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Posted: 12 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Sowmya, I have noticed you do keep away from making vulgar comments and also noticed that the intestines post was one of the first I saw you write that way. I appreciate that - not just about Purvi but about Ovi as well and Arjun.

And no "craving for attention" was in no way meant in a lewd way, it did not imply she was looking for physical gratification. She is an attention craver, my POV, note I did not say "male attention" just "attention". Plus to me hanging out at the bar is not a crime, I know of youngsters that do, strait laced as the inferno down there, who don't drink or sleep around but go to the bars with friends for playing social catch up. So there was nothing lewd intended there as well, I was being sarcastic though as Ovi lovers talk about her oh so strict upbringing by her Aaji. And in Ovi's case the invitation was, I am sure, not for hanging out but to drink, she is an off and on alcoholic as portrayed in the show and as I perceive it (damodar's genes?). So calling a drunk a drunk is not lewd.

Anyway, I am contemplating being the hare in the hare and tortoise story so may try my prudish best to talk in like manner when I see vulgar stuff being spewed about the other characters. I may not succeed but no effort will be spared. 😉

Aside: pasted below the definition of lewd I am referencing. By that definition, calling Ovi a bar visitor or an attention craver is in no way lewd or obscene. We say Purvi and Arjun slept together before marriage, it is a fact so merely stating that to me is not lewd, embellishing it with details or referencing it with cheap innuendos is what makes it lewd to me. So calling the spade a spade where Ovi concerned and stating she frequents bars or is an attention hog is not lewd.

Adjective
Crude and offensive in a sexual way.
Synonyms
lascivious - obscene - salacious - bawdy - indecent


Jhanvi, thanks for clarifying. But you did mention that Ovi was unhappy that when she could get male attention elsewhere, she couldn't get arjun's 😊 And the tone of the post seemed to me as if you were implying ovi was sleeping around and dressed skimpily to attract male attention. I agree with everything else you say, but just one thing more on this subject. When you explicitly say you agree with someone's posts, then you say that you agree with everything they posted (I'm being generic here, same goes for me too obviously and I think this is general internet etiquette). And there have been a lot of lewd comments on ovi in this thread itself, which looks like you've endorsed. Just something to think about 😊

Edited by sowmya_jairam - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#52
Just to post an answer to the topic makers question- Ovi - Holy Message Of Marathi Saints
Dnyaneshwari's 18 chapters are composed of paragraphs called "ovi". i absolutely dont understand why people are still obsessing about her. its sad to see some to the members whose commentaries I use to read with enthusiasm have become baseless bashers. i think myself to be a rational critique and thus have always refrained from commenting on any silly discussions about clothing and such. and i genuinely believed that many purvi fans where like that but apparently not anymore. just hold tight guys, ovi's character has been written off, arvi is about to reunite and ovi fans will probably leave the forum soon. i dont see the need to make offensive comments about a beautiful name.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham

Just to post an answer to the topic makers question- Ovi - Holy Message Of Marathi Saints
Dnyaneshwari's 18 chapters are composed of paragraphs called "ovi". i absolutely dont understand why people are still obsessing about her. its sad to see some to the members whose commentaries I use to read with enthusiasm have become baseless bashers. i think myself to be a rational critique and thus have always refrained from commenting on any silly discussions about clothing and such. and i genuinely believed that many purvi fans where like that but apparently not anymore. just hold tight guys, ovi's character has been written off, arvi is about to reunite and ovi fans will probably leave the forum soon. i dont see the need to make offensive comments about a beautiful name.


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Teju di, if only people like you were more in this forum. I always respect people older than me but its funny how some people are so obsessed with proving their point that they cross all limits of decency and try to instigate fan groups
As for Ovi fans, most of us only respond to kools and when topics are made on ovi
The other fan group start an argument for no reason !!

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Posted: 12 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: m_masti

I don't know why people cannot stick to the topic...

if the topic is about Ovi's name meanig...then why it has to go and bash about her...and why to take Purvi's name...
the names are given by parents...so you should blame ArMan if they gave meaningless names...and the purpose of the topic is over and you got the response for what Ovi names means...so you should start praising the meaning but instead people start bashing abd at the end of the day you say Ovi is not comparing worth for Purvi, then you should know that before only or atleast you should stop comparing next time...


