, I have no great respect for such a man. I just don't see the need to hate him. Understanding his motives and justifying his actions are two different things. I was merely doing the former.

If you ask me, at this point in time, Arjun and Ovi are better people because they have faced up to their mistakes and are trying to rectify them. Purvi is still living in the bubble that is her family's bhalai. She is toying with ARJUN's emotions one again and seems not to be thinking enough about her daughter's future and her interests. My biggest problem with Purvi currently is that she is putting the world ahead of her daughter. This is abnormal because any mother would put her children ahead of the world. If you can't responsibility for the welfare of the one you have brought into this world, your commitment to the welfare of the world seems hollow!

Ovi is an adult at the end if the day. And she has been a party to the deal. In my opinion, the person whom Purvi has betrayed the most is Pari. As a foetus and an infant, it is her motehr's responsibility to protect her rights. Purvi has the right to place Archana's happiness above her own but does she have the right to deny Pari her rights? This is my biggest grouse with the character!

I completely agree with this! I agree that many people were hurt by this deal, marriage, baby swap and they ALL share blame (Arjun, Ovi, Purvi, Onir for the baby swap, Archana).

The ONLY person who is truly innocent is Pari. She deserves a mother who puts her first. But time after time, Purvi has not put Pari first. She should be her very first priority but instead the little baby has been the biggest victim of this whole debacle.

@ilovedhanjanird

I dont see the need to feel sorry for Pari. Shes certainly not in dire straits anymore. In fact she never was...

Originally posted by: sherma

sacrifice?wat is a sacrifice for u?i feel sacrifice is sumting whn a person whole heartedly gives her thing to another to make sum1 happy without any motive,wat purvi did had a motive,she dint sacrifice for ovi happiness,she did it fr archu happiness.it was the deal made by dem,chal if u still wannt to name as sacrifice,who was happy in it-arjun-ovi was having a bad marriage,purvi was pregnant,evn armaan wldnt b togethr unless savita truth wld b out.i agree to dis also ovi dint do any sacrifice but she never claimed that either,unlike purvi.but watever ovi did dint hurt any1 except herself,she is inn depression,she is all alone,she lost her baby,arjun-purvi are still romancing in rains.if we really want to knw wat is sacrifice is we shld see onir.he luvs purvi but still lettng her go fr pari,he lost her license cause of purvi,he is in streets cause of her,but we dint see any episode where he blames purvi.

I feel sorry for Pari for being the VICTIM in all of this. A baby when she grows, knows her mom's touch, who had she known? Ovi right?

When it comes to sacrifice people misunderstand. I dont think purvi made any sacrifice when it comes to arjun and ovi. It was a choice. She chose her mother's happiness over hers. She could live without arjun ( she actually left the town and in flashbacks when she was in that orphanage she was actually happy).But she cant be happy seeing her mom losing her husband. Even when she left, part of it was because she was pregnant and she didnt want to create havoc. I dont call that sacrifice either. The only one who deserves the title sacrificial lamb is none other than arjun.. I dont think i need to explain why because you already did. I liked the part where you said humans shouldnt be treated as belongings and poor arjun has been seen only as a thing where they grab it when they want and dispose it when they are done with it. Which is the reason why i think he should not be with purvi either because theres no guarantee that if something like this happens again she wont throw him under the bus for her family again.

she will be throwing him again renuka . Just wait till she knows Onir 'sacrificed' and see her transformation into Aishwarya Rai . I wonder what she will be wearing when she runs , a ghagra or a sari which she will lift cutely to her ankles or like a ghaati till her knees and i sure hope her horse hair wig won't fall off as she runs .

The babysitters parents in the US hire are mostly high school students who dont have background checks. Just recommendation letters from other parents. So that means all these parents who are leaving their kids with these teenagers are all BAD parents!