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pari87

@pari87

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Posted: 12 years ago

#71

Originally posted by: Missscarlett

@ bold : r u talking to me? if yes then i don't believe i have ever made a comment saying that i want ovi to accept Arjun and his 'illegitimate' child anywhere. I just cringed that Ovi would take out her frustations on a small child by saying pari's fault is that she is arvi's baby!
And i dont believe that we 'purvi mandal' have ever made any post praising purvi that she is undeserving of! unlike some other members of this forum who bash and love making mountains out of mole hills with the excuse that 'they are just stating the obvious' !

DId your post mention laa laa praises? I guess not! So do not infer I am talking to you...A ton of people ahead of you spoke about purvi needing to recover from shock..go on to page 1 if you like..I was talking in general terms.

So I do not think I need to even debate with you on what you wanted or did not want. I have experienced in the past, that arguing with some people is just not going to end with a discussion. So, you be happy with your point, I am happy with mine.

People love to make mountains out of mole hills from a post and start fighting,. I am so not interested. Peace out.

Edited by pari87 - 12 years ago

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

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Posted: 12 years ago

#72

A baby DOES have to be attached to the hip 24/ 7 . Those who leave it and go to do job go to PROVIDE for the baby and leave it in day care etc with their full contact details in case of emergency . The mothers who do job RUSH to the baby after the work hours , their guilt is THAT touching and overpowering . Here

The mother does not do job

has not given baby to her father who can provide for her

switched off mobile so nobody could contact her

did NOT inform the father that the baby was with a friend

did not tell her friend to contact the dad in case of an emergency

WHO says that to be a mother one does NOT have to attach a child , a baby , an infant to the hip 24 hors ?? From where did this weird , fantastic logic spring from? From their like of the character Purvi ?

Just bcoz its Purvi doesn't mean a baby can be treated ANYHOW .

A baby can be left only if mom is doing job or is physically sick .

Otherwise 24/ 7 it is . It is called MOTHERING .

This family was not even in touch with Purvi a few days back , how shameful is it not to tell Arjun and impose on their charity saying Gauri is my friend ?

Pride with Arjun and self effacing behaviour with Gauri's family , a perfect bunch of outsiders ?

Why the hell should Gauri's mom or Gauri who is herself a doctor and has responsibilities look after Pari while the mother pulls a narcissistic missing stunt and sits like a sundari drenched in the rain?

The baby MUST be handed over to Arjun . She cannot provide for it , she cannot even give it a roof . She does not even care properly for it . Arjun can provide for it by hiring a professional nanny or nurse .

Waneeka your post is NOT pathetic but spot on .

Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 12 years ago

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m_masti

@m_masti

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#73

what Purvi thinks is "Pari gayi tho kyaa Arjun hein na, vo mujhe doondne ayega aur mein uss se aur pariya paida kar sakthi hu"...

things wetn lil beyond Purvi's manipulation, that why she needed some time to plot...

Purvi just uses Pari to save herself and to get shelter and to get fruits without any labor...if she has pinch of shame left she will give Pari to Arjun and will leave from the family saying she wants "sabh ki bhalaayi"...Homewrecker shamelessly made a missing stunt to stay at K's home...

Edited by m_masti - 12 years ago

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xxxnm

@xxxnm

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Posted: 12 years ago

#74

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
A baby DOES have to be attached to the hip 24/ 7 . Those who leave it and go to do job go to PROVIDE for the baby and leave it in day care etc with their full contact details in case of emergency . The mothers who do job RUSH to the baby after the work hours , their guilt is THAT touching and overpowering . Here

The mother does not do job

has not given baby to her father who can provide for her

switched off mobile so nobody could contact her

did NOT inform the father that the baby was with a friend

did not tell her friend to contact the dad in case of an emergency

WHO says that to be a mother one does NOT have to attach a child , a baby , an infant to the hip 24 hors ?? From where did this weird , fantastic logic spring from? From their like of the character Purvi ?

Just bcoz its Purvi doesn't mean a baby can be treated ANYHOW .

A baby can be left only if mom is doing job or is physically sick .

Otherwise 24/ 7 it is . It is called MOTHERING .

This family was not even in touch with Purvi a few days back , how shameful is it not to tell Arjun and impose on their charity saying Gauri is my friend ?

Pride with Arjun and self effacing behaviour with Gauri's family , a perfect bunch of outsiders ?

Why the hell should Gauri's mom or Gauri who is herself a doctor and has responsibilities look after Pari while the mother pulls a narcissistic missing stunt and sits like a sundari drenched in the rain?

The baby MUST be handed over to Arjun . She cannot provide for it , she cannot even give it a roof . She does not even care properly for it . Arjun can provide for it by hiring a professional nanny or nurse .

Waneeka your post is NOT pathetic but spot on .

yeah bc one plays no other role in life other than being a mother. no it does not have to be attatched to the hips. providing for a baby means u have to take care of urself first. leaving a baby alone w/ a responsible person who is willing for a few hours does not mean that u r irresponsible. by that logic when ovi was asleep and let tej take of the child, she was not mothering. jeez i canot believe we are having this argument. its so ridiculous to think that a mother ceases to be a human being once she becomes a mother.

