When will Purvi learn? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Purvi trusted pari with Shalini who she has known for less than 24 hrs...Gosh how careless and negligent can one be? Or is she really that silly and naive to trust? I dont care if she takes chance with her own life but not with an innocent helpless baby Pari...What is she thinking 😡😲

Purvi would trust anyone even a dog over Arjun. I don't know how the cvs are reuniting them, when they show Purvi treat Arjun like dirt over and over again, I can't see the logic in the story and the love as PR.

i don understand some post sometimes dey said purvi is good mother to pari n sometime dey said purvi is worst mother to pari

you know you cant blame Purvi, the way Savita and Sulochana treated her and spoke to her was teriable, accusing her of chasing Arjun and trying to steal him for ovi, they blamed her entirely for Arjun and Ovi's marriage falling apart.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

she introduced Arjun to Shalini as ' Onir's Dost'

???????????????

Wasn't her relation with Arjun much much closer than Onir who got to know him only after marrying her , only because of her

couldn't she introduce him as HER friend

or ...sister's husband😉

she says she considers THAT family as HER family

Arjun is a relation of sorts ...its a fact

who is Shalini , a woman she does not even know from Adam

just met her a day ago

how much does she know Arjun

way more than that

how much has Arjun done up to date for her

leaving riches , staying in a chawl , marrying someone he didn't love , fulfilling her conditions and becoming miserable , not once getting angry about the fact that Pari's conception was kept from him

even now he is not concentrating on his marraige but trying to protect herand this is the trashy way he is introduced as if she was embarassed by him

embarassed in front of whom ...a woman she doesn't even know

she is EMBARASSED of Arjun in front of strangers , and this is a love story where he does not get any respect

How would she feel if Arjun introduces her as someone's friend and tells her to go from the door itself

she invites him in when she is alone but when someone is there she shoos him away from the door ????????

is he trash , kachra , a worn out slipper , what

no

he is a big tycoon who has trusted his daughter to her care bcoz she was the mother although she lived in awful circumstances , not something he would want his daughter subjected to and had come to see her and this is the treatment he gets

what has Arjun got for this trust in her who had not even told her of his child's conception

a peep at his child after being told to leave like some dog at the door

and after this there is gonna be a reunion

is it gonna be so easy to simply forget her treatment of Arjun

r those who r exclusively HIS fans gonna accept this , i am not talking of ARVI fans only Arjun fans

coz im not his fan but i find his trashy treatment infuriating

she gives him zilch respect and there is no love where there is no respect , who r we kidding when we r saying its a love story

is it this attitude ...ok , he wants her , let them be together then , yes she treats him awfully but what to do , better than be with Ovi

Let us keep Ovi totally out of the picture for a minute and just see his equation with Purvi

Arjun has only been treated like trash and USED in this equation .

And getting used to this treatment of his is no love story . What Arjun and Purvi r they gonna show after this , who will want to live with this girl ????

I have to agree with you here. Purvi is really 'showing off' so to speak when it comes to arjun. Arjun on the other hand, is overly kind to her. It seems to me that he loves her more than she loves him. At least this is what I am seeing from on angle. Arjun seem to be more open about his interaction with purvi and less fearful as he is just tired of trying to please everyone and ends up being the least happy. What sort of satisfaction does one get by making their life miserable just for others to be happy and those same 'others' does not care two hoots about you?

Looking at the flip side of things, it may be that she usually feels awkward and nervous in Arjun's presence and hence her behaviour/reaction when he is around because she has not been able to forget him and is still deeply in love with him. I think it is her fear that she may fall weak in front of him if he continues to interact with her. At the same time she is quite conscious that she is married to Onir and he too has done so much for her. She is torn between these two but choose to give preference to Onir because she is married to him and lives with him.

Originally posted by: xoxoarvi

Purvi will learn the day when Onir's "truth" comes out, then she will know Arjun is and was always right.
It's going to be a rude awakening for her then.

Arjun has a right to make sure that his daughter is in a safe home, I mean if Onir is being do rude to him, that would make him question the safety and well being of his daughter.

Purvi will get what she deserves. All I have to say the laughs going to be on her, and there again we will see Arjun giving her the shoulder to cry on.

I agree. Arjun loves her so much and more so because she is the mother of his child. He will again give her the shoulder to cry on. He feels this strong need to protect her and pari because he loves both of them. I think he wants for her to wake up and see things for what they are but she is just stuck in that one place, trusting everyone over him and even her own instincts. She need to re start using her brains to think.

Originally posted by: merrydock

you know you cant blame Purvi, the way Savita and Sulochana treated her and spoke to her was teriable, accusing her of chasing Arjun and trying to steal him for ovi, they blamed her entirely for Arjun and Ovi's marriage falling apart.

Purvi may have doubts about onir, but this she cant accept even to herself. after all the things onir has done for her. he married her even though she was pregnant with somebody elses child. his lost his medical license because of her. gave up his home came to mumbai for her. its like the same thing all over again. Purvi indepthness to onir makes her handicap. just like she was indepted to Archana for bringing her up and giving her a home. Purvi sacrafised everything for Archana even her love Arjun.

until arjun or she finds real proof purvi cant and wont be able to accuse Onir of any wrongdoing. Arjun has to find out for real what is onir up to with the two ladies.

and as for trusting Arjun. purvi does trust Arjun but right now she cant put herself in his part for any reason. she is more scared that if someone sees them togther they would missunderstand her and Arjun accuse them of cheating on ovi and onir.

Agree with you. It can be looked at from this angle too. But like I said its time she stop worrying about everyone and worry about herself. No one cares how purvi lives, if she has food, water or clothes to wear not even pari. The only one who thinks about her well being right now and can offer assistance is arjun. Onir is doing his husbandly duties but that is as far as it gets. If he is not behaving in a normal manner and you suspect him, then your only fall back is arjun. So why not utilize him. He would not come to your doorstep to lie about onir just to have you. He would have done this long ago. He just care for you, something which no one else has shown towards you.

Its not that she cannot do this, she can. She is strong enough to stand up for herself. If she can face Manav to talk to him about Archu then she can support herself. Why care about savita and sulo. Sulo whose house you got exposed for could care less how you live.

Originally posted by: punirashakti

i don understand some post sometimes dey said purvi is good mother to pari n sometime dey said purvi is worst mother to pari

n also not understan sometime dey said purvi understand arjun n his fillings n trutst him totaly bt nw dey said purvi not trust arjun...n treat him jst like crap...mindblowinggg 😆

I am not a die hard supporter of purvi, Ovi, Arjun, Onir or for that matter any character in PR that even if they do wrong based on the story that I would go all out in support of them blindly. I see things for what they are and comment on the story how I see it. I hope this would have clear/clarify my comments so far in this forum.

2 things i want to point out