Originally posted by: soapwatcher1
Pari, I agree she does give cause for comment and being the second lead is constantly on screen and so has to expect to be the cynosure of all eyes to a certain degree. I personally just find some of the remarks against her and Arjun and maybe even against Onir to some extent repugnant 'cos of the lewd references. Not mentioning Ovi's name as I have not come across vulgar stuff written against her but that would be equally gross. Again, my POV, that is all.
Frankly, I will talk for myself and my so called "lewd" remarks n this couple. I find it deplorable what arjun purvi have done. I find it ridiculous to even talk about Arjun, because a character parading as a lead but being so low and disugusting is not worth my my time.
Purvi, is another one. I use terms like trick, shameless, pathetic, loser and jeeja-saali because in my mind they fit this description pretty apt. I have used this symbolš¤¬many a times to not use derogatory terms, but more so to avoid the MODS and their incessant WL raising stuff. I don't go about abusing members and that is what I think is more important. Some people have outright called us names and said whatever directly to us, and us being real people. I use sarcasm and not abuse.
In reality, if my daughter would even come home telling me about some idiotic idea of love with a guy who committed himself to my other daughter,I would tell her to forget about it. IF she continued this nain mataka nonsense with a man married to her sister, I would rightly call it incest, because in my mind that is what it is. I don't like people like Purvi and I see her for her devastating actions and dimwit behavior, not the intentions. I would not pamper my daughters whims and say yes pre-marital sex was fine, agreeing t a shoddy deal for my sake was tyaagi and then continuing this behind back eye locking is understandable. Same way, I had condemned ovi's deal making and suicidal tactics and I would not tolerate it either. So I see characters based on what I think in reality.
I have always said, if people on this forum are adult enough to like rain scenes between a couple and find pulses racing to see a hut scene of their jodi, or justifying pre-marital sex ad the petitions to break marriages..then they are adult enough to not mind my remarks either. It should not be smoething that hurts anybody's feelings, as long as I am not making lewd remarks on them.
I am totally of the view that If they are fictional characters I can pretty much say what I want, with the choicest of remarks that I wish. In reality, peple like Arjun and Purvi wuold be called much much worse in society. Here, we sometimes have to keep the rules of a forum in mind. But, high society or chawl system, they would be called a lot of crap behind their backs or upfront.
And lastly, I would not wish any of these pathtic PR characters in any of my loved one's lives. So it would be nt ovi r purvi or archu or anybdy else.
Edit/added: I hope this did not sound personal, I was jut telling you what I think of my comments. I'm not sure of my remarks counted as lewd for you, so thought to put my opinion across.