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

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Posted: 12 years ago

#75

so one should think before having sex and giving birth to a baby about ceasing or blossoming as a human being ...a baby CANNOT be ignored period . The mother here is NOT doing a job , Gauri is . After the children grow up one can think of taking some time for oneself but when its a baby it needs 24 hours care . Not just singing filmy lullabies and pulling missing stunts as and when it pleases or leaving baby with strangers like Shalini .

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Winzy

@nicegirl_good

Sparkler

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Posted: 12 years ago

#76

Originally posted by: Missscarlett
i find this post to be a pathetic excuse to bash purvi . Just because u are a mother doesnt mean that u have to have your baby attached to your hip 24*7. Purvi is not only a mother but also a human being with feelings.She just got the biggest shock of her life.I think she is entitled at least get time to process it. I don't find anything wrong in leaving your child with a trusted adult friend who is also a doctor to take time and process out your feelings.

Biggest shock? Why? She doesn't love onir

So why is this a shock

She was never into this marriage to begin with

She loved Arjun all along

I don't understand why she is hurt

Doesn't she say onir is her friend

So why not accept it and move on and go with your love

Of she loved onir I would be sympathetic

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Shweta laxman

@-Stardust-

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#77

i honestly dont understand the big fuss that is being made of Purvi leaving Pari with Gauri! But then again this is the PR forum! 😉

i firmly stand i my opinon that Purvi isnt just a mother but also a human being with emotions! Unless people say that just because she is a mother she isnt entitled to any emotions and that she has turned into a robot who can feel nothing even if her life is crumbling before her eyes. She has been betrayed by the man whom she trusted so very much above the rest even the man who is the love of her life. She is entitled to have a emotional breakdown. To show grief and to sort out the mess that is of her life so that she can move ahead! Better to do it in private then in Public like some people in PR who love making a tamasha of their emotions.

And yes. i believe that a child doesnt need to be attached to the hip of his/her mother all the time or else majority of the women would have died of exhaustion! Everyone needs a break even mothers! Especially if a life changing event has occurred in their lives! And its not like Purvi left Pari on the streets . She left her with a capable women and her mother who i think can handle a child for a few hours!

i dont think Purvi committed a sin (like some people are implying it to be ) by leaving Pari with Gauri. And i am not saying this because i am deluded and sooo in love with Purvi's character! this is my pov uninfluenced by the fact that i am a purvi fan!

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Shweta laxman

@-Stardust-

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#78

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Biggest shock? Why? She doesn't love onir
So why is this a shock
She was never into this marriage to begin with
She loved Arjun all along
I don't understand why she is hurt
Doesn't she say onir is her friend
So why not accept it and move on and go with your love
Of she loved onir I would be sympathetic

Purvi considered Onir to be her friend . I guess if a friend betrays you would be most definitely hurt.She trusted Onir above all , even Arjun. I think she would obviously be hurt and shocked coming to know that a man who she trusted and respected is something else only. She is human after all right?

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..CrazyInLove..

@..CrazyInLove..

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Posted: 12 years ago

#79

Aren't we past the point of being surprised at how irresponsible of a mother she can be? She has left Pari time and again in order to do her shenanigans. Purvi gave up Pari for Ovi's bhalaayi. Left her with with Arjun even though he couldn't find a nanny for her, for ArOvi marriage bhalaayi. Wanted Ovi to replace her baby with Pari. In order to give Pari polio vaccine, she doesn't bother checking the weather and leaves home without an umbrella subjecting her to pneumonia instead.

She had already found out about Shalini and Onir's relation and had left her house then too, so why this natak all over again? Despite having no money and place to go, she doesn't call Arjun to take care of their daughter for a few days instead she lands up at Gauri's house. Gauri is not her best friend for her to end up at her house. If I recall correctly these two only met at some tennis meet where they were both participating. Gauri is fit to be her acquaintance as of now, because these two have hardly connected other than over Archana's treatment. And even if Gauri was her best friend, its Purvi's responsibility to take care of her daughter and not to hand her off to some next person. Purvi claimed a few days ago that she would never desert Pari like Archana has abandoned her so what happened to that promise?

Anyways since she and Arjun both feel like they haven't really betrayed Ovi since what happened was before Arjun-Ovi marriage. Then the same can apply here where whatever happened was before Purvi-Onir marriage and hence shouldn't be fussed over since neither of them have asked him the million dollar question about whether he had gotten a divorce or not. Just waiting for the truth to blow up in their faces when hopefully they find out that Onir was just doing this so they could reunite, how lousy they will feel for accusing him.

Edited by MayurSidma - 12 years ago

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#80

Thats why one must THINK twice before giving birth to a baby . Coz it is a 24 hours job . And yes it is very exhausting . Not at all filmy . Two minutes Ovi left baby on the bed and went to get a change of clothes she was critiqing her parenting . Here the baby is left with a friend for hours , even the friend doesn't know and has question marks and the mobile is switched off ! Ovi carries the baby with her even to husband's office , this great mom leaves her baby with roadside strangers like Shalini ! Gauri does a job , its good enough she gave shelter , how much to burden her , isn't it pretty shameless ? Who the hell is telling her to cease being a human being , if she wants some time to herself , call Arjun and give him the baby and say u need to be alone for a few hours ! But things r done with some sense and protocol not like this .

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