Archu proved Purvi is only an adopted daughter - Page 10

Originally posted by: rakie

I Agree With everything U just Said when ovi is spoilt brat what more can u expect and don't forget she is archana and manav Barbie doll so if they slap her they might hurt their proclain doll

Originally posted by: sk11

People feel there's a different treatment of the girls because of how the family reacts.

When Archu realized about arvi love... She beat the living daylights out of purvi...

When Archu realized ovi married Arjun ...she got shocked sat down and was angry...

When Archu realize ovi is drinking in her pregnancy and being reckless...Archu just talks it out

When Archu realized purvi and Arjun share a daughter...purvi is slapped and disowned

Edit: and purvi is shunned and not even allowed to speak while ovi is listened to and not shunned by family

Originally posted by: merrydock

archana and manav proved that blood is thicker then the love and sacrafice of a child that is not your own blood. if Archana had given birth to Purvi, she would not have treated her so harshly.

purvi made a mistake, but she was going to marry Arjun, but she sacrafised her love for that sake of Archana, she sacrafised the love of her family for the sake of Ovi.

Ovi is such a cold heated, selfish person, she actually had the gall to question Purvi about why she didnt not have an abotion. what sort of woman is she. asking another woman to kill her unborn child just so that she can be happy with the man she stole from that woman. shame on her.

Ovi question just goes to show just how selfish she is.

none of them deserve purvi. i want Arjun to take pari and purvi and get the hell away from the deshmukh family. the three of them should go to another town and life a peacefull happy life.

Originally posted by: arjunpurvixo

He's said so many times that he's accepted it only for HER. Purvi claimed that it'd make her happy and he once promised to her that he'd do anything for her happiness.

Haha, did she have her entire family's love and support then? Archana and Manav were separated and their kids were taught to hate her. Archana tried hard to win their love but it just didn't work.

How did she sacrifice her whole family? They didn't accept her before this whole Arjun-Purvi mess either...

Originally posted by: arjunpurvixo

He's said so many times that he's accepted it only for HER. Purvi claimed that it'd make her happy and he once promised to her that he'd do anything for her happiness.

Haha, did she have her entire family's love and support then? Archana and Manav were separated and their kids were taught to hate her. Archana tried hard to win their love but it just didn't work.

How did she sacrifice her whole family? They didn't accept her before this whole Arjun-Purvi mess either...

Originally posted by: ambolove

So by anything, purvi can demand whatever she likes? That is not acceptable. Love is supposed to be innocent. By your reasoning Purvi should have uphelded her own side of the bargain and sex with Onir. Sex seems to be a plaything these days. No respect for it at all. Arjun might as well have sex with several prostitutes. He could have shown his true love for Purvi by NOT having sex with Ovi, as most men have a reputation of having sex with women other than the one they claim to love. By abstaining, he would have shown that he cares for Purvi more than anything. Purvi would have seen the bigger picture much more earlier.

Originally posted by: anugupta

I agree that Purvi deserved to be slapped but how DARE they support Ovi in this fiasco. Arjun and Purvi were ENGAGED to be married when Ovi in her obsession for Arjun broke them up for her own selfish needs.

Ovi has NO right to expect any love from Arjun because she never loved Arjun - she just wanted to have him for her own. So she should have been prepared from the start to live a loveless life. And Arjun and Purvi consummated at a time when both were engaged and expecting to be married. While it is 'wrong' in the eyes of their family members - it is also logically explained.

So someone please tell Manav to stop baby'ing his little girl Ovi and teach her that this is the punishment she gets for trying to be an obnoxious spoiled brat.

And oh yeah - Archu and Manav - need I remind you that the only reason your together is because Purvi sacrificed her relationship so you could have yours. And don't you dare tell her to stop her mahaanta because Archana was the epitome of mahanta for 18 years when she had no care for her daughters just to act like a martyr in front of Manav. So growing up seeing that - what else can we expect from Purvi...

Originally posted by: ambolove

I'm not saying you're wrong but this is where opinions of younger and older generation differ. To us we may shunt them, not look them in the eye, ignore them for a bit and then welcome them back into our arms because surely the younger generation are more softer.

Whereas older generations thoughts differ. Our mothers are what you would call from the middle generation and to say they have a stiff upper lip is about right. They may hug us, care for us but some of their thoughts are still in like with what their own mother's and father's taught them.

I'm afraid when you're angry with someone you love, you DON'T listen to what is coming out of your own mouth. You just let loose.

And that is indeed what is. Archana is portrayed to love Purvi more than anything in this world, second only to manav, even manav might be number 2 on the list.

Archana sees it as maternal fulfillment which was taken by Purvi and trodden all over on then thrown in the rubbish dump.

Ask any older mother and they will say the same thing, when they say 'I disown you' they mean 'I'm hurt more than anything and do not want to see your face right now.' The pain a mother goes through when she says those words to her daughter is not understood by us until we become mothers ourself. The mother herself then goes to ask for forgiveness and holds her daughter in her arms.

See the way Archana put all blame on herself and said 'This is not Purvi's fault' Means that she's already softening to Purvi all over again.

Purvi does not need to be accepted by the deshmukhs. They were NEVER her family. Just people that are related to her mother. Her family is Archana and Sulochana. Deshmukhs came afterwards, they don't need to be grateful for her and vice versa for plenty of reasons mainly the fact that they didn't know she existed.

Archana is the one who gave her nurture and sustainance, in return all Archana asked of Purvi was respect.

I disagree with you on the fact that archana never accepted her. Archana always gave Purvi more love than she ever gave to anyone else. So why would Purvi suffer from low self esteem.

Ask someone who has low self esteem.

Can't talk on the phone. Definetely wouldn't even think about intercourse. Wouldn't dare even argue with the boss or stand up for themselves. Getting in touch with your mothers family. Talking to the police and about court issues. Marriage without family input. Having a boyfriend then finding someone else without any assistance, after break up.

These are all things that Purvi has done. Contrary to your beliefs, Purvi has a very high self esteem.