What does what she was named have anything to do with what she wears 😆
I wish I understood why people always trying to annoy ovi fans even if we try to keep away 😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: cs-07

very good question
though arjun thinks he tried his best to make the marriage work by talking to his laptop
by being a bad husband and running after purvi literally when he saw her in kolkata
despicable husband


Leave it! I urge all ovi/ Shruti fans to keep away from such threads where members are making an issue out of nothing 😆
How does Ovi's name have anything to do with what she wears
I wish I understood
It all goes back to the backless blouse thread where members were offended because we said backless blouse should not be worn in public as it might give a negative vibe
I also mentioned ovi dresses wrong according to Indian standards
I don't know why her clothes are an issue now 😆
Some members just can't get over it
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Posted: 12 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: pjoe



so what if she wears short skirts? She can wear anything she wants! She was in Canada, not India, and was raised without a mother unlike Purvi!


Lol with all due respect, when parents don't forbid eur chi,seen from doing something they naturally do it
Manav was a single father and savita didn't seem to stop her from wearing what she wants
Not everyone understands what it must be like to go out there and have guys stare at you
Ovi was raised in Canada and maybe she doesn't have the knowledge 😕
Purvi wearing backless blouses is quite different than this
Ovi is not right in wearing those clothes but who will teach her those? 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: Ashi22

But Now Ovi wants Divorce she even signed the Paper, Why Arjun and Purvi not letting her Go.


Branagh my question too
Arjun was crying yesterday although I felt bad for him
I don't understand why he is upset
He didn't even wait for ovi when she got drunk
If it were purvi he would wait for hours 😆
Both of them are making Ovi's life hell
Why not just free her?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sowmya_jairam


Jhanvi, thanks for clarifying. But you did mention that Ovi was unhappy that when she could get male attention elsewhere, she couldn't get arjun's 😊 And the tone of the post seemed to me as if you were implying ovi was sleeping around and dressed skimpily to attract male attention. I agree with everything else you say, but just one thing more on this subject. When you explicitly say you agree with someone's posts, then you say that you agree with everything they posted (I'm being generic here, same goes for me too obviously and I think this is general internet etiquette). And there have been a lot of lewd comments on ovi in this thread itself, which looks like you've endorsed. Just something to think about 😊


Sowmya, last one here as I do have to go get my car. I was told by none other than our own Shyamala that liking a post does not mean agreeing with everything the poster says😆. I have liked posts that have criticized Purvi in the past if the post was in response to mine or if I liked the person's way of writing or even their way of thinking and presenting arguments like I have done with Pari87 before. So if you see my "like" that is what it means. 😉 though I might change my habit on that and stop liking posts by Ovi lovers.😆 Yes, Ovi is a model and she is used to admiration, probably mostly male, I dare to presume, but Arjun the guy she liked showed no interest in her. No, did not imply she was sleeping around or was going around skimpily clad to get "male" attention. As an aside, I see (innocent) teen girls dressing somewhat scantily and getting upset when it garners unwelcome attention. That is a totally different topic, women's right to dress as they please even if the men see it a "come hither" thing, that was what was said about Purvi's blouses as well. My take briefly is that discretion is more important than anything else, being aware of where you are and who you are with, safety comes first before any rights and that POV is strictly that of a daughter's mother.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#59

Originally posted by: Rocking9vivian

Go check that episode they did kiss ... Really ovi seduced ? That has never happened stop imagining things ... Wearing western clothes its her style she is a model she doesnt wear them to seduce ppl.


Please don't argue with them they are all trying to glorify purvis actions by demeaning ovi
Which doesn't make sense
We all accept what ovi has done
Unfortunately other people don't
And that's their opinion
Shruti is the best actress! Love her
She is so underrated
I wish the right project comes along and she gets e recognition she deserves
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: barun99hit

Thats such a sweet name too pure ... THE NAME IS BEAUTIFUL AS THE ACTRESS SHRUTI YOU ROCK ... PLZ QUIT THIS CRAP IM SURE EXCITING ROLES WAITING YOU OUT OF BALAJI ALL BCOZ OF UR ACTING ABILITIES


Exactly ! Shruti is beautiful and ovi is a good character
I don't care what other people think
Please keep supporting Shruti